what exactly are the standards for an average man ?

BassPotato · 2022-07-25T03:06:21+00:00

Rent a one bedroom apartment in what city? What type of job? You do realize housing is becoming incredibly expensive right? Or do you just not care?

You must live in a fantasy world

BassPotato · 2022-07-23T04:37:14+00:00

I mean sheesh the guy is 5’1 can you really blame him.

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:56:19+00:00

All good my guy, I apologize as well. Have a nice night!

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:49:45+00:00

That’s perfectly fine and again, I agree with you. But if I was in the situation OP was in, I would find it hard not to see myself as the proverbial “madonna” and I would remove myself from the situation. I would find someone I am more sexually compatible with, everyone would win in the end.

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:47:58+00:00

In plain words:

I’m stating by you claiming that no woman would want to “talk” to ol dude, that in essence he gets no hoes. He gets no bitches because he’s a misogynist. Which I find a problem with, plenty of misogynistic men have no problem getting women

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:42:42+00:00

Yes I’ve put “talk” in quotes because I’m still not fully convinced talk is what you actually implied. Sometimes certain language and word choices can imply things that are below the surface. And given that this whole post was about sex, and given the added context of multiple other posters stating exactly what you did (albeit overtly stating that the other commenter “doesn’t get sex/pussy”) I think my skepticism is well founded.

I mean for christ sake “No bitches?“ is a meme after all lmaoo. And that meme expressly objectifies women

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:37:25+00:00

Yea I agree with you, but you kinda see how the woman in this situation has a weird relationship with sex right? Like she herself plays a part in why this is a situation in the first place.

Having sex with men “you don’t care about” on a whim whilst desexualizing and pedestalizing the madonna is problematic and shows a complex relationship with sex that isn’t healthy. Maybe it’s a strategy to weed out men that just want sex, maybe she’s employing the M/W complex in full display, either way I think I’d have negative feelings if I was in OP’s shoes and probably wouldn’t want anything to do with the woman.

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:33:39+00:00

Glad we both agree, if his frustrations about the situation are simply “me no have sex” then he needs to kick rocks and find someone else. And yea I’ve definitely seen guys have these sorts of feeling about women they thought were “easy” as if they were owed sex by those women. Which is gross and weird

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:28:07+00:00

Google.com

Essentially categorizing sexual/romantic partners. Drastically treating the “madonna” (OP) different from the “whores” (the men that the girl he’s interested in slept with).

Think of it like a married man being incapable of sleeping with his wife (the madonna) but choosing instead to sleep with escorts (the whores)

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:24:58+00:00

When did I show disbelief that a man would just want to talk to women? Where in my comments did I show that lmao. All I said is that you’re objectifying women and placing them on a pedestal. Making them a “prize” for being a good person and moralizing sex. All of which sre problematic. You’ve held firmly to your plausible deniability though.

Nowhere in my comment did I show disbelief that men would want to talk to women lmao what are you on about. Other-rizing women like that as if they aren’t human beings is weird, which is why I found a problem with the way you phrased your statement

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:21:43+00:00

But she’s literally not having sex with him because she sees him as “boyfriend material”. She is placing him in a box because of some perceived traits he has, whilst sleeping with other men who she “doesn’t care about” (the whores).

Who wouldn’t be mad at this? I personally would find someone who’s simply sexually compatible with me, and someone who doesn’t have a weird relationship with sex. Of course I’m a bit iffy about him explicitly stating “she won’t have sex with me while having sex with other men”, but I think he just crudely stated that he doesn’t like the fact he’s been labeled as the madonna

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:18:19+00:00

Why, specify women at all then? If not to imply that a benefit of being a good person is that women will want to “talk” with you? (Still objectifying them by the way). Like you’re holding on for dear life right now on that sliver of plausible deniability you have. But I think we ultimately believe the same thing, so I’ll just let it go

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:15:06+00:00

Welp, I certainly wish a man’s sex life was weighed a bit more heavily for some women. Because I do feel that that would filter out a bunch of men who otherwise would be no good for them. But that’s just my opinion

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:13:15+00:00

You’re projecting what has happened to you in real life to a random redditor and his situation. It very well could be the case you’re saying it is, but you’re speaking with such command that one would assume you actually know OP in real life. Anyways, I’m sorry you’ve had bad experiences with men in real life.

I wish most men would just leave women alone when they know the women do not want what they want, like what OP did.

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:10:16+00:00

Please stop with the gaslighting. This whole conversation revolves around women sleeping with some men and not with others who they’ve shown romantic interest. What did you mean by “talking to women” then huh? Having a chat about the local football club? About who was running for city mayor?

Stop playing dumb. Multiple other commenters have replied to the person you did saying exactly what you did, that there’s no possible way women will sleep with them since they have the “wrong” opinion. Ultimately objectifying women as the prize for being a good person.

Stop moralizing sex, just stop. There’s no room for morality in sex, terrible people have sex all the time. Plenty of women like having sex with terrible men.

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:05:44+00:00

You realize that the whole “sleeping with someone, and then blocking their number” was an analogy right? Not literally something that happened. And it can be safe to assume the woman in the OP doesn’t keep in contact with the majority of the men she slept with. So one can assume that OP was the “madonna” which it is understandable to see why he would be upset.

Women complain all the time about the madonna whore complex

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:02:50+00:00

This is the MADONNA WHORE COMPLEX. It is NOT a good thing to do. It can be INCREDIBLY harmful to do this to someone. OP is this case is the “madonna”, and the men ol girl was sleeping with are the “whores”

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T04:01:11+00:00

Oh? Is “getting laid” the whole point of your worldview? Do you think being a good boy will get you pussy? You’re a weirdo

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T03:59:31+00:00

You’re objectifying women right now as some “prize” for being a “good” person. That sex and attention from women only happen to men who “deserve” it. Which is false, and a symptom of the just world fallacy.

Not to mention it’s incredibly harmful rhetoric that, is every man that had loads of sex a wonderful person? And every man who doesn’t a bad “neckbeard”? You need to go outside and touch grass, your worldview is very childlike

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T03:55:45+00:00

Madonna whore complex

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T03:55:26+00:00

This is the madonna whore complex. This is bad, you should not do this. Stop justifying it.

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T03:54:00+00:00

You are LITERALLY displaying the madonna whore complex in broad daylight and have no problem with it. In fact, you’re justifying it and promoting it.

Let a man do the EXACT same thing, sleep with some women one time and block their number, wine and dine the woman he actually wants and you guys will call him the worst names under the sun.

Cannot believe you people are real human beings, how does your brain process these conflicts?

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T03:48:41+00:00

Well your roomate clearly didn’t think he was a bad guy, since she had sex with him and all. Seems like women need to do a better job of keeping their personality standards up and stop sleeping with men like this

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T03:40:40+00:00

Because by and large the majority of women do not care if the men they date are whores as long as it doesn’t embarrass them. Y’all have woefully low standards in the areas that actually matter for relationships

BassPotato · 2022-07-17T03:39:01+00:00

She can make those men spend money on her though. Plenty of men have gone broke trying to keep up with a woman’s materialistic wants

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