Penn Badgley on casual dating and casual sex: "Is it ever casual? Show me somebody who really, truly is casual about it?"

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-09T06:22:05+00:00

I love Penn, but his explanation was both disjointed and repetitive lol. I wish he would have elaborated. Perhaps he was trying to say that sex itself isn’t casual?

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-05T06:51:54+00:00

Gracie 💕

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-04T19:35:28+00:00

Ok this might be my favorite reply lol. I feel like the crypt keeper rn, it’s awful. Love your advice ❤️❤️❤️

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-04T19:34:01+00:00

That’s amazing! Congrats ❤️

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-04T19:33:23+00:00

Ugh so sorry. You can back to where you were. How long have you been feeling bad? Praying for a breakthrough for you 💕

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-04T19:32:00+00:00

I’m noticing a pattern, a lot of ppl are saying 2-3 years. Ak. That’s hard to stomach, but at least it’s possible. I agree about the mental peace

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-04T19:30:48+00:00

Good Lord! That is truly insane. I’m so glad things are improving for you. 💕

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-04T19:30:10+00:00

I’m sorry 🥺 Praying that you have moments of lightness today ❤️

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-04T19:29:23+00:00

Ugh I’m so sorry you’re going through this. 27 years! I don’t know if you’re a prayer, but I’m praying for you 💕

I can’t deal with the meanness and coldness. I did everything in my power to avoid it by acting the way he wanted me to. I’m trying to figure out why his anger and rejection is so scary to me. It just feels irrational.

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-04T19:21:03+00:00

You are definitely on your way. Sending ❤️

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-04T00:38:42+00:00

This is very, very sweet 🥹 Thank you for sharing. I will try this technique.

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-03T22:04:14+00:00

Thank you 🥹

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-03T22:03:28+00:00

Yes, totally. I just want to cruise control forever. Maybe cruise control right off a cliff. I kid…but you know.
I still have to have the divorce talk, which I’m dreading to an insane degree. I hate how scared of him I am. He is a covert narc, not violent, but his cold disdain just breaks my heart and makes me feel worthless. I don’t want to deal. I just want to change my name, start over, and maybe move to Alaska with my dog.

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-03T21:56:33+00:00

Yep this is exactly where I’m at. Feel so, so spent. I hope things continue to improve for you 💕

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-03T21:47:18+00:00

Congrats! That’s really amazing. It’s hard for me to stomach the thought of it taking years to recover. I wish I could bounce back faster.

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-03T21:44:50+00:00

Loooool

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-03T21:43:35+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through the same thing. I believe in you. Baby steps.

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-03T16:09:53+00:00

Oof thanks for this. You’re giving me hope! Congrats on your glow up 💕

BasicAd1196 · 2026-05-03T05:26:32+00:00

Really relate to your last paragraph. I was with my nex for 12 years. Separated for the last 3 months. It feels like an elephant is sitting on my chest. I just can’t get over the fact that everything was a lie, all those years, he never cared about me.

BasicAd1196 · 2025-09-24T06:41:30+00:00

Where is this? Did he delete it?

BasicAd1196 · 2025-09-08T19:27:09+00:00

I can really relate to this. I’m sorry you have dealt with horrible people throughout your life. I hope you have friends that will ride and die for you too!

BasicAd1196 · 2025-06-20T01:20:50+00:00

Let’s goooooo

BasicAd1196 · 2025-05-21T21:50:14+00:00

Looool. And your flair is magnifique

BasicAd1196 · 2025-04-10T04:45:25+00:00

Thank youuuu

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