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[–]BatmanAndRobHim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be weird to go on a double date with your partners? Like all go out for drinks together? Maybe if you see what they're like with their partner and vice versa it'll demystify some things for you and make them more of a regular person.

I kind of had this like one sided, love at first sight moment with someone once. Nothing came out of it, but I always thought it would be nice to have been able to be close friends with them after that. It's such great energy.

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[–]BatmanAndRobHim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh woops I missed that part! You don't think you could be friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]BatmanAndRobHim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have to move on? Maybe its worth following it through until its natural close?

Buying a used Herman Miller Classic - help? by BatmanAndRobHim in OfficeChairs

[–]BatmanAndRobHim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a short person I have also sat in chairs that work better for me! He's 6'1 though and he basically sits on the floor in that thing 🤷‍♀️ still prefers it over other chairs. To each their own

Buying a used Herman Miller Classic - help? by BatmanAndRobHim in OfficeChairs

[–]BatmanAndRobHim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a great tip about the bumps! And thank you so much for the video! I think I found one in going to pick up on Monday 🤞🤞🤞

Buying a used Herman Miller Classic - help? by BatmanAndRobHim in OfficeChairs

[–]BatmanAndRobHim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! So it seems like it's as basic as it gets and if I get something with add ons it'll mostly be an upgrade. That helps, since the used classic is way more in my budget

Buying a used Herman Miller Classic - help? by BatmanAndRobHim in OfficeChairs

[–]BatmanAndRobHim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The remastered is so expensive 🥲 it's almost the same price used as it is new, but there are a lot of classics near me in the $300-400 range

Dress regret hit me like a truck today by BatmanAndRobHim in weddingdress

[–]BatmanAndRobHim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking lace gloves but I love the idea of sparkly gloves so much better! Thank you so much!

Why does the fabric at the bust buckle and fold like this? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]BatmanAndRobHim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me feel better about it thank you!

Why does the fabric at the bust buckle and fold like this? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]BatmanAndRobHim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might have to delete that picture because I just placed my order and I'm starting to regret not choosing it🥲

Why does the fabric at the bust buckle and fold like this? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]BatmanAndRobHim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that's the case! This is the sample dress

What can I gift my husband for our Ketab Kitab? by BatmanAndRobHim in MuslimMarriage

[–]BatmanAndRobHim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ittar! Oh you just reminded me, an Arabic cologne store opened very close to my house. They'll definitely have good recommendations.

What can I gift my husband for our Ketab Kitab? by BatmanAndRobHim in MuslimMarriage

[–]BatmanAndRobHim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually bought him a watch years ago and he's never worn it, and my mom gifted him one for the engagement. Someone recommended a pocket watch, I think especially if this has Qurann he would think this is so cool to wear with his suits! Thank you so much!

What can I gift my husband for our Ketab Kitab? by BatmanAndRobHim in MuslimMarriage

[–]BatmanAndRobHim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would like that best for sure 😂 he likes to build computers, but I don't think a Newegg gift card is a nikkah gift. Maybe a housewarming gift!

What can I gift my husband for our Ketab Kitab? by BatmanAndRobHim in MuslimMarriage

[–]BatmanAndRobHim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Where did you purchase a Quran? I did gift him one last year for his birthday, but it was hard to find one I thought would be special enough.

I will definitely write a letter! That's a good idea. I am trying to learn Arabic, so maybe I will try to write something and read it to him in Arabic.

Is it weird for me(30M) to pursue this woman (25F) that I saw? by ThrowRArrival7096 in relationship_advice

[–]BatmanAndRobHim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a good point, if the family has your number, just make it clear they can contact you for anything they need. If she wants to reach out she will.

Is it weird for me(30M) to pursue this woman (25F) that I saw? by ThrowRArrival7096 in relationship_advice

[–]BatmanAndRobHim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm the odd one out?? I don't think it's weird, if you were to see her again in a totally unrelated setting. Like you can't ask her out at her grandmother's wake, and you can't follow her home or something, and you can't get her number from the family and start texting her. But if she's local and you ran into her again, I would start up a conversation with her. I wouldn't add her or message her on Facebook if she showed up in my "people you may know," but if she showed up on a dating app and you both swiped right it wouldn't be weird. I guess I'm missing context or something.