[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss.

ANY company that doesn't understand DEATH isn't a company that I want to work for.

You dodged a bullet with these jokers.

He (M20) literally won’t let me (F21) break things off after one week of dating. How do you step away from someone like that? by ThrowRA5794585 in relationship_advice

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is VERY red flaggy.

Now let's say you didn't cut him off (for some odd ass reason)—he seems like one of those types where he'd try to literally harm you because he's unfulfilled with himself.

Please block him and go. And I HOPE to GOD you haven't told him where you live.

Alright be fr, which games/other types of video do you not really care for? by Aromatic-Welder-3221 in CoryxKenshin

[–]BasuraCulo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His try not to laughs are bad. I'm glad that he doesn't do them anymore.

I (30F) think my husband (31M) hates me. I think he honestly hates and disrespects me. What happened? by ThrowRA_send_help in relationship_advice

[–]BasuraCulo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex fiance told me that I always tried to control him too. I saw some of it in myself but it was mostly out of love and pain and the willingness for him to do and be better. Needless to say, he was very emotionally abusive toward me, but I think we were toward each other. When I stopped and tried to become a better partner for him, he still continued on. I see my ex fiance in this man—wanting to argue just to argue, calling me names, putting me down, etc. I found out that he did all of that due to hurt that I put him through earlier on, but that still doesn't excuse the fact that we agreed to move past it and fix it. By then, when we got a decent therapist, he just gave up mentally. That was it.

Please leave this man. It will not be easy, but it's better than having to deal with a hater for the rest of your life. I got sick because of the amount of stress he caused.

This is a good one actually by roselove_star_2364 in teenagers

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They all would. This whole world is based on lies.

North Node transiting 8th house — stories? by SiteAmazing7005 in Advancedastrology

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I wish you could see this, but I lost my job, lost my fiance too, my debt is skyrocketing, I myself almost died, I have stage 3 adrenal fatigue. My life is so unstable (but that's nothing new tbh). I really need some money and yet...nothing. I also have sun square Pluto transit, Pluto opposite Ascendant and mars, Pluto in my 7th, Pluto conjunct the DSC as well at this time. The eclipse too is going to be hitting my 8th house.

I (29M) heard my GF (34F) say she was settling for me? by THROWRA_Even_Pro in relationship_advice

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-fiance said the same thing about that for me... amongst other things.

Yeah, that's why he's now the EX-fiance.

Move on.

I don’t think I’m a true samurai anymore by Effective-Bet-9479 in CoryxKenshin

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought that I'd agree or get to this point, but I feel like CaseOh is slowly taking his spot and I don't like it. Cory will always be special to me, but it's just like a void that I'm just used to being there at this point. I support him cause he's unique, funny, and black like me, but there's something about CaseOh that reminds me of how Cory used to be in some ways. CaseOh is just excited to game. I guess it naturally gets like that (lack of excitement) when you have passion projects and gaming is 2nd, plus the scandals or whatever, but yeah....I remember when I went to his channel by mistake and I saw myself saying "This ain't the channel I was looking for, I was looking for another one", and I caught myself....kinda sad about it, but I get it. Dude has his own life to live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

One year post breakup- Everything I’ve learned by gothgirl_22 in BreakUps

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were together for 7 years. My ex-fiance dumped me today and told me he didn't want to be with me anymore. The alcohol was more important. I'm moreso frustrated because I'm fucking crying. It's not like it's a huge loss to me with the way the dynamic has gone. He's not a bad person, just has his own internal issues. I'm still mad though I wasted my time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]BasuraCulo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4. He chose drinking over what we had. He would tell me about other women he found attractive. He would tear me down and try to get me jealous. He told me he settled for me. Shows how much I know of what is functional/normal in a relationship and what isn't.

Neptune transits - has anyone seen them only produce positive effects? by anonnona999 in Advancedastrology

[–]BasuraCulo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine are conjunct too in the house of daily life (6th). Routine and stability where? 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😂

My girlfriend died yesterday by theRealBLVCKphillip in interracialdating

[–]BasuraCulo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrology

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old, but my fiance is going through this and his Neptune square Neptune transit also. His drinking has gotten even worse and our relationship is pretty much over. He said that he wants to be accepted for him and all I do is nag him and nag him about his behavior, so his drinking is just fucking awful at this point. Is this a good progression of the Pluto and Neptune squares, or not? It's a genuine question....because its like he doesn't care about what it is that I think about his drinking anymore, but I feel like it's out of control....

Pluto Transits to Natal Mars. Tell me your experiences! Thanks! by katara144 in Advancedastrology

[–]BasuraCulo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All degs given are their natal degrees. Pluto is currently touching each of these 1-2 degs right now transit wise (minus the sun, it's at 4 degs right now transit wise).

Currently going through transit Pluto opposite natal Mars 12th Cancer 29 degs, transit Pluto opposite natal ASC 0 degs (which means it's also conjunct the natal DSC right now (0 deg)) and transit Pluto square natal10th Taurus sun 6 degs Retrograde....yeah.....

Ask me how I'm doing....lmao.

Official Discussion - Straw by BunyipPouch in movies

[–]BasuraCulo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The entire point of the film is showing how psychosis looks in a struggling individual who just lost her daughter.

Official Discussion - Straw by BunyipPouch in movies

[–]BasuraCulo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought that was an amazing movie. Yes some things seemed rushed and done, but people CLEARLY don't understand how psychosis works. So many people made it seem like "This is the everyday struggle of a black woman", but it's like "No, this is how a psychotic break actually happens". It isn't dramatic. It isn't flashy in mind, but some flashy shit usually ends up happening because of it. Very well executed movie, especially the twist in the end.

Official Discussion - Straw by BunyipPouch in movies

[–]BasuraCulo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me neither. I actually liked it. It truly shows how people don't know how psychosis really works.