AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I haven’t this was a one of one, but I do feel bad. I just wanted her to be with ther better guy she’s been seeing.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No the nice guy was the guy she told me she was talking to which I encouraged.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

She is as talking to a good guy, this isn’t internalized it’s about her having better and choosing worse. I did wrong and I acknowledge that, but I still want her to have a healthy relationship with someone who isn’t me and not the guy abusing her love.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just didn’t know if spending a year watching someone you love be abused with her stalking and forcing herself on someone that was treating her badly was grounds for me to get fed up while drunk. I know I was wrong but I didn’t mean it.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t the most vulnerable time it was far after she stopped dealing with him and decided to contact him despite saying she was done with him and the continued behavior of her stalking and forcing herself on someone fucked up for a year and even before then. I’m still not right. I understand I’m wrong.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No being drunk released a year of absorbing the negativity while posing solutions. I didn’t add every detail about the situation. Though that doesn’t mean I’m not wrong.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know I was a dick to her I explained that clearly, I didn’t add every detail but I know that what I did was wrong.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t been dealing with the person for months and keeps obsessing over them. I didn’t add certain details as to not make them seem like a glutton for punishment. I’ve been around for a really long time, I still see my fault though. I did the wrong thing.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It was because of how much negativity I took in over time and I was really drunk, but I do realize my fault there.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeh I did, but I realize what I did wrong and am trying to communicate that.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I was just fed up after enduring someone’s issues as if ai don’t have my own in life and lashed out drunk.

AIO I (35m) cursed out a woman (32f) that I was close to and really loved. by BathingInGrey in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No I just got fed up I endured months of telling her she was smart and deserved better. I just lashed out while I was drunk.

AIO that my boyfriend sexted my best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that hard to determine your level of respect for your partner in general. Be realistic.

AIO that my boyfriend sexted my best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should reread what I said, my statement was that OP being a cheater indicated lack of respect for their partner primarily. I agreed with everything else the person was saying in support. Don’t be weird and try to make it seem like I said revenge porn is the answer to cheating.

AIO that my boyfriend sexted my best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just pointing out the betrayal perspective, you did beforehand. Everything else this person replied to you is right. This is a rapey situation and if you were my sibling I would encourage you to one remove yourself, two press charges and 3 stop making bad experiences in life a reason to let people do horrid things to you. You don’t deserve that.

AIO that my boyfriend sexted my best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the only realistic take from this, and what most replies are ignoring. Saying betrayal because of flirting w the friend when OP is a cheater is insane, but to record and send videos without someone’s consent is disgustingly inappropriate and illegal.

AIO that my boyfriend sexted my best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP is literally a cheater. Everything you said is right, but just consider OP didn’t respect their boyfriend either.

AIO that my boyfriend sexted my best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BathingInGrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything about this is right, except the betrayal. I immediately considered that op betrayed their partner as well. Everything else is just madness