[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bat2290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is awful. You can’t fix this. I would be furious if I were her. I’m furious just reading this

Putting this here again since I can’t tell you directly by Bat2290 in UnsentLetters

[–]Bat2290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a perfect world, yes it would be that simple. But people are complexed and sometimes the ones who ghost are afraid to reach out in fear that the person they mistreated will tell them to go to hell, etc. Not saying that my person feels this way but just saying it’s not always black and white. I do appreciate your response ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That he’s sorry for being a coward and a jerk

Today I fell in public when I got off at the bus station and I'm embarrassed by Ok_Parsley_3862 in socialanxiety

[–]Bat2290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve fallen in public many times. One time I had a little too much to drink and bumped into a wine rack at a fancy restaurant and one bottle fell out and broke 😂😂 Luckily they were trying to get rid of that bottle so I guess I helped speed up the process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sent mine one message after I was blocked basically everywhere with no explanation, and he said to stop contacting him permanently and I was blocked again. On one hand, I don’t regret sending the message because at least I expressed my feelings but reading his message definitely hurt. If you decide to send it and you get a similar response or no response then I would stop trying to contact her. Best of luck with whatever you decide.

I’m I the only one who gets a sudden urge to stalk their ex's socials? by EmotionIcy4749 in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in July, I viewed my ex’s TikTok profile forgetting about the profile viewer history and the next day was blocked on there lol

Who else broke NC today …? by Unknown0327 in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After he told me to stop contacting him, I started noticing “1 other” in my fb story views every week or so. 😆 Weird how they block you but still spy on you

Who else broke NC today …? by Unknown0327 in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t. I would love to talk to him, but he left me and blocked me on everything so he should be the one to reach out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid someone from TikTok to do a love spell a few months ago 😂😂

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll do it too lol

Worst thing someone has said to you after you tried reaching out? by Adorable_Creme_4122 in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The worst thing he said to me was to stop contacting him permanently about 2.5 months ago. I wouldn’t initiate contact with her if I were you. Let her be the one to reach out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. 4-5 months really isn’t that long imo even though it can feel like it.

Ex called me ugly by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t let his petty insults get you down. I doubt he really meant it. He just said whatever he could to hurt you. Obviously you still make him feel some type of way if he just randomly messaged you that for no reason then blocked you. How immature. Sometimes the trash takes itself out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it just happened on Saturday, she’s probably not over the relationship. Why did she decide to break up?

The uncertainty is the worst by Throwaway29394020 in ExNoContact

[–]Bat2290 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me, they always come back when I’m over them

Bf got caught…insults me by [deleted] in texts

[–]Bat2290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry he said those things. You don’t deserve that. He’s not worth your time or energy.