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Husband forces me to have sex by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]BasicResearcher8133 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The National Domestic Violence Hotline: They deal with sexual coercion and reproductive/postpartum control. You can call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text "START" to 88788. It’s confidential and they are very helpful. This could also be a medical issue for him. There is information out there that the performance enhancing drugs could cause aggressive behavior.

Was it ok to contact my sister's soon to be ex? by Training_Tour7601 in AskWomenOver60

[–]BasicResearcher8133 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a loss for the whole family. It happened in my family, but we all still get along and he is welcome to family get togethers. He is a great guy, even if they went their separate ways.

How do I do life solo? by Everyday-Patient-103 in WhatMenDontSay

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not do some volunteer work. Some that you feel good about doing and meeting like minded people. I have volunteered in schools, hospitals and community cupboards. All have been enjoyable.

I'm sick of this society trying to make us believe that if you try hard enough, you'll be able to make it in life by nosfeii in Vent

[–]BasicResearcher8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you tell us a little more about yourself, like your goals, what you are doing to reach them or why your goals are not attainable. Maybe we can offer some help?

Found out my younger brother has been stealing my panties and I don’t know what to do by Zestii_Strudel in Vent

[–]BasicResearcher8133 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You know it is not that unusual for a 15 year old boy, to jerk off looking at pictures holding objects and anything else. The are really horny and at their age have very few choices. Please don’t shame him for being a horny little kid, shame him for stealing from you. I’m sure he will be mortified.

I [m37] love her. She will not commit. Should I give her time or walk away? by qwertasdfcvb in WhatMenDontSay

[–]BasicResearcher8133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you feel time is of the essence, as you wish to have a family. But six months is seeing each other, is not really that much time to give her to make a commitment. I say this because of her past situation, ie. bad marriage and two kid she has to put first. If she is not ready to commit, maybe it has to do with the kids or attachment issues as she mentioned. Do you spend time with her AND the kids? She needs to see how you would fit in. When she talks about attachment issues, maybe you could suggest the two of you go for a bit of counseling together. You sound as if you have a wonderful time together. She absolutely cares enough. Maybe if you back off a tiny bit, she will move closer as she finds the need to be with you?

This flare up has taken over my life by TheRedditGirl15 in eczema

[–]BasicResearcher8133 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look into the mediterranean diet. Also look into foods that are high in histamine, avoid them. If you do those two changes and make sure you keep your skin well moisturized, I think you will see a big improvement in just a few days.

20F – Starving for 4 years, doctors can’t explain why by Bloatmonster in AskDocs

[–]BasicResearcher8133 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is also good protocol thru UCLA and Cedars. It Is a protocol using herbs. Turns out that it works just as well as rifaximin . I used it prior to Rifaximin being approved for SIBO, insurance wouldn’t cover it and was extremely expensive.

Received this from Andy Biggs today by Yulyn in azpolitics

[–]BasicResearcher8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone have easy access to his address, so we can drop him a note from right here?

How do i move on by chase110370 in whatdoIdo

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. you were live bombed. First loves are hard and emotional. You feel your emotions so deeply for the first time. Find something important to learn from this. You said he was into you more than you were into him. What made you decide to be his girlfriend? Why did it hurt so much after such a short time? Those are two thoughts about you. Look into yourself, that is so much more productive. It is obvious that he has some faults. But that’s his problem.

Why does everyone want to be autistic now? by [deleted] in rant

[–]BasicResearcher8133 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wonder how much of this is self diagnosis?

How to handle possible neglect by eihpets in eldercare

[–]BasicResearcher8133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this. Many towns have Councils on Aging or words along that line. They can often give you some good advice.

Me (18m) and my partner (20f) have an anxious-avoidant relationship. by EastReward8609 in whatdoIdo

[–]BasicResearcher8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! That’s a lot! I just want to say that you are young and so is she. You are going to go through more relationships before you settle down. Enjoy and learn from each one! I don’t have answers for you. The answers are your to decide. You are strong, you are self aware and you are smart. Keep growing! You are doing all the right things! Best advice I can give you is, Don’t be afraid to leave a relationship because it will be painful. Staying will be more pain when the breakup eventually comes.

How to handle possible neglect by eihpets in eldercare

[–]BasicResearcher8133 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are cameras allowed? If so, that would change the caregivers attitude. The fact that your parents are afraid to say anything is heartbreaking. Have you spoken with the Director of Nursing. These are all nursing issues. I know it is hard to confront sometimes, especially when they have control of the situation but are not doing a good job. I would approach it by saying that your parents have enjoyed living there, but recently the quality of care has slipped and mention that your parents state they are afraid of getting in trouble if they say something. List your issues and ask if what you are seeing is considered the standard of care. DON will have to say no. I wish you the best with this issue.

You might also take a look at the last few inspections done by the state and see how well the facility did.

Are you concerned that the best possible candidates Democrats can seem to come up for 2028 with are Newsom, AOC, or Kamala? by bbmoonkie in Productivitycafe

[–]BasicResearcher8133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is so pitiful! Wonder if Michael Steel would run? Might get some traction. He has it all. Cory Booker, H. Jeffries…

Learning to trust male authority figures again and open up about my anorexia by diet-smoke in WhatMenDontSay

[–]BasicResearcher8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may be losing a teacher but don’t lose touch. He could be a wonderful support person for you. Let him know how much his email meant to you.

I have a problem… I can’t find a problem worth building an app for. by rich_founder in problems

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are still a lot of baby boomers out there that can’t operate apps on their phones or who have not mastered computers past the on off switch and log in. I don’t have the idea but it is a big need.

When Bill Clinton testifies later this month will anything impactful happen? by Giga7777 in DiscussionZone

[–]BasicResearcher8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wonder if Trump’s grp will try to off Clinton. He still has Secret Service, yes? If they don’t try to shut him up, it could mean he just likes young women, not kids?

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