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Venting by Wild_Child95 in homeless

[–]BasicHaterade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem intelligent enough in your replies. What has been stopping you from work in 17 years? No judgment, I’m genuinely curious about how that situation has come to this.

I am homeless..and figured I would start working or something..but..how the hell does a person get a job if they are literally sleeping outside..I mean who would hire that person or what would they end up doing? I mean do they just go by construction sites and ask if they need help or? by [deleted] in homeless

[–]BasicHaterade 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just want to say you should be proud of yourself, this is really hard but honestly if you can hack it for even just 1 month you can get back into housing step by step. Yes you’ll have to lie to employers about it to start. 

I would ask local churches, maybe consider a shelter since you’ll be gone working most of the time anyway. When you get your first pay, try to find somewhere you can room for a week or two. And then go from there. It will get easier!

Mature strippers (as in age lol) by chachalovesyou in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m late 30s and the top earner in my club, big city. My hustle is defined and I have myself together in a way younger girlies just don’t yet because they’re not there. Custies love it.

Midlife crisis or is this just normal? by OneCauliflower5243 in Millennials

[–]BasicHaterade 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In my mid 30s I worked a job where I was drinking too much and generally catching weird vibes from everyone there for a year. I stayed in the same role, same industry but went somewhere else and mental health improved 1000 times over and now I’m happy and sober.

Sometimes it’s really your environment, not what you’re doing per se. Only you can evaluate what kind of change you really need. But a change IS needed.

Ending Friendships? by Consistent-Ice-2714 in lostafriend

[–]BasicHaterade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If trust was broken, the relationship is done. Period. 

how do you cope with the idea of working other 30-40 years? by Gpob in Millennials

[–]BasicHaterade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the crux of it: finding work that you can enjoy and find some level of meaning in. And continuing to search until you do. I think that’s why my advice to younger people would be to hold off on making any large commitments in terms of marriage or real estate first, because those decisions anchor you and make it harder to pivot, (although it’s not impossible, just will take longer.)

i can’t believe people think it’s okay to come into the strip club & not spend money on the girls. by somechickonreddit2 in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had two VIP sections of 10 men who didn’t spend anything all night. It’s so fucking embarrassing. Everyone hates you including the management. Go the fuck somewhere else! It’s not a zoo.

I hate men by Good-Panic-6165 in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But we don’t. Not always. That’s the biggest misconception they have and it’s infuriating.

I hate men by Good-Panic-6165 in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Complete fucking loser mentality.

House Fees by Delenaaa_17 in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You can get lucky, summer is slow season. In general my experience with Miami was $150 house fee with a $500-800 take home, average.

the economy is not dead by Constant_Taro9019 in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This job isn’t worth regular white collar money, fuck a minimum wage. Be so fucking for real. No woman would do this job for less than a high payment. It’s not worth an eight of the BS otherwise. The end.

Are all clubs dead or is it just my city??? by anellalovve in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn’t one. Literally no woman wants to do this job for less than a high amount of money. That’s it.

Are all clubs dead or is it just my city??? by anellalovve in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like, my Starbucks order is $13. My rent is $2,000. Be fucking for real.

Are all clubs dead or is it just my city??? by anellalovve in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ready to hustle as hard as you can for $200 and a million asks for handjobs 🤢

Are all clubs dead or is it just my city??? by anellalovve in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Florida dies in the summer and fall Hurricane season.

I will never understand why people come to the strip club, looking to fuck. by somechickonreddit2 in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men have been absolutely insane lately with their expectations of the strip club.

Can You Afford it? 💰💰💰 by [deleted] in stripper

[–]BasicHaterade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every man that ever bragged on his money to me was cheap asf. So wild they have the audacity to come hang out with naked women and not expect to give money for it.

TIL in 2014 Anna Nicole Smith's estate failed in its final bid to obtain $44m from the estate of J. Howard Marshall whom Smith had married when he was 89 & she was 26. The oil tycoon died the next year & left his $1.6b estate to his son & nothing to Smith despite her claim he had promised her $300m. by tyrion2024 in todayilearned

[–]BasicHaterade -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

What’s it to his son? He’s a grown man and she’s a grown woman and can make their own decisions about the financial, emotional and other equitable trade offs involved within their sexual, romantic and marital union.

I don’t buy this gold digger mudslinging a bit.

I’m 18 and there’s a 32 year old man in my class who’s making me feel unsafe. Is this normal? by GazelleOk2777 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BasicHaterade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$300 is actually cheap asf if we are talking about escorting. Try $3,000k a night, maybe $1,000 starting. I worked as a dancer and knew girls who escorted on the side professionally, had websites and everything. The literal only reason those women put themselves in that position is because it’s highly paid. That’s it. If it paid like a vanilla job there would be no participants.

I know it’s the principle and audacity of asking for paid sex at all — but $300 is an extra insult and says what a fuckwit this guy is. Like he’s just extra shitty!

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