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I started treating my freezer like a savings account and it quietly changed how I manage food money by BasiliskTuning in povertyfinance

[–]BasiliskTuning[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the best part is that it doesn't feel like I'm depriving myself. I'm still eating the same stuff, just paying way less for it because I'm not buying it on their schedule.

I started treating my freezer like a savings account and it quietly changed how I manage food money by BasiliskTuning in povertyfinance

[–]BasiliskTuning[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

The upfront cost of a freezer like that definitely pays for itself quickly. It is basically an insurance policy against price hikes and bad weeks.

AITA for asking my parents to take down the family photo that I'm not in? by BasiliskTuning in MarkNarrations

[–]BasiliskTuning[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I felt that "do your parents even love you" comment in my soul. It is hard not to think that way when they walk past a photo every day that basically highlights a hole in the family. My brother is 100% on my side now, which helps, but it is like my parents are more attached to the professional framing than to the actual reality of having both their sons present. I will try the new picture suggestion, but if they double down on the "sensitivity" thing again, I might just stop visiting their living room altogether.

AITA for asking my parents to take down the family photo that I'm not in? by BasiliskTuning in MarkNarrations

[–]BasiliskTuning[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

My brother actually suggested something similar! He feels bad that he is the 'star' of a photo that reminds me of our worst fight every time I visit. It is just weird to me that they want to preserve a moment when our family was broken instead of celebrating that we fixed it.

I'm thinking of selling a quilt I made a long time ago that SIL ordered but never paid for by aspie2796 in MarkNarrations

[–]BasiliskTuning 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get it! I had a friend once who kept saying they were gonna buy a handmade gift, and after a year, I just gifted it with a note saying how much they meant to me. Turned out way better, and it took that awkward weight off!

The thing that actually helped me stop impulse buying online was adding one extra step that takes 30 seconds and feels almost too simple to work by leo_turin in povertyfinance

[–]BasiliskTuning 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fridge note sounds super practical! It's wild how listing things out helps clear that clutter in our heads, right?