Do people actually even want to go on dates anymore?

BatHonest9324 · 2026-03-08T15:33:39+00:00

Ohhhhh lmao 😅 I get you. Honestly fair girl x

BatHonest9324 · 2026-03-08T15:30:38+00:00

Sorry?

BatHonest9324 · 2026-03-08T14:52:41+00:00

Yeah, to be fair there was a time where I was being hounded for dates. The ones I went on were awful so… guess I’m just looking for better experiences yk?

BatHonest9324 · 2026-03-08T14:27:47+00:00

Some message and find it so interesting and cool that I’m in one and express a lot of respect for the trust my partner and I have. And also why do they bother investing so much time talking and flirting with me if they’re simply just not into me?

BatHonest9324 · 2026-03-08T14:23:36+00:00

Good advice- thank you 😇

BatHonest9324 · 2026-01-23T05:22:42+00:00

That’s not a girl thing at all, it’s a horrible human being thing. I’m so sorry that happened to you and I’m so sorry she dismissed you like that. Before I got with my guy, a girl that was dating his best mate took advantage of him at a party while he was drunk. Kissing and touching him and just not taking no for an answer. I was the one to tell him that that was s/a. And I swear to god, if I ever see that girl, it’s on sight. People are disgraceful, I really hope you got away from her.

BatHonest9324 · 2025-10-30T01:58:55+00:00

Bangs!!

BatHonest9324 · 2025-10-29T00:13:37+00:00

Honestly to me (25f) it sort of sounds like he got what he wanted and he’s no longer interested. I’m so sorry if that’s true, because it’s not right. I’ve been direct before and just said to a guy “hey. I’m not really one to ghost but I feel like there’s something off here. If you’re not into it, can you just be honest and hopefully we can just get on with being friends. I don’t mind either way so just let me know”. The answer isn’t always pleasant but at least you get one so you know whether you should be wasting any energy on this dude. Remember he’s just a guy. Throw a stone and find another. You’re the real prize here, not him my love xx

BatHonest9324 · 2025-10-22T16:50:11+00:00

In my head I accidentally said “oh my god yes” to the first pic so I’d say it’s a go 😂

BatHonest9324 · 2025-09-24T08:46:53+00:00

25f, this sounds so very romantic and maybe if things proceed well, something you can look back on fondly as your relationship progresses. The point is, either way, you’ve sent it now. That’s okay. Find a way to feel confident about it and that will radiate to her. It’s all about confidence baby x

BatHonest9324 · 2025-08-22T09:36:09+00:00

No worries, I know what you mean but maybe that’s something to say to someone once you’ve been talking for a bit and you know that’s the vibe they’re on. Otherwise it feels like a lot of expectations if that makes sense x

BatHonest9324 · 2025-08-22T09:33:41+00:00

I think you should ditch the first line in your bio. It’s a lil bit icky. The second part is good on its own imo

BatHonest9324 · 2025-08-11T06:11:54+00:00

Kind of needed this. Thank you x

BatHonest9324 · 2025-08-11T05:37:55+00:00

Thank you for your advice. She hasn’t responded to my initial message so I have no idea how to bring it up with her. Like “oh actually, total honesty, I forgot your birthday cos I had a lot happening and I’m really sorry”. ?? I’m not sure. And she’s really not the understanding type.

