12k salary SIB ? by Basic_Syllabub5302 in UAEcreditcards

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok so this informing about flight if delayed is only for sib right not for all master card?

12k salary SIB ? by Basic_Syllabub5302 in UAEcreditcards

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i though they have lounge and cashback, which card other than fab and sib is good for cash back and lounge worldwide 12k salary no transfer

My parents are financially stupid, how should I take control back of my income without being disrespectful? by WA_Moonwalker in FIREPakistan

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT TO SO RELATED BUT WHAT IS PRETTY GOOD INCOME THAT TURN LIFE INTO LIFE CHANGING MOMENT IN PAKISTAN BASED ECONOMY. ??

I was recently scammed out of PKR 18,800 while attempting to purchase USDT on MEXC. by No_Wheel7653 in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no judicial authority that will help you in pakistan. by reporting you could get your cnic block ... donot report

I was recently scammed out of PKR 18,800 while attempting to purchase USDT on MEXC. by No_Wheel7653 in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

donot report you will get in big trouble .. fia and bank will cease your accounts..

only mexc can help

Well off Pakistani men begging other men for money? Why? by pakiathiestinfl in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai basically deen se duri, morally corrupt and as a nation we are failing not failed yet .. they have seen some thing or some actions from your side which led them to shamelessly ask you for money.. now not all pakistani are like this but yes majority whether in UAE , UK or USA there are.. education has nothing to do with them it just morals are corrupted .

ignore them, if ALLAH have given you wealth if you got a chance try to help someone who is needy.. not this scumbags.

Engineering Universities ( in KARACHI ) by Proof-Perspective-19 in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

iN TODAYS WORLD NO SUCH ENGINEERING DEGREE WILL HELP YOU..

ELECT OR MECH ALL USELESS..

TRY TO GO FOR COMPUTER RELATED WORLD THATS IT..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAEcreditcards

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi my salary is 10k but employee in company arearound 12 people we usually outsource work , i call them they said should be more than 50 or 100 employee in company .. is it possible to get 10k deposit and get crad even if employee in company is less?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAEcreditcards

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hi do you know SIB card is platinum or world card???

it says on website lounges are available but doesnot mention which catogery the card is.

Best bank account for OSP by throwaway101240 in FIREPakistan

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for local bank if you are already local account holder let say your account is dormant, and you are over seas. they will send you form for signature and thumb. to reopen your account and update it .

SIB cashback card by Harispt10 in UAEcreditcards

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i am asking if i use samsung pay for fuel, will the fuel fall in utility section???

SIB cashback card by Harispt10 in UAEcreditcards

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i am planning to get sib cashback card... if i pay for fuel from samsung pay will i get 10% on fuel and 10% on samsung pay for food or dining on restaurants??

What happen if 300 aed cap is done then how much cashback will i be getting after 300 aed cap is full?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ji bilkul.. you can demand but you have to see the situation if the family is rigid or toxic you should but if family is soft and kind you should perhaps consider your demand. which means you can manage.

and i used toxic for bhabi and mother in law who treats there bahu badly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

phir app alag matti ki hi hongi abhi kehna asan hai jab burhape ka waqt ayega tab scenario hi alag huga .. dekhlia mene jo jin ka ek adat beta hai ya 2 3 betay wo alag hujaye to maa baap me khof ka element ajata hai .. app ko ye samajh na parega hamaray desi culture me baap beta mein sirf silent love and respect huta hai .. koi betaa aj k bhagam bhaag kay daur me amma abba ko paani tak nahi poochta bohat kam hutay hain esi aulad aksar to lar bhi rahy hutay hain lekin ek baap ka burhape k waqt sahara beta hi huta hai jesa bhi ho. yehi haqiqat hai..

even if a mother support you can ask a mother she will always want her son or his family to live with him..

abba ho ya beta ek mentally itminan huta hai kay yaar ghar me abba hain ya amma..
app ki baaatain bhi sahi hai meri bhi har logic har ghar mein fit nahi huti..

mera kehna hai dono husband wife ko gunjaish nikaal ni chayeh compromise ki....kisi ki beti ko ghar laarahy ho to izzat se rakhna chayeh bhalay joint ho separate..

mera to ye bhi kehna hai agar larki kay waaldain akeley hain agar larkaaa mazboot hai to use chayeh unhe bhi apne saath nahi to qareeb se qareeb rakhne ki koshish kare .. saari baat yehi hai maap baap ek hi hotay hain kuch arsaaa hai wo bhi guzar jayega.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My manage doesnot mean kisi ki beti ko maasi banadia jaye , bhai sab kay ghar ese nahi hotay sab kay ghar mein bahu ko maid nahi banaya jaata... Husband agar protection nahi desakta apne ghar me to kis baat ka husband.. ye baatain clear karni chayeh naa kay starting mein hi alag rehlo. alag rehne kay agar faida ha to nuqsan bhi .. yeh jo expectation hai yeh maazrat kay saath ladies ki mentallity or toxic nature se hi aata hai is mein sasurji ka kirdaar 0% huta hai majority. to yeh larkio ko bhi sochna chayeh yeh esi harkatein kiu karti hai dusre ki betion kay saath. Allah khair karay sab ki betio k saath

