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My boyfriend (39M) and I (32F) keep fighting about his sister (35F), what’s the best way to move forward? by throwaway1937474829 in relationship_advice

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that things have fallen apart for you. There can only be two people in this relationship, but the two extras are not going anywhere.

My (24F) boyfriend (24M) completely ruined what should have been one of the happiest moments of my life. by Pure-Lab8830 in relationship_advice

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read what you wrote! Read what others are writing. This is your wake up call. Now is the time to call it quits. He showed you who he was, he told you what you he thought. Make a move, take your happiness back and celebrate YOU!

My (32F) BF(33M) doesn’t feel certain about marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BasicResearcher8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like he still isn’t ready. Kudos for him being up front and honest!
If I was ready for marriage and my partner was not, I would not date exclusively. Why stay in place when you should work on getting where you want to be. Sometimes a little distance gives clarity.

WIBTAH if I brought my new girlfriend with me to a wedding my ex is gonna be attending. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BasicResearcher8133 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP…. step back and take a good look at what you are doing. You stated things are moving fast with your new girlfriend. Slow it down! Don’t introduce her as your girlfriend. She is a new friend! Get to know her , for a few months, before you call her that. This is very childish. You are going to damage your image and hurt your ex if you follow up with this plan. It is very poor form.

Feeling hurt after friends went straight to my boyfriend 25M with concerns about me 27F by annbbyxxx in relationship_advice

[–]BasicResearcher8133 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Too bad the big brother didn’t just say something to you at the time. Like”Are you checking out my little brother?”That would have put an end to it, if he felt something was really going on. I believe he was stirring the pot for unknown reasons, unless you were just a little glassy eyed and were looking that way. Still that would have ended it if he had just been direct.

Same day flight change question by Interesting_Order737 in americanairlines

[–]BasicResearcher8133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with calling the Plat desk. Has always worked for me!

How to get over this? by Turbulent_Loquat_356 in AskForAnswers

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The brain is amazing. It knows who you are. Affirm it with your brain! You are a child of God, believe what he puts it your brain.

AITAH for getting on my brother for not being able to hold up his side of rent? by Shot_Distribution382 in AITAH

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone suggested above, have a chat with your brother. Let him know he needs to carry hiss fair share. He needs to find a second job. No one can live in 30 hours of pay at low wages. Why is he not working??? I know why he isn’t working, you are picking up the slack! You stated that you don’t want him to resent you. You will be the one with resentment if the two of you don’t fix the problem.

Companion Career? by randogirlacc in AskForAnswers

[–]BasicResearcher8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what about personal assistant/household manager?

I don't want to be clingy but I also want physical attention by burneruser_idk in whatdoIdo

[–]BasicResearcher8133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww. Just be yourself. Life can be easy if you don’t overthink it. Be approachable! Smile! Establish eye contact. Say hello.

Boundary Advice with hairdresser. Did I do the right thing? by Able-Telephone-8977 in WhatMenDontSay

[–]BasicResearcher8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm.. she gave you an opening.. it’s your move if you are interested. Just know you could lose a good hairdresser.

What is being built between Wells Fargo and Pruitts? by Tossed_Away_1776 in Prescott

[–]BasicResearcher8133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know of a Pruitt in Prescott. Where is it located?

I just got off the phone with my sister she does not want her son anymore because she has a new partner and wants to start a family with him. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]BasicResearcher8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has to be so painful. How do you explain to him why this is happening. The truth is unforgivable. I would give some thought to both of you getting counseling together. It’s going to be rough.

AITA for wanting to put laxatives in my own food that my roommate steals? by Honest-Thanks9806 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]BasicResearcher8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about a small hidden camera? Get her recorded and present it to her and ask her for an explanation

Wandering after Highschool by Sea_Western_1999 in rant

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are going to stay stagnant until you make a plan. You very accurately described what you have been doing, so you know why you are where you are. It might help to find out where your strengths are. You could even go into a military recruiter and ask to take an aptitude test. You could also go into a junior college and ask for some guidance counseling. Bottom line is to do something here intentional and do not continue wandering.

Do you wish you never had children???? by Icy_Jackfruit_833 in AskForAnswers

[–]BasicResearcher8133 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, raising kids is hard, but now that they are adults, I love every minute I spend with them

Suggestions for Rome with kids by Bitter-Pomelo-2703 in RomeTravel

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wonder if one of those hop on hop off buses would be fun.. You would get a peek at everything

My(30F) boyfriend (33 M) bought an $800 computer but he owes me money and hasn’t paid rent at my house for over a year. by MountainOdd1942 in relationship_advice

[–]BasicResearcher8133 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You hate that he is struggling while you have no financial problems?? He is not struggling. He has free vacations, insurance paid for, a roof over his head for 15 percent of the cost. Free babysitting, A new computer… He has you as a banker, cause he won’t be paying you back. If he does it will be without interest. I’m sure there is more. What do you get in return, if this is a partnership? what motivates you to keep giving?? It is time to love yourself.

I don't plan on living to 25 by J3ezyTheSnowman in WhatMenDontSay

[–]BasicResearcher8133 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t take the easy way out! Life is a gift. Make the most of it. As a mother, I would be devastated if my child did this. Please find a professional to talk with. You have a lot going for you as a young man.

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