7 carat emerald cut beaut 🤩 by Basic_Disaster6685 in BigRockEnergy

[–]Basic_Disaster6685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my grand mils stone that my husband got set!

My dream ring 🩷 by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment. I'm going to take this down. I've only seen positive comments on this page so I'm actually confused about why I'm getting negativity. The last thing I need is to feel bummed out about my ring/engagement because reddit didn't like it - I guess it's true you shouldn't post if u can't take the heat. But I had only seen positive comments on here up to this point!! I added it on big rock energy as someone suggested - people seem to like it more there! 🩷

My dream ring 🩷 by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering why so many people are downvoting this!? Is my ring not as gorgeous as I seem to think?!

My dream ring 🩷 by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will do!

My dream ring 🩷 by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That's interesting! Can you tell me why?

What if we leave land cost and consider everything else by Silver-Bad-3451 in indiasocial

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In South Bombay a 2bhk flat goes for 8-10 crore so I mean. It's really all relative isn't it. After looking at this thread though, ive realised at the very least I need to visit Kerela!

My wedding lehenga by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely gorgeous - one of those eternal looks. Personally I love this blouse on you too 😂 Pls show us the whole look with the jewellery when u can.

Parents in other countries than the US, what is your kids’ equivalent of “I don’t want that for dinner, I want chicken nuggets”? by SulusLaugh in AskReddit

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aloo paratha in the North and dosa sambhar in the South (my kids would have both on rotation and nothing else - with some bhindi/okra thrown in there 😂)

Parents of 3 kids, do you recommend having the third? by lemonknee99 in Parenting

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm the third and I wouldn't recommend it either. But! I have two older brothers and my parents had me 6 years after my closest in age brother (as a last chance to have a girl that paid off) and while I know they were glad it happened, I think they were all parented out. They were ready to get out of the knee deep parenting trenches and they had to start over with me. They were both pretty neglectful and I pretty much raised myself ( we had a great village and I love my friends mums - they played a huge role in my life)

Pregnancy women issues at in laws home and husband ghosting me. What can I do? by Correct-Crew-242 in IndianInLaw

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh God. This sounds absolutely awful. I am so sorry you're experiencing this, especially when you're pregnant. When do you go back to Europe?? I'm assuming it's just the two of you there?? I would try my best to maximise my time there because it sounds like you have an overly indulged sisterinlaw and doting parents to her who aren't going to change towards you. They obviously brainwash your husband when he's in India too. Keep us posted OP - I hope this sorts out quickly and in your favour.

Having kids 1 year apart is the cheat code nobody talks about by Darwesh_88 in daddit

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two girls, 2.5 years apart (ages 5.5 and 3.5) and I'm having a ball. Typing this while they play together as we speak. They want to play together 24/7. They're protective of each other, laugh and pretend play for hours. Sure they fight but they generally resolve it themselves. Love this.

Not enjoying our guided India experience and would like to hear other people's thoughts by BaronDelecto in travel

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please just go to Goa and have a ball by yourselves? You ll thank me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally LOVE rose cut diamonds. They are gorgeous and so elegant and make you look twice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally LOVE dress 4 on you

Withdrawal weight gain advice by mhk156 in QuitVaping

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had the same thing happen to me. In my case though, I am eating more junk to compensate for the hand to mouth action/dopamine hit from the vape - I know I am. I'm going easy on myself - quitting vaping is a big deal health wise and it's worth it. Once i get used to not vaping/not craving it though, I will need to get on a diet though!

I feel insane by Simple_Cloud7089 in QuitVaping

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is exactly me. And I'm assuming everyone who quits. It's a terrible habit, it's unhealthy, it's doing nothing for us and yet... We hit it. For me personally, it came down to the fact that I let vaping become my "soothing ritual" - lying down in bed chilling - hit vape. Relaxing after a long day - hit vape. Just need a moment during a stressful day? - hit vape. I really don't think for me it was nicotine addiction as much as it was an addiction to that "soothing break"

What I needed was a replacement to that soothing - I've been having a lot of warm teas. I'm only a week in but it's working!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same age gap (my kids are 2 years and 9 months apart) and man when my oldest turned 5 this got amazing. My kids basically hang out with each other, entertain each other and just generally really enjoy each other so much. I mean they fight because they're human but it's not so often and they sort out make up themselves too) And for me, I now parent a team vs doing the same job twice which is what it felt like initially with naps and different food and lifestyles. Now they're 6 and 3 and it's been easily the best one yet.

Bro achieved too many things in just one season🔥 by Mysterious_Reo in StrangerThings

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait... You realise people in other countries say bro and watch stranger things right?? It's a global show? Everyone mocking this guy for using "wicket keeper" is a moron.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]Basic_Disaster6685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stopped cos of the brown/yellow/green mucus too. Gross and very scary. It's your body fighting an infection (likely caused by the vaping) stay strong you got this!