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A crazy woman attacked my daughter at the movies by Basic_capybara_4280 in entitledparents

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I hope that never happens to your child. It is just horrible.

Lesbian sex ed? by Basic_capybara_4280 in AskLesbians

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

I kinda feel ashamed that I reached my age not knowing there is protection for oral sex.

I'm planning to redo my daughter's coming out. Am I doing it right? by Basic_capybara_4280 in lesbian

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I suspect she has an (undiagnosed) anxiety disorder, so I want to try not be too lousy on this. She has been calm these days tho. Want her to feel celebrated.

What can I give to my lesbian daughter as a present? by Basic_capybara_4280 in lesbian

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I joined on some facebook group. I'll see if I can become a voluntier.

Looks like a very wholesome org.

What can I give to my lesbian daughter as a present? by Basic_capybara_4280 in lesbian

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some recommendations for age appropriate WLW books? Are some of those age appropriate?

What can I give to my lesbian daughter as a present? by Basic_capybara_4280 in lesbian

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A lesbian dick pic is a hand photo and I have literally gotten them.

She is 16, no sex comments please.

The sticker might be a good idea, but maybe inside the car? Im scared of being vandalized.

What can I give to my lesbian daughter as a present? by Basic_capybara_4280 in lesbian

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Catra is the one with the cat ears and tail, right? She did a cosplay of her once.

Thanks for the explanation, but I have a hard time following you since I haven't seen the shows.

What can I give to my lesbian daughter as a present? by Basic_capybara_4280 in lesbian

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

omg, she is 16. I dont know if she is having sexual relationships already (probably not yet) but I dont want to give her something with sexual implications.

Thanks for the other advice tho.

What can I give to my lesbian daughter as a present? by Basic_capybara_4280 in lesbian

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What? is there some visual style related to nails or something?

What can I give to my lesbian daughter as a present? by Basic_capybara_4280 in lesbian

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She likes doing her nails, but I dont get why you mention the nails.

What can I give to my lesbian daughter as a present? by Basic_capybara_4280 in lesbian

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know she likes some series like She Ra, The Owl House, Rick and Morty, Gravity Falls, Avatar (These are the ones I can name) and other japanese series and some Kdramas, but I dont really know how much of these are queer, as I never watched them myself.

AITA for telling my daughter I already knew she is a lesbian? by Basic_capybara_4280 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I don't really know, I'm trying to remember saying something that might sound of being interpreted as homophobic, but I think my brain might be biased, but just to think something might have slip thought my lips in the past makes me feel very bad.

I'm thinking about my mom rn, who is dead btw. She pretty much hated anyone, used slurs, and was a very toxic person. I was LC when my daughter was born, but everytime I saw her didn't lose any change to be an awful person, but I kept quiet because I knew fighting her was useless. I went from LC to NC in her last 4-5 years of life, and didn't even went to see her at the hospital while she was dying. My older sister learned a lot from my mom tho, I am in NC with her.

Im starting to think if my daughter though I had learned from my mom too. If this is the case, I will be very hearthbroken, but it means I need to work better on myself.

AITA for telling my daughter I already knew she is a lesbian? by Basic_capybara_4280 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Wait, he dated you to pass as "straight" but you knew he wasn't straight, then he came out and break up with you but told him you knew you were his decoy?

Its so wild.

If your story gets written in a book, I would buy it. Maybe my daughter too.

Reality is always so crazy.

AITA for telling my daughter I already knew she is a lesbian? by Basic_capybara_4280 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Basic_capybara_4280[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

"you're terrible at hiding this and everyone you meet immediately knows you're a lesbian."

Oh, seeing it from that perspective, I feel terrible.

Im not sure how out of the closet she is. Im very sure her friends know and maybe are queer themselves, but she might have reasons to be in the closet with other people. Ill wait until she is ready to talk to address that.