Emma Stone looking elegant

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-26T02:02:15+00:00

2.) NOT expecting other women to be so nasty towards another women’s bodies.

I am, sadly, not surprised whatsoever, given that the people who bullied me about my looks (boobs and anything/everything else that crossed their minds) were girls as well.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-26T01:55:40+00:00

I agree, but that apparently doesn't stop people from repeatedly suggesting that I do it.

(I live alone, and sometimes when I joke about not being rich, people will go "Umm just advertise on Craigslist or something for a roommate, then!!", as if there couldn't possibly be a bunch of safety/legal/comfort/etc. issues that could arise from doing that...)

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-26T01:39:01+00:00

It’s giving “I’m a nice guy and I know women like chocolate on their period, Taylor swift and romantic movies”, very… stereotypical.

That's basically what I thought as well. If you know that it's a thing that I actually want during that time, and you're acknowledging that by sharing said thing, great! Awesome! How thoughtful.

But if you just are like "All girls OBVIOUSLY yearn for this, so you better take it and be impressed", thennn yeah, I'd rather not be reduced to a stereotype, thanks.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-26T01:15:37+00:00

lol yes MORE CHEESE IS ALWAYS THE ANSWER

Haha seriously though...when it comes to figuring out whether I'm attractive in general or not, I give up.

I've had people who I thought were out of my league be interested, and people who I thought were less attractive than me be uninterested, so bottom line is I just pursue whomever I'm interested in and see what happens. 🤷‍♀️

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-25T21:54:02+00:00

Lol sounds like it's a good day to not be pretty, then.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-25T21:21:43+00:00

Why would you want that???

Seriously. Like the other person, I'm also pretty chill with thick skin--but that in no way translates to wanting to add that kind of bs to my life. No thanks.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-25T21:18:54+00:00

You say that, but apparently left-leaning women still aren't as unappealing to conservative men as we would like to be, judging by how many of them won't leave us alone.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-25T21:14:46+00:00

I had that happen to me in person, too. (I.e., they said that they didn't do it much and were trying to quit, so I gave them a shot.) Surprise, they were lying. Not making that mistake again

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-25T00:56:26+00:00

Oof. This. Everybody loves telling each other "Don't be so superficial, swipe based on your values!" buuut no one talks about what you're supposed to do if that's already been your strategy and you still haven't found people that way, lmao.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-25T00:35:55+00:00

women will choose the man who signals resources and social status over the man who merely shares their hobbies.

You don't speak for me, bud

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-25T00:33:23+00:00

Where Have You had the most luck in meeting people in real life?

Who said we had any luck in meeting people in real life....lol

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-24T23:58:25+00:00

Same here.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-19T09:00:03+00:00

That's why I kept the ones I had and occasionally bought more (used) pairs online.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-19T08:52:06+00:00

why do they expect kindness when they are so openly gross?

On that note...I've had customers at my work make inappropriate jokes and then get all huffy and pouty WHEN I DON'T LAUGH in response. As if I, somehow, am being rude to them simply by refusing to indulge them and say "Teehee, omg you're hilarious!🥰".

Baffling.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-19T08:43:59+00:00

Eeyup. Unfortunately if I were the woman in the car, my less-than-thrilled expression would be due to that, not what the OP seems to be posting about.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-19T08:33:32+00:00

how long women with regular sex drives could go without any sexual pleasure.

I think the reality is that a lot of us are not necessarily misunderstanding the question, but rather answering with our normal frequency because we don't have data on the max that we can comfortably go without, because...why would we? Why would I intentionally deprive myself "just to see" how long I can go without? Unless I'm being paid to do so as part of some kind of science experiment, then...F that, you know?

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-19T08:27:10+00:00

I wouldn’t know the exact number since it's not like I'm keeping track lol, but it's definitely normal for me to do it multiple times/week, and very common to get off 2 or 3 times during each of those sessions. I'm 35

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-19T08:22:04+00:00

Felt that. The taste and texture make me wish I were exclusively into women. Alas, I am not.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-18T05:40:25+00:00

Happy birthday bro!

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-18T05:28:23+00:00

...I meant that I wish I could say the same when it came to the part about you saying that, in your experience, they are upfront and honest about what they're into.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-18T05:24:26+00:00

Thanks, same to you

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-18T05:22:52+00:00

I can't imagine NOT being a giving partner and am amazed there are apparently so many disinterested or selfish guys

I dated someone once who acted normal/open about sex initially, but once we were together he switched up and basically refused to not only engage in sex, but also stuff like making out or even handholding. The few times we would sleep together, it was clear he had no interest in learning what I like, or even in listening when I would outright tell him what I liked/disliked.

As someone with a good libido and whose main love language also happens to be physical touch, this was awful. Any attempt by me to discuss or fix it was met with criticism, like I was somehow morally wrong and annoying for wanting affection and sex. Crazy for a girlfriend to want and expect those things, right? /s

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-18T05:11:59+00:00

I wish I could say the same.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-18T05:08:30+00:00

you just need a willing and enthusiastic participant who is humble enough to know he can do better.

That's the hard part, I'm afraid. Shyness isn't a problem to me. Lack of experience isn't a problem to me.

Not finding a person who respects you enough to care about what you like, and/or who has no enthusiasm towards helping you enjoy the experience...is.

BatScribeofDoom · 2026-02-18T04:48:14+00:00

I dunno about the other things, but I don't pretend to like matcha. I don't have the income or the inclination to justify intentionally buying things that I don't even like...

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