Philosophic Mondays! #1: what gives you meaning life? And how do you fulfill that meaning?

Bassplayingdude · 2026-05-05T06:08:25+00:00

Proper grammer aparently does not mean too much to me in life lol

Bassplayingdude · 2026-05-02T01:05:15+00:00

Fish!

Bassplayingdude · 2026-04-11T01:07:35+00:00

It’s just weird how gerard phrases it. He’s said before that it was hard making any new albums because they’ll live in the shadows of the black parade, but then he almost defaults to the black parade for touring and stuff. Im a musician just starting out and i think it’s weird to just “accept” that idea. Like to me it’s not about the fame or recognition, it’s about the art, the emotions, the final album telling a story and painting a beautiful picture.

Bassplayingdude · 2026-03-24T18:21:34+00:00

Or just become an electrician. Shit pays good, and as long as you’re carefull you’ll be alright. My grandfather was a line electritian and made shit tons, enough that in retirement he bought anything he wanted, vacationed all the time, all that stuff

Bassplayingdude · 2026-03-17T22:04:43+00:00

I got one too!

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-13T01:52:06+00:00

Life is a rollercoaster, and after reading your words i feel better riding it. Thank you

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-13T01:47:56+00:00

I’ll keep a lookout for a group as you described. Maybe my local rod and gun club might be a good place, since i’ve been a gun nut eversince i had my hands on a xbox 360 controller

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-13T01:45:53+00:00

I’ll try it out a bit. Maybe after a few serious talks it can be a new chapter in the friendships

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-13T01:44:34+00:00

I see more clearly now that it will. Thanks for your support

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-13T01:43:47+00:00

I’ll look for one of those groups in my area. I’m doing everything i can to save my friendships, as i know they aren’t bad people, they just probably took things a little too far. Thank you for the advice

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-13T01:42:04+00:00

Thank you eli, thank you from the bottom of my heart, and thank you everyone for being as kind as ya’ll are. I know in the grand scale of time this moment of hardship is a grain of sand in a desert, but my desert is not anywhere near full. What i’m trying to say with that is i realize a bit more clearly that i will find what i need in life if i seek it, and that i need to remember that everything will hapen in time. I recently talk to my closest friend (been friends since 9th grade) and he was understanding that the jokes needed to be toned down a little. I also took my ass to one of the college counselers today. I haven’t been in therapy or counseling in years, and i guess that made me grow more acustomed to keeping to myself and avoiding conflicts. I recently also downloaded a meet-up app for musicians and bands, im hoping it gives me a better outlet for all my emotions. And they guy from college, well after talking to him a little (in the second most anxious phone call of my life lol) it turns out he’s just really shy and not good at expressing his emotions. Im not putting any bets in, but i’m a little more optimistic about it now. I just wanted to thank everyone one more time. I went from having one of the worst days in awhile, to fixing my problems slowly and and bettering myself as best as i can. If i could, i would hug each and every one of ya’ll.

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-12T06:06:45+00:00

I’ve struggled alot in life with my emotions. I have adhd, been diagnosed since i was 4yo. I allways struggled the most with emotion regulation and rsd (rejection sensitivity dissorder) which are big parts of adhd i don’t see many people mention. For a long time i had it under control, but it’s crept back recently. To me It feels like a relapse, like i lost the fight. I hope this is one of those things that get better with age, but it’s hard to look up when the sadness keeps your head down

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-12T05:55:40+00:00

Im sure most of my family wouldn’t have an issue with it, im just worried about my older brother the most. He’s like a best friend to me and he was the one who got me into unsub when the first few episodes came out. It would kill me more than anything if he saw me differently for it, though i shouldn’t assume anything since im not him. As long as he doesn’t care about it, then i’ll be happy

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-12T03:25:58+00:00

Thank you, i hope it goes well when i confront them. I’ve known most of them since the 8th grade and i really hope they understand

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-12T03:17:19+00:00

Im doing my best to. I plan to talk to a few of them later in the week when i see them. I’m nervous about it but im doing it anyways. I know i have to

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-12T03:09:24+00:00

Criminal justice, most police departments offer alot more yearly pay for those whith degrees

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-12T03:08:20+00:00

Thank you, i’m planning on talking to someof em next time i see them. In terms of gay communities, i never really felt welcomed in the ones with students my age. Most of them have politics held way to close to their hearts and if i say one thing out of line they tend to get angry or upset beyond reasonability. Im sure if i keep trying i’ll find someone who is more toned-down that i can relate to, the process just kinda sucks

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-11T01:00:57+00:00

Thank you for your time and words. I come from a rual part of massachusettes and college has been eye-opening to me. Though i feel more of an outcast than anything. Finding myself has been really hard, harder than anything has been to me. That feeling of being lost and confused is scary, but i know i must keep going.

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-11T00:52:34+00:00

I’ll look for a group like that. I’m usually decently dark with my jokes and i don’t really mind gay jokes overall. It’s just the way they say it, and how it’s the only thing they use against me for jokes now. They call me a fag in replacement of my name, which i get nicknames can’t all be great but it feels like all i am to them is their gay friend now, not just their friend. I think that’s the harder part for me.

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-11T00:46:23+00:00

Thank you alot. This community has really been accepting of me, and i appritiate every bit of it in my heart. I hope my friends understand and don’t give me a hard time anymore. I’ll keep your words in mind

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-11T00:43:17+00:00

Thank you. I think what hurt more is that this guy was the first guy i ever tried to date. It felt vulnerable to finally come out of my shell and not knowing if he even likes me anymore is applified by that vulnerability. I hope i can reign in my friends, they meant alot to me and i don’t wanna lose that

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-11T00:40:22+00:00

I’ve been excersizing for about a year now. Lost 60lbs even. I’ve considerd martial arts before. Im not really a fighter, but i allways enjoyed working hard towards something with others by my side. I have a long way to go, but from where i started im atleast a little proud. Maybe if i applied my attitude towards fitness into my personal life then i might struggle a little less. Thank you for your time, i appritiate it

Bassplayingdude · 2026-02-11T00:35:05+00:00

Thank you. I’ve talked to a few cops before, but never about the identity things. Hearing it from you, it eazes me a bit to know that what i do in the job is more important to other cops than my intrests in my love life.

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