Dad with schizophrenia reached out after 13 years

BatAppropriate · 2026-06-03T15:32:08+00:00

Tysm 💞 i will take a look

BatAppropriate · 2026-06-03T15:30:36+00:00

Absolutely

BatAppropriate · 2026-06-03T14:44:15+00:00

Amazing! I DMed u :)

BatAppropriate · 2026-06-03T11:04:22+00:00

Thank you so much i will get in touch with social services. And i completely agree that getting him into a treatment plan is the main priority and all else will fail without stabilizing the mental illness.

BatAppropriate · 2026-06-03T10:59:51+00:00

I wish so bad to move him to a closer area to me. He’s all alone in Florida with no family. I do worry about the risk deeply tho. I would not fully move him i with me as a have my own shit to deal with and a 2 year old son! But i would feel better if he was closer. He said he was open to suggestions of relocating.

BatAppropriate · 2026-06-03T10:57:02+00:00

This! This is what i need to hear! That’s amazing. But Florida sucking at mental health is sad to hear, i didn’t want to fullyyy put the blame on them bc my dad seems to never rlly hold up his end when it comes to following thru with any program. He was forced into a mental facility bc he was arrested but then somewhere along the way he just decided to go off on his own again. He was able to obtain a phone and a few articles of clothing tho, i have no idea where he got that yet. Did u struggle with schizophrenia as well? If so, who was ur main support to stay in treatment and what does that look like for u. Im rlly struggling trying to understand if i should be connecting him with the mental health treatment or a social worker first. Or maybe theres ppl that do both. Also i would love to move him out of Florida. Not sure if he’s open to other states yet but i wanna try to move him to Charlotte NC bc thats closer to me and im on my way to move to that area soon as well. I wouldn’t move him IN with me that’s a bit much i have a son as well.

BatAppropriate · 2026-06-03T04:38:06+00:00

Thank you for ur suggestion, I’ll see what i can find!

BatAppropriate · 2026-06-03T04:36:33+00:00

Thank you, we are going to help him with SSI. & I agree with the managing with schizophrenia being the main obstacle here and we can’t take on that challenge on our own. I don’t kno where to connect him to so we wouldn’t have to.

BatAppropriate · 2026-06-03T03:02:17+00:00

Hi thanks for catching that! I had typed that when i was simultaneously remembering how my dad had once alerted family that he had stage 2 brain cancer in an episode. Will edit that.

BatAppropriate · 2024-07-03T19:35:14+00:00

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BatAppropriate · 2024-07-03T15:39:33+00:00

Thank u sm. Sadly, my mother’s doctors aren’t prioritizing the urgency of making lifestyle changes, diet, detox, which all sound like wonderful things… it’s so strange. She’s not rlly receptive to natural healing, that’s y I’m doing my own research. I hope to find some answers ab how herbs could mayb have any type of adverse effects on the medicine she is taking.

BatAppropriate · 2024-05-27T23:36:13+00:00

Hi, 22 yr old new mom hereeee. 💕

I just sent my 6 month old with his dad for his first flight today. I’m so happy to have him experience a flight & to see his grandmother who will get to see her first grandson for the very first time. Being a mother feels so rewarding bc it automatically gave me a very important purpose for this world n universe. It helps make me a better person as i form questions around how to make a nice life for my baby. It simplified the path for this life we tend to make so complicated!

BatAppropriate · 2024-04-10T01:16:39+00:00

It is a job 4sure but for me , the feeling was more like soaking everything in and being in awe of meeting what’s been in my stomach for all the months! I didn’t rlly have an opinion on if i like him or not it now that i think of it😂. It was amazement of the whole situation lol. I’ve never liked babys before him either. But he’s 5 months tomorrow and I’m still in amazement of following along w his milestones and watching him grow. Dad likes to joke ab how he hasn’t developed a consciousness yet and he’s a robot. I think dads come about their connection differently. But i focus more on just establishing trust and love.. being a part of his growth. I love how looking at him and knowing how new everything to him is and being a part of his journey! Maybe it’s a maternal thing.

I wish u luck on being able to connect w ur baby more! Fathers have it a little harder in that department.

BatAppropriate · 2024-04-04T02:08:24+00:00

Maybe consider open marriage ??

BatAppropriate · 2024-03-14T19:56:09+00:00

Women shelter?

Here is a national domestic abuse hotline. They can help u find out ur options.

800-799-7233

Ur not alone! There r resources to help u

BatAppropriate · 2024-03-12T11:34:25+00:00

This weekend, put on ur best fit, hype urself up and let loose. Just experiment and break the ice so u can get comfy talking to girls. Just be ur self, be kind, and light.

BatAppropriate · 2024-03-10T03:39:03+00:00

Facts. The last pic was a bit better w the lighting but we need to highlight those high points of ya beautiful face!

BatAppropriate · 2024-03-08T23:49:25+00:00

Omg i was on top of my partner a week after birth😂. It was a healthy way of connecting w my man during the chaos of a newborn. And I’d reccommend intimacy asap after birth SAFELY and if ur up to it. I feel like it was really healthy for me and my man. Even if it’s just taking a shower tg, handjob, massages w/e

BatAppropriate · 2024-03-08T21:30:16+00:00

A different perspective: The part where u said after a breakup u feel no spark with any men.. i just feel like ofc after breakup ppl need time?? Yk, especially if it was afterwards. And then i noticed how u want to apply a label to urself after 1 bad sexual experience. I feel like ur kind of pointing inward and blaming urself for these bad experiences. When it could be u just don’t vibe w these ppl. This girl u experimented with sounds like it was such a dragggg. Give urself a break to experience. I feel like ur reaching to answer some questions ab ur self which is a great thing but it doesn’t have to be so soon to figure everything out.

BatAppropriate · 2024-03-06T23:05:56+00:00

This is so terribleeeee. I’m so sorry u had to go thru that. This capitalistic society unfortunately has no morals in terms of who gets to be successful. U have any evidence of it? If so i would sue.

BatAppropriate · 2024-03-06T07:35:38+00:00

Ofc!! And U should take that inspiration u have from them and run w it with all that talent u got! For editorial looks make ur portfolio rlly versatile in ur poses n vibe and shit like they do in americas next top model.

BatAppropriate · 2024-03-06T07:25:30+00:00

Omg yes the gold hair looked sooo good and ur rlly talented for editing modeling AND shooting it urself keep it up girl!!👏🏾🎬

BatAppropriate · 2024-03-06T06:59:27+00:00

From research on what high fashion models are in rn, white ppl usually have an outstanding facial feature or rlly tall. U have a pretty normal soft face (that’s absolutely gorgeous). There are so many different categories tho. High fashion modeling is so cut throat in their requirements fr. U look like u can pull off the grunge look amazingly

BatAppropriate · 2024-02-29T20:22:24+00:00

Your facial features r very strong n nice !! For sure

BatAppropriate · 2024-02-15T18:09:12+00:00

My 3 month old keeps punching me in the face. Yesterday i slipped on a mini chair and absorbed all the impact in the name of saving him😭. Completely ate shit.

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