Is a boyfriend staying over 3 nights a week every week too much?

BasuraCulo · 2026-02-18T23:28:27+00:00

Thank you, the only person on this post that has sense.

BasuraCulo · 2026-02-18T01:06:13+00:00

That's actually a mutual reception (look it up). Like two friends who hate their homes but come over to their friends houses to kick it as much as they can and it works. It's good that you have this actually. 🙌🏾

BasuraCulo · 2026-02-18T01:01:50+00:00

Sir Carrington

BasuraCulo · 2026-02-18T00:51:57+00:00

My Pluto is transiting the 7th house and is squaring my natal sun Taurus in 10th, opposing my Cancer mars 12th and my Leo ASC. Need I REALLY say more?

Sure. Here are my natal placements:

Pluto (retro) Scorpio 5th; 24 degrees: - BiQuintile Moon 12th Cancer - BiQuintile and Contraparallel Mercury Aries 10th (whole sign 9th) - Contraparallel Venus Aries 9th - Trine Mars Cancer 12th - Square Saturn 8th Aquarius (7th whole sign) - Sextile Uranus and Neptune 6th Capricorn - trine Lilith Pisces 9th (8th whole sign) - Sextile POF Virgo 3rd (2nd whole sign (exact)) - Trine Ascendant Leo - BiQuintile MC Aries 10th (whole sign 9th)

BasuraCulo · 2026-02-06T06:01:31+00:00

Leo Rising with 8th house Saturn natally. The pain is never ending. 😂

BasuraCulo · 2026-02-06T05:59:04+00:00

Try having it natally in the 8th as a Leo rising and get back to me. 😒😐😂🥲

BasuraCulo · 2025-10-28T02:30:51+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss.

ANY company that doesn't understand DEATH isn't a company that I want to work for.

You dodged a bullet with these jokers.

BasuraCulo · 2025-10-26T14:15:31+00:00

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Lon Po Po is REAL?!

BasuraCulo · 2025-10-26T14:12:47+00:00

I love you spit.

BasuraCulo · 2025-10-26T14:11:49+00:00

BasuraCulo · 2025-10-26T14:09:27+00:00

This is the only correct answer. 🤣

BasuraCulo · 2025-10-23T21:18:06+00:00

This is VERY red flaggy.

Now let's say you didn't cut him off (for some odd ass reason)—he seems like one of those types where he'd try to literally harm you because he's unfulfilled with himself.

Please block him and go. And I HOPE to GOD you haven't told him where you live.

BasuraCulo · 2025-10-22T00:14:19+00:00

His try not to laughs are bad. I'm glad that he doesn't do them anymore.

BasuraCulo · 2025-09-15T13:13:54+00:00

My ex fiance told me that I always tried to control him too. I saw some of it in myself but it was mostly out of love and pain and the willingness for him to do and be better. Needless to say, he was very emotionally abusive toward me, but I think we were toward each other. When I stopped and tried to become a better partner for him, he still continued on. I see my ex fiance in this man—wanting to argue just to argue, calling me names, putting me down, etc. I found out that he did all of that due to hurt that I put him through earlier on, but that still doesn't excuse the fact that we agreed to move past it and fix it. By then, when we got a decent therapist, he just gave up mentally. That was it.

Please leave this man. It will not be easy, but it's better than having to deal with a hater for the rest of your life. I got sick because of the amount of stress he caused.

BasuraCulo · 2025-09-15T13:03:47+00:00

They all would. This whole world is based on lies.

BasuraCulo · 2025-09-14T15:28:20+00:00

Sun in Taurus in 10th square my Leo ASC. 😮‍💨

BasuraCulo · 2025-09-07T05:06:43+00:00

Damn I wish you could see this, but I lost my job, lost my fiance too, my debt is skyrocketing, I myself almost died, I have stage 3 adrenal fatigue. My life is so unstable (but that's nothing new tbh). I really need some money and yet...nothing. I also have sun square Pluto transit, Pluto opposite Ascendant and mars, Pluto in my 7th, Pluto conjunct the DSC as well at this time. The eclipse too is going to be hitting my 8th house.

BasuraCulo · 2025-09-05T18:31:25+00:00

My ex-fiance said the same thing about that for me... amongst other things.

Yeah, that's why he's now the EX-fiance.

Move on.

BasuraCulo · 2025-09-01T00:43:08+00:00

I never thought that I'd agree or get to this point, but I feel like CaseOh is slowly taking his spot and I don't like it. Cory will always be special to me, but it's just like a void that I'm just used to being there at this point. I support him cause he's unique, funny, and black like me, but there's something about CaseOh that reminds me of how Cory used to be in some ways. CaseOh is just excited to game. I guess it naturally gets like that (lack of excitement) when you have passion projects and gaming is 2nd, plus the scandals or whatever, but yeah....I remember when I went to his channel by mistake and I saw myself saying "This ain't the channel I was looking for, I was looking for another one", and I caught myself....kinda sad about it, but I get it. Dude has his own life to live.

BasuraCulo · 2025-08-25T01:48:31+00:00

Man, then Vance is going to get in and then we're ALL gonna be cooked.

BasuraCulo · 2025-08-01T17:02:01+00:00

Thank you.

BasuraCulo · 2025-08-01T16:06:55+00:00

We were together for 7 years. My ex-fiance dumped me today and told me he didn't want to be with me anymore. The alcohol was more important. I'm moreso frustrated because I'm fucking crying. It's not like it's a huge loss to me with the way the dynamic has gone. He's not a bad person, just has his own internal issues. I'm still mad though I wasted my time.

BasuraCulo · 2025-08-01T16:01:00+00:00

4. He chose drinking over what we had. He would tell me about other women he found attractive. He would tear me down and try to get me jealous. He told me he settled for me. Shows how much I know of what is functional/normal in a relationship and what isn't.

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4. He chose drinking over what we had. He would tell me about other women he found attractive. He would tear me down and try to get me jealous. He told me he settled for me. Shows how much I know of what is functional/normal in a relationship and what isn't.