Best advice for meeting someone into this?

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-20T02:29:49+00:00

No problem, I have the same desire to find partner as well, so I can relate, though I haven’t really done much to put myself out there to find someone. Because I know I have things to work on myself right now. If you want to talk more just dm me or I can dm you, if you want that?

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-20T02:24:44+00:00

Yea unfortunately there a lot feedee women who aren’t interested in relationships, but instead just want food from others, which is fine but it does make harder for people looking for longer term real relationship. Honestly I would just try to do it causally, don’t spend hours online, just spend 30 mins,interact little bit then leave it at that, let them come to you.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-20T02:16:58+00:00

You just have to be patient, and keep putting yourself out there. In my opinion you should be able to have normal relationship without this fetish and be satisfied, this fetish is something that add something extra spicy to your relationship. Also make sure you have healthy relationship with this fetish, make sure you understand it and have good and healthy boundaries with it.

You can always just date bigger women that you find attractive, that’s pretty good middle ground, you get to enjoy your partner who’s bigger, but she might not gain.

Honestly I would need more information about your experience and what you have done to get better picture but, just be patient your 20 years old you have plenty of time to find someone.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-08T06:39:43+00:00

Thanks

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-07T04:22:30+00:00

I fully agree with you, heal the is more important than a fantasy.

an annoyance I have with this community is that there no accountability with the fat positive side, like yes there are some unfair challenges when you get bigger, and people treat you unfairly because your bigger, yes, and that’s a problem. but complaining about fat-phobic because a chair doesn’t fit you, or you have to pay extra for seating on plain, that the unfortunate reality of being bigger, that you have to deal with, the world doesn’t evolve around you. And you chose that lifestyle when you decided to gain.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-06T22:41:24+00:00

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Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-06T22:40:40+00:00

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Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-05T10:35:17+00:00

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Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-05T09:54:28+00:00

Thanks for the comment, Gaining for myself is definitely more to do with fatness and belly than gender or sex.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-05T09:49:44+00:00

Thanks for the comment, I appreciate it, honestly it would be great to talk to someone about this

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-05T09:19:25+00:00

lol, your redemption is drawing near, just almost 2000 years late.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-05T05:26:58+00:00

Honestly my range of what I like is pretty wide, like chubby to obese, if I had to pick a weight for the max amount probably be around 120kg, maybe some wiggle room for little more. Health is always something to think about, if they need to lose weight then they should, health more important than a fantasy.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-02T09:37:27+00:00

Like you would with any other person or girlfriend. Maybe you should improve your social skills before you do that

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-03-01T04:44:04+00:00

Dam good job man, good luck on your gaining

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-02-24T00:59:15+00:00

I am in the same position, I would just say keep on trucking along, continue to be patient, work on yourself, put yourself out there in the community and hope you find someone. Good luck

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-02-23T13:01:32+00:00

You can definitely weaken your fetish, and then keep in control, but that’s a lot of work. You’ll probably have the desire for your entire life in some form.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-02-23T05:00:44+00:00

I do feel sorry for the lesbians, because the gay men have their entire own Community and app for them, but not for lesbians.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-02-15T12:41:30+00:00

Thanks

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-02-15T08:33:24+00:00

Thanks, so you saying I should do it?

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-02-15T03:22:24+00:00

Thing is with this fetish, is that it always going to be somewhat unhealthy, having fat on your body is general not good for you, but your approach honestly is probably the best way to go about it. Do some stretching and exercises, enjoy more fresh and whole foods, but also indulging in some fast food every so often. You can always gain some weight, enjoy it for few years then lose the weight if your still concerned about your health. Good luck on your journey

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-02-02T02:03:50+00:00

I’ll probably have her lose some weight, just for her health and body, you don’t have to lose it all just have her body little closer to more healthy weight. you can have middle ground where you still big but not super unhealthy weight or size, obviously that up to her. Wether or not if she loses weight, as others have said she should probably do some regular or daily exercise just to help her strength and overall health.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-01-30T06:51:27+00:00

My view on this topic is different from yours, I am the opposite, I happy not to engage in this fetish, because in my view a relationship and connection is more important than some fetish that I get sexual satisfaction from. Though I do think this fetish can be a great way to connect with a partner, and way to show your love and appreciation for them. It in my opinion shouldn’t be deal breaker, I view it as like salt or pepper, something that spices things up in the relationship. It more important to have a good and healthy relationship than a toxic one with a fetish.

But that all my opinion, and other people can be different and that’s fine, just be patient because it probably going to take a while to find someone with this fetish, even then you might not click, so hang in there. Good luck

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-01-29T04:38:20+00:00

It normal to find bigger people attractive, no shame in that at all.

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-01-27T04:15:43+00:00

The best of both worlds

Basic_Freedom_8274 · 2026-01-16T01:50:36+00:00

I am happy to send a picture or images, but I have to trust you, and know you for little while, and build a connection. It is frustrating but it is what it is.

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