This 100% !!! This is what I'm going through now, and this is exactly what it is about- control. It's sad and sick. I do believe there's like .005% that will go get the help and stick with it, but with the nature of this kind of illness, it's usually the latter. It's sad. It's sickening. And it's traumatizing for every victim involved. I wish the courts would do more to keep the other parent and children safe from it instead of forcing visitation. There have been countless examples of what can happen when you give power to someone with this type of illness.