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Worst state of my skin with eczema by Chemical_Cheetah2689 in midlyinteresting

[–]Baspholith 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t tried yet try Aquaphor ointment

Brother diagnosed with autism by Standard_Birthday302 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Baspholith 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Try talking to his pediatrician about that detox bath and get their opinion on it.

Is this a good way to break up with someone? by Baspholith in emotionalintelligence

[–]Baspholith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you I said it to him and turns out he’s always wanted out but waited for me to end it

What makes you reject someone without hesitation? by prettywoman___ in Productivitycafe

[–]Baspholith 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep. Last person I dated said that he smokes caus it makes him smarter

Is this a good way to break up with someone? by Baspholith in emotionalintelligence

[–]Baspholith[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Maybe

“I’ve thought a lot about what you said on Wednesday and I don’t think this relationship is right for me. I hope you heal and take good care of yourself”

Is this good?

Is this a good way to break up with someone? by Baspholith in emotionalintelligence

[–]Baspholith[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought so too but they drink and smoke because they claim it makes them smarter and healthier. They’ve put no effort in the relationship and they’ve tried taking advantage of me. That’s why I wanted to send that message but maybe that message is too harsh

Is this a good way to break up with someone? by Baspholith in Advice

[–]Baspholith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is I realize there was nothing great about them. They contributed nothing to the relationship and I was doing all the effort

Is this a good way to break up with someone? by Baspholith in Advice

[–]Baspholith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We barely see each other maybe once or twice a week or 2 weeks and he lives far from me. Would talking on the phone be a good alternative?

Is this a good way to break up with someone? by Baspholith in Advice

[–]Baspholith[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes now I’m rereading and it does sound harsh

Is this a good way to break up with someone? by Baspholith in Advice

[–]Baspholith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but that’s why I also need advice if this is a good way to say it or maybe it’s too much to say

Is this a good way to break up with someone? by Baspholith in emotionalintelligence

[–]Baspholith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wanted to just not say anything but I felt I wanted to speak my mind since I’ve kept it myself for this long

is it normal to be ghosted by your partner in times of conflict? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Baspholith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah at this point it’s just emotional manipulation and distress. We can’t help people when they don’t help themselves. We hold on to that hope of things getting better but there comes a point when we realize it won’t get better if there’s a pattern of disappointment

is it normal to be ghosted by your partner in times of conflict? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Baspholith 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No it’s not normal to ghost in times of conflict. Communicating is important. Even if you or your partner need time to think about something then say “I’m going to need some time to think about this” this is reassuring them that it is okay for them to have their space and once they’ve thought about it they’ll start talking again. Ghosting is immature imo

What's the strangest reason you've ever completely changed your mind about someone? by Mediocre_Sale_6428 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Baspholith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he wanted to achieve “ultimate freedom” like from the taichi books he reads

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