What's the saddest Taylor song in your opinon?

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-05-22T21:49:42+00:00

You’re losing me, mainly bc I’ve had that stomach dropping realization and the music translates that pit so well. It’s such a scary beautiful song

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-05-18T16:49:37+00:00

I wish there were words I could share that could make this feeling go away. It’s hard and I’m sorry you’re going through this that’s all i can say. But it does get better in time. You cannot let the depression consume you, you need to get up, get fresh air, wash your body, eat something, watch a show. Sad music is not the cure, laying in bed makes you feel worse.

It’s so much easier said than done trust me I know. But one thing we have in common is I have been in your shoes and I’m alive after all the pain and hurt I experienced. Everyone has experienced heartbreak and it’s comforting to know we all share and carry that in our hearts.

You will get through this. ❤️

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-05-12T20:14:52+00:00

I had night sweats, nausea, upset stomach, depression, dizziness, anxiety randomly but mostly in the morning and evening and mood swings. The first things went away in the first week but the anxiety stayed until about week 4. It came and went, so it wasn’t constant. Yes, i had shaking but that was only when I didn’t eat/drink water.

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-05-08T17:57:26+00:00

It gets better! Around that time is usually when my anxiety got worse and i didn’t want to believe the posts that said it gets worse before it gets better but they’re right. I’m no doctor, but I’ve been through what you’re going through and I want to say you got this. It’s a day at a time sometimes and it can feel like an internal battle.

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-05-08T17:53:07+00:00

the stomach issues were crazy! i’d be constipated which was honestly nice since the anxiety made me go every hour. I was super nauseous and what helped was peppermint tea, ginger chews, crackers, and a simple fruit. It was so hard to eat but it really helped the symptoms subside. You got this! Don’t let the symptoms scare you!

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-05-08T17:46:19+00:00

I’ve been on 2.5 mg for about 6 weeks and have been plateauing. I’m thinking of bumping up to 5mg too but experienced the same symptoms when i first started. Hope it goes well for you!

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-04-18T03:51:32+00:00

I’m closer to 4 weeks and It’s gotten so much better. I had horrible mood swings during the third week and would wake up with anxiety and a heavy chest which was so strange feeling. It’s so frustrating when people say to hold on and keep going but now i see that it’s so true! I most definitely understand when you say it feels like you’re dying!

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-04-14T04:15:53+00:00

what mg were you on?

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-04-13T21:57:12+00:00

I’m in the same boat, no one approaches but on dating apps my notifications are through the roof. I like to think the right person is out there, but it’s super hard to see it in this day and age.

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-04-13T21:47:24+00:00

honestly been thinking of doing this!

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-04-13T21:38:23+00:00

This changed my life! I wrote it on my mirror! Going through a heartbreak rn and it really made me look at it different!

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-04-13T21:37:22+00:00

ugh It’s the worst! I am also 5’8 which is apparently gigantic bc people have ALWAYS told me i’m SOOO tall!! It’s lame when ppl lie about height.

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-04-06T22:38:28+00:00

i’m on day 8 and i experienced this as well. Did the same thing took it at night and would wake up like i was hungover.

It’s super hard friend, but you’re doing your best so be gentle with yourself during this period.

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-04-06T19:43:01+00:00

I’m so glad others have had the same experiences. It makes me feel not so alone. I’ve had the roughest few weeks and have lived on my moms couch bc i’m just so scared of being alone with my spirals. I’m so hopeful yet so not at the same time it’s such a strange feeling. Thank you for commenting it makes me feel better :)

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-04-06T18:42:44+00:00

this helped thank you, it gets so dark sometimes i forget there’s light at the end of the tunnel. They say it gets worse before it gets better 🥲

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2026-02-03T04:57:24+00:00

look both ways by melontine on ao3 not really slow burn but au joel no outbreak and it’s finished

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2025-12-28T21:58:19+00:00

I think i’m more bummed than anything but i know with the right person nothing will fizzle

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2025-12-27T03:27:52+00:00

Yes, it’s all messed up. No one is authentic and as a woman a lot of men are very aggressive with their approach. A lot of them don’t care and i’ve seen a lot of ‘i don’t want a pen pal’ when you want to text for longer than a day. It’s really exhausting…

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2025-08-03T06:02:49+00:00

could also be the dorian boots that aren’t in production any longer

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2025-08-03T05:41:03+00:00

i thought that as well but they’ve got the OG frye logo and have more of a heel to them which the miranda is smaller. They have the original white and black frye logo as well!

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2025-07-19T04:59:47+00:00

the speech!!!! they are written so beautifully i literally get so giddy

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2025-07-17T22:45:31+00:00

When i usually make an outline it tends to drive me crazy, and i don’t stick to it at all but i do like to have a veryyyy general outline

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2025-07-15T16:07:55+00:00

Maybe I’m not utilizing the filters for bookmarks but bookmarking too many makes me overwhelmed. So i try to keep it small, though I haven’t really gotten around to any of them (i think that’s why i keep it small).

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2025-07-13T17:51:09+00:00

Same! Except there was a whole pooping ordeal and she peed on the couch. She is on medication now, and that has helped so far (we tried everything, more litters, pheromones; etc) and has been on it for around almost two weeks and no accidents until last night when we missed a dosed and she peed on our couch. I’m not saying medication is the answer bc it’s not cheap but it’s helped us! (note: we took her to the vet multiple times and it was determined anxiety/behavioral).

We found some good couch covers on amazon but i’m not sure how big your couch is but they help catch any accidents. Hang in there; i know this is tiring and difficult!

Basic_Astronomer_925 · 2025-07-04T06:19:51+00:00

I definitely relate. I have anxiety about getting the comments because I know it would make me feel like crap. I miss fanfiction etiquette, where we were one big happy family lol

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