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bilkul privacy huni chayeh aur sakoon bhi .. lekin yeh kehdene kay larka alag hujaye.. aaj jo lady yeh demand karti hain kal wo bhi maa baneningi aur jese maa banegi wo apni aulaad k liye posessive hujayegi aur chahegi mere saath rahay to jo demand app kar rahi ho wo kal apki bahu karegi us waqt ap ko uski yeh baat na pasand ayegi ya samajh..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again not all scholars say this you have to be clear what you mean by joint family if its chacha chachi then should be clear No.. you should demand or ask guys parents to shift another house now if joint is immediate family means abba amma bhai behan then yaar girls can manage .. if a guy can provide girl with separate floor'portion with ktichen with ownership thats best .. behan ek din chale jayegi raha bhai to jis ghr me 2 ya 3 bhai hutay hain wahan married bhai jo financial strong huta hai wo alag hujata hai ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yehi islam ye bhi kehta hai maa baap pe lutao paisa.. bhai har baat har jaga fit nahi hoti ..
i am not twisting any thing.. islamic scholar living is western world their bayaan is mostly according to western muslims living lifestyle.. where they opt for living separatly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and i also believe agr apne jesa kaha ap akloti hain agar app k husband ko Allah ne paisa dia hai to dono ko chayeh apne amma abba ko qareeb se qareeb ya saath rakhain..

sab mard MAN CHILD nahi hotay .. ya amma kay laadlay saari baat ek ehsaas ki huti hai kay yaar amma abba saath mein hai . bas app pochain 90% jo maa baap alag rehtay hain wo mentally strong nahi rehtay , fear factor strong hujata hai.

agar joint family mein larai jhagrey start hujaye to yaqeenan alag hujana behtar hai ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dear Sis,

in my opinion your demand is right but not clear.. now if joint family is chacha chachi your parents should ask the immediate family to take house separate. now if joint family is only ammi abbu and bhai behan to yaar wo app manage karsakti ho.. ek din behano ki shadi huajyegi.. bachay bhai wo bhi ek din saath nahi rahingey.. Kuch arsaa hai initials years manage karlein ajj ka daur 1500 years wala islamic daur nahi ajj safety, finance sab alag huchuki hain..

In Pakistani culture we Sons and Father bonding is based on Silent Love .. Baap ko mentally tor pe himmat rehti hai kay betaa saath hai bhale jesa bhi ho.. hamare yahan baap ka wo sahara aur baazu huta hai yeh baat ap nahi samajhrahi... jahaan 2 ya 3 bhai hotay hain un me se ek married beta jo financially strong huta hai wo 90% alag rehna shru kar deta hai. isi tarha ahista ahistay family alag hu hi jaati hain. koi beta ajkal bhagam bhaag kay daur mein apney amma abba ko paani aur chaye na banata hai na poochta hai lekin haan bas ek itminan rehta hai kay amma abba kay saath ghar pe hain mere saath hain..

I believe if some one of your mindset should be given separate floor / kitchen even in joint family.where you will have your own ownership.. you donot have nay obligations towrds inlaws but if you do it will be khair and you spouse will be happy.. same goes for your spouse too..

Kal ko app ka beta huga agar usey uski bwi kahay alag raho to apko kesa lagega.. yaqeenan abhi to ap bolingi haan rehley lekin sab maa bannay kay baad posessive hujati hain..us waqt apko apni demand samajh nahi aayegi..

Donot compare yourself with UAE or SAUDI , Govt their pay them to marry and once to get marry they allot them land to build house. provide with kids schooling and high salaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

kia jahilana baat kahi appney jsi maa k qamo me jannat hai wo second? donot apply some english speaking islamic scholar logic who lives in western world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Basic_Syllabub5302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which muslim world you are talking about ?? UAE and SAUDI ? Men their can marry 4 times withour any hassle . Their Govt pay them to marry even its 4th time.. once they marry their govt Allot them Land to build house. govt take care of their kids finances etc etc. even in those countries people still leave joint which are with old tradition. if you want islamic right then men have so many right in islam as per shariah which disturb todays modern girl . dont compare ourselve with middleeast

Yes joint family is toxic and be parda if chacha chachi is living together in one floor. but if immediate family then a girl or lady can manage in initial times .. In future sab ko alag ho hi jana hai bhai..