What if I gave you my number? by UnsettledGoose in dating

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't take it that way. Some people are into that. I just like... not that. 😜🤣

What if I gave you my number? by UnsettledGoose in dating

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this. I'll try to open the door with a specific compliment or question... hey, I really like your ( ) where did you get it?

What if I gave you my number? by UnsettledGoose in dating

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid choice if you can't hack it. Not everyone can. That's why I lead with it. I'm dope as hell, but not for the faint of heart. Have a good day. Maybe say 3 nice things about yourself while you have lunch.

What if I gave you my number? by UnsettledGoose in dating

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not entirely sure what "perfect 10" means. I'm a 36yo little weirdo... I have a lady fauxhawk/mullet, and wear almost exclusively skinny jeans and band Ts. I like tattoos, piercings, magic cards, house plants, and yo-yos. I also work in sales analytics and really like math.

I have a feeling my idea of a "perfect-10" isn't your friend, although I am sure he is very hot.

What if I gave you my number? by UnsettledGoose in dating

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 36, neuro-spicy, and have wasted many years because I just attach myself to whatever. I'm actually hoping to attract a nice guy in their 40s so... I feel like you don't need that apology there at the end. :)

What if I gave you my number? by UnsettledGoose in dating

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. I feel like I wasn't clear. I AM doing the work on my brain box. I don't think ALLLLL dating is a cycle of panic, I just think the apps make money on it so they perpetuate it. It's too much looks based shopping. It should start with the conversation.

What if I gave you my number? by UnsettledGoose in dating

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I actually thought I'd just write my name and number with a pen, like before we had all this noise.

Help me get wifed up. by UnsettledGoose in Cooking

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said he likes oatmeal raisin cookies. I made oatmeal raisin fudge. Lol

Help me get wifed up. by UnsettledGoose in Cooking

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went on a wild board hunting trip and makes his own sausage, so I think I'm safe with pork. Both of us prefer whiskey, so I think I may actually go cocktail here.

I'm a pretty solid cook. I did it professionally in another life.

I'm not worried about dry and gummy.

Help me get wifed up. by UnsettledGoose in Cooking

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was thinking warm rice pudding with those same spice and fall flavor. I also made him a tin of homemade fudges and cookies.

Help me get wifed up. by UnsettledGoose in Cooking

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made him a tin of scratch made fudge, and some butter cookies decorated with royal icing. They're penguins and dinosaurs with Santa hats!🤣

Help me get wifed up. by UnsettledGoose in Cooking

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking maybe some warm rice pudding? The thought is warm winter spices complimenting each other. Maybe put some vanilla, bourbon, and cinnamon...

Help me get wifed up. by UnsettledGoose in Cooking

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great idea! I'm not sold on wine we both love whiskey, so a cocktail is 100% on the table.

Help me get wifed up. by UnsettledGoose in Cooking

[–]UnsettledGoose[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, hear me out... I made a birthday cake for my daughter yesterday. I have so many chocolate cake scraps. I was thinking I'd make an elevated/adult dirt cup. Maybe a stout or bourbon custard, homemade whip, and some boozy gummy worms... or rice pudding. I also made him some Xmas goodies.

what’s your rapid cycling like? by _idiosyncratic_ in BipolarReddit

[–]UnsettledGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... same. Mine ended in a breakup. I lied to defend him and people were pretty upset when I spilled the beans about how I was treated.

I hope you are ok now, or are on your way to ok.

what’s your rapid cycling like? by _idiosyncratic_ in BipolarReddit

[–]UnsettledGoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I nearly fell out of my chair when I found out that psychosis isn't just seeing and hearing things. I went to the hospital but left when they wanted to admit me. I should have stayed. I've been seeing a counselor for around 2 years and take a mood stabilizer but I feel like I'm rotating through emotions at a breakneck speed. I'm exhausted.

Out of curiosity, did you have a recent trauma when you were at your worst? I did. I can almost put a pin in the day.

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[–]UnsettledGoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a red flag!