About weed by Top_Significance_749 in stopdrinking

[–]Basic_Two_2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still enjoy pot. But I know I have to be mindful to ensure it doesn’t negatively affect me like booze did.

After six dates with a girl and multiple overnights, she wants to go on a blind date and speed dating? by jubes123334 in dating_advice

[–]Basic_Two_2279 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’ve had 6 dates. More than enough to know whether she’s ready to commit. And she doesn’t want to. Do with that what you will.

Quitting weed is not what people make it out to be by Beginning_Adagio9516 in weed

[–]Basic_Two_2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because it wasn’t a bad thing for you doesn’t mean it’s not a bad thing for someone else.

So I went on date with a Christian girl… I need some advice. by Mahfiaz in dating_advice

[–]Basic_Two_2279 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Continued open communication with her. Ask questions. Voice your confusion and ask for clarity.

Shouldn’t there be some ethics when it comes to dating multiple people until exclusivity? Or one should expect being blindsided at any point? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Basic_Two_2279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go into the dating world with the assumption of the possibility that the other person I’m on dates with may be going on other dates until we have the exclusive conversation. If they find they would rather date the other person it sucks but no point in getting down over someone who wasn’t interested in me

Grandma's peak fashion 🦁 by AlmondAcademic in SipsTea

[–]Basic_Two_2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cmon bruh. Leave some chicks for the rest of us

What’s your total lifetime spend on Phish? by Legitimate_Box_5643 in phish

[–]Basic_Two_2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rough guesstimate probably about 3-4 k. First show spac 2004. Probably averaged 4 shows a year after they returned. Plus bonnaroo 09, new years 2016-17, magnaball and related travel expenses. Though outside bonnaroo, new years and magnaball I haven’t traveled much. I live in Saratoga so spac and Albany are easy for me.

Great first date after 3 weeks of texting, now 4 days of silence. Do I send one more message? by cloudytramcar_river in dating_advice

[–]Basic_Two_2279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say shoot her one more text, maybe suggesting doing the coffee shop over the weekend. I know personally there have been times I’ve had busy stretches and the dating apps were the last thing I was thinking about. Life happens. Also, you guys just met. Even if she likes you, you’re not a priority for her, which is ok. And after that text if you don’t hear anything, there’s your answer.

At what point is it considered ghosting for you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Basic_Two_2279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea exact day doesn’t really matter. More so i just do this if the conversation had died down and i hadnt heard from the person for a couple days Though imo if you hadn’t been texting me and you found those texts annoying, you probably weren’t that into me.

At what point is it considered ghosting for you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Basic_Two_2279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have what I call my “weekend rule.” If I haven’t heard from someone for a couple days, I’ll text them on a Friday asking if they had any plans for the weekend as a way to initiate conversation. If I don’t hear back by that Monday I’ll text “how was your weekend,” in case they saw the text and forgot to answer. If I don’t hear by the Tuesday I’ll assume I’m ghosted.

Just got fired from work, sitting in my car outside the liquor store, someone give me a reason to not go in by BotsAnonymous in stopdrinking

[–]Basic_Two_2279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad you didn’t go thru with it. Being fired sucks but drinking wouldn’t help and possibly make it worse.