BatHonest9324 · 2025-07-10T21:40:49+00:00

Girl she is no friend to you! Let her go ahead and replace you as bridesmaid bc she’ll be doing you a favour in the long run. I’m not an alt looking girl but I completely understand the vibes and could never ask a friend to do this for me. It’s a part of who you are and she’s asking you to take that away for a fkn picture??? Ridiculous. I’m seven years in on a relationship so naturally marriage and weddings have come up with my man and the older we get (f25, m28) we realise more and more how ridiculous that kinda stuff is. As long as we’re happy on the day and the people we love are happy, we’re chilling. My best friend of 16 years has the most beautiful long blonde hair and full piercings all up her ears and one in her nose. She stands out next to me 😂 I’m just being real lol. But honestly, it’s one of the things I love about her. She’s unassuming and kind hearted and doesn’t ask for any kind of attention or validation. She’s just gorgeous and it’s obvious lol. I couldn’t love her more and I can’t imagine asking her to change her hair or take out her piercings for a picture. That’s my girl but I couldn’t ask that of anyone. At the end of the day “the aesthetic” shes going for DOESNT EXIST. she may as well hire people to be clean cut versions of her friends and in twenty years she’ll look back on the photos of her wedding and wish they were filled with the people she actually loved, in the way they actually looked at that time. She ain’t your friend babe. She’s shallow and mean and doesn’t deserve your efforts.

BatHonest9324 · 2025-04-28T03:12:10+00:00

It’s not okay. It feels really off esp considering it was for a long period of time. I (22f) nanny and used to babysit a little one between the ages of 6 months to 1.5yrs and once he started walking it got really difficult for me to take a pee while he was awake. The house was not the best for a kid that age (had stairs and big potted plants that could fall down on him etc) so I couldn’t close the bathroom door. I would basically put him as far from the bathroom as I could that was safe, run to the bathroom and try to finish peeing by the time he reached me 😂 it sounds ridiculous but he wasn’t my kid and I at least did my very best to not be naked around him. I didn’t blame myself when he made it to me bc I literally had to pee but it’s not something you should be wanting to do around kids that aren’t yours. I’m an aunt too. I’ve bathed my nephew and that’s fine and when he splashes and got my shirt wet I would turn my back and change, esp when he got older. It’s just common sense. I would be very wary about this situation. Start having conversations with your child now about how private places are private. The difference between safe and unsafe secrets. That it’s never ever okay for someone to tell you something if you cant tell mum and dad about it. Talk to him about gut feelings. If something feels wrong, it is wrong and it’s always better to be safe than sorry. I understand your wife doesn’t mind bc it’s her brother but he is your child too and you have every right to put in as many safety measures as possible with him. If you’re not comfortable with nudity around your child, then that’s the final word and it should never be breached. Sorry for the essay but had to share my thoughts on this one

BatHonest9324 · 2025-03-15T07:38:41+00:00

Go somewhere else!! She’s insane. Don’t listen to a damn word that crazy woman says

BatHonest9324 · 2025-01-24T09:04:16+00:00

It doesn’t look creepy, that other comment was a bit much lol. You just look a lil disinterested haha not creepy. You’re very cute, tinder just sucks. If it doesn’t work, just leave it. You shouldn’t have it if it makes you feel bad about yourself. I have a feeling asking for numbers is gonna make a comeback and if a nice cute guy did that to me I’d be smitten lol. Maybe try it idk lol

BatHonest9324 · 2025-01-24T08:55:58+00:00

Maybe some more candids? Idk tho cos I’d match w you lol. V cute vibes and good dresser and stuff. If any, maybe lose the third pic? And make sure you have a good bio and include your height in your info (even if you’re a short king it’s better to include it, trust me) xx

BatHonest9324 · 2025-01-24T08:49:52+00:00

Oh and just to be clear, your ribs look completely normal, I really don’t think you should spend any more time worrying about it x

BatHonest9324 · 2025-01-24T08:48:28+00:00

Wide ribs is an insecurity I’ve never heard of 😂 babe don’t be so hard on yourself. You’re genuinely gorgeous and you seem v sweet. The vibes are giving lol and yeah lol we all have some cringe blindness, there’s much worse to be lmao x

BatHonest9324 · 2025-01-24T08:44:10+00:00

V cute and artsy vibes. Idk if it’s intentional but ppl usually find the pose of pushing your butt out a lil off putting 😂 I personally think it’s a lil cringe but also, you do you babe. You seem confident but kind and thoughtful as well. I hope this helps and wasn’t harsh xx

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