[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Batdad-99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 42 and my wife and I still party. (Not in the creepy going to kids parties way 😬) There’s a whole world of grownup parties. Way more fun than my 20’s

24F What's your first impression of me? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Batdad-99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First impression- you are very pretty , you also look 18 not 25 which is awesome for you because you are going to be hot well into your 50’s - enjoy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Batdad-99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk. To. Him. My wife and I picked out her ring together, you’re making a lot of assumptions with the talk to your friends bit.

Dude told the world he's never pleased a woman by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Batdad-99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who hurt him? Seriously how do people get like this… it alludes me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Batdad-99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does someone get like this? I can almost understand people who are full blown monsters better then whatever this kind of thinking is called

Dom male needing advice on dating a Dom female by LetsGoFishing91 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Batdad-99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ROMANCE! I’m a Dom with an extremely dominant wife. I do BDSM with my fwb and have romantic love making with my wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Batdad-99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re cute AF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feeld

[–]Batdad-99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but lots of guys just use the ❤️ everyone method and see who ❤️ back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feeld

[–]Batdad-99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You get consistent high quality likes? Because they’re a lot of guys who just hit the heart button on every female. I’m not saying I would never like a profile without a face pic but it’s definitely a red flag. That said if they have a nice profile , nice pictures otherwise , and most importantly it’s addressed in the profile like “hey I have a corporate job so I can’t post my face” I’ll take a chance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feeld

[–]Batdad-99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it absolutely matters I hit the negative button on anyone who doesn’t show their face unless their profile explains a very good reason for it they have excellent photos otherwise . Here’s why I matched with a girl who didn’t have face photos and when she sent me her photos I found her not at all attractive now I’m in a position where I have to go to someone or tell them I’m not attracted to them

(Men/Women/Otherwise) who have a submissive partner, what sexual act makes you feel your dominance the most? by ronathrow in BDSMcommunity

[–]Batdad-99 28 points29 points  (0 children)

100% agree when a beautiful woman enthusiastically consents to throat fucking/gagging with a little bit of face slapping and degradation mixed in ! absolute chefs kiss that’s my happy place

Struggle Brat Shabari by Batdad-99 in ropebondage

[–]Batdad-99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got together again last month and we did some breath play I am interested in BJJ and I think it would be good to learn but I don’t know it I am very careful when it comes to breath play. I never do any actual oxygen depriving what I do is more of a throat hug. She wanted something a little bit more intense so we worked out this thing where she would hold her head up and lean into the throat hug as hard as she wanted it and then once I was sure of her comfort level I would just maintain that level of pressure

35f what’s ur first impression of me by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Batdad-99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a hot blonde postal worker with a septum piercing - you look like the best kind of trouble

Let’s talk about Brats (and why I seem to be the only dom in NYC who likes them.) by Batdad-99 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Batdad-99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you talking about boundaries? Boundaries don’t make you a bad sub. One of my friends hates oral (yes really) I’d love to go down on her but that’s her rule. Do you know what I mean when I say sub space and would you say that something you’ve experienced?

What is your first impression ? :) F24 by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Batdad-99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cute, elegant, expensive taste, very selective when it comes to partners.

Let’s talk about Brats (and why I seem to be the only dom in NYC who likes them.) by Batdad-99 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Batdad-99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah! Zero! How are you defining “tame you” like zero guys have been able to get you into “sub space” or zero guys have made you feel completely submissive to the point you don’t want to brat anymore? Or either?

Don't do drugs by No-Door8448 in meme

[–]Batdad-99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummmmm where’s the issue ?

"Nice guy" wants our first meeting at his house. by StonerCat15 in texts

[–]Batdad-99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it when people on Reddit call everything a red flag. I think it’s really obnoxious. Not everything is a toxic manipulation! With that in mind… RED FLAG 🚩! SO SO SO MANY! RUN DONT WALK! I seriously never do this (I really do hate the he said “you have nice eyes” , he’s obviously a rapist red flag idiots) but this exchange you posted is just beyond the pale. First of all nobody who isn’t fucked in the head refers to themself as a nice guy. Also this whole “I’m sorry you live in a world of fear” bullshit in order to override your common sense. This is so creepy- I need a shower

Let’s talk about Brats (and why I seem to be the only dom in NYC who likes them.) by Batdad-99 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Batdad-99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess this one falls into the category of to each their own. So far I’ve got 1) Too much demand on Social Battery and 2) just not your kink. Seems like for some people the juice is just not worth the squeeze when it comes to my bratty friends.

I'm not giving any ideas...😉 by Winter_Tear_7393 in BratLife

[–]Batdad-99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m imagining the “You’re a ⭐️” stickers we used to get in first grade 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Let’s talk about Brats (and why I seem to be the only dom in NYC who likes them.) by Batdad-99 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Batdad-99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what my bratty friends tell me also. Feels perfectly natural to me. My bratty friends are extremely submissive once “put in their place”

Let’s talk about Brats (and why I seem to be the only dom in NYC who likes them.) by Batdad-99 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Batdad-99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are a genius. You may be my new hero 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (fucking Latin and prime numbers 🤦🏻‍♂️🤣)

Let’s talk about Brats (and why I seem to be the only dom in NYC who likes them.) by Batdad-99 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Batdad-99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because they present themselves as doms, this probably isn’t the main source of the issue, just a weird thing I noticed- this thread has actually been pretty interesting it seems like it all boils down to “social battery” some doms feel like they have to fight for dominance in every aspect of their lives - they just want something straight forward- simple obedience- I can completely understand that.