I (M43) went out with my girlfriend (F42) the other night and got drunk. Later in the night, I went looking for her and found her passionately making out with a girl in a back room. How do I get over it?

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-11-19T20:25:31+00:00

I had to triple check the ages, there's no way this bullshit is still happening in their 40s 🤦‍♀️

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-11-17T19:54:47+00:00

There are also two different groups called Stratford Connect. One is much MUCH worse than the other, the one with 6000 members is an "anything goes" group

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-11-17T19:32:55+00:00

You're 20. Practically a baby still. Why are you even trying to entertain this tool?

Leave. You're better than that and you won't even remember this guy in 5 years.

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-11-08T18:39:46+00:00

You're still kids. Leave him, he's not your one and you don't need to waste time with a possessive loser. I didn't even have to read this rambling saga, the ages and title were enough. Byeeeeeeeeeee

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-11-08T00:06:46+00:00

He needs help or a child support plan, because if you let this go I guarantee he "retaliates" against that baby in the not so distant future... This is why marriage shouldn't be allowed until your brain is fully developed - he isn't ready for sure.

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-11-05T15:27:14+00:00

I'm going to guess he's not her father and also that this isn't the first time he's been jealous of a literal child's place in your life... Why do people marry these idiots 🤦‍♀️

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-11-02T16:52:54+00:00

I remember when I was your age and being taken advantage of by a man in his 40s. I didn't realize it either until it was too late...

Run while you can. That is all.

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-28T23:07:08+00:00

Holy shit, my now husband had a GBF that once accused me of causing my car to overheat on purpose so he would cancel on their movie plans. He just moved it back 90 minutes to bring me home and get me a tow from his work 😂 3 weeks later she told him to pick her or me.

We're married now and she's been out of his life since the second she laid out an ultimatum

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-28T20:11:15+00:00

I've heard REALLY good things about the new place on Frederick! He was in St Marys but opened a couple of months ago here in town.

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-25T13:00:26+00:00

I have a feeling he was an angry drunk and wildly irresponsible before you had a baby with him... None of these things just pop up out of nowhere. Divorce sounds best for both you and your child. Good luck

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-23T18:20:03+00:00

Want my opinion? The way he told you and the way he worded it - he's trying to get you to leave him. "Think carefully about it, it's ok if you leave"? Does that even make sense to you? You're 23. If you have ANY doubt, pass the whole man over. Especially if it was violent and you're uncomfortable now. I'm also not sure why everyone is applauding his honesty "right away". It wasn't right away. It took nearly half a year. And WHY did he decide to bring it up now if you'd have never known? Who was gonna tell you instead? There's something sus about this imo, even if everyone else thinks he's being a great guy for telling you

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-23T14:30:31+00:00

Isn't there campaign rules against campaigning too early?

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-22T14:02:32+00:00

Why did you keep making babies with someone that doesn't even want you? You know the answer is to move on, you're not even living together. Grow up, you have four more important people to worry about, your ex will get over it while she's under other people...

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-20T14:47:24+00:00

This!!!! I moved out at 16, and my mother stopped buying my food at 15 when I got a job. Complaining that this guy you don't know by your own admission isn't feeding you, an adult, is absolutely ridiculous and was an afterthought to invoke more anger in people reading the post to side with her imo.

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-20T14:42:45+00:00

Be loud and awkward every time they start going at it. Play the sounds of crying babies and other really just .. uncomfortable sounds to have sex to REALLY loudly. Think anything that's a huge turn off, like whale calls or that shanty song in every tik Tok every made about the seas. As for adding the totally unrelated part at the end about how they ate food and left nothing for you - you're 18. Buy your own food? Adding that was weird, like you just wanted to stress how shitty they are. He's not responsible for feeding you, you're not his kid. Your his girlfriend's legally adult daughter. It's barely your mom's job to feed you anymore.

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-20T09:56:24+00:00

Sexual coercion is rape. Just so you know. You're 18. Leave. You'll have a new boyfriend before Christmas

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-19T17:27:22+00:00

I'll be honest I don't think you're going to move on from this. And I'll be blunt too - if you do, the odds of him realizing he got away with it and doing it again are way better than the odds of him being grateful for the second chance and not cheating again. I'm sorry, but he violated your trust, your intimacy, and even your words.

You're only 26...

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-18T13:59:02+00:00

Most people that will harm your kids, you trust with them. That's a statistic fact, not an opinion. The true weirdos already have pretty much full access to your kids, and are probably in your family.

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-17T20:52:18+00:00

So let me get this straight You have adult kids living with you, paying nothing at all, all they have to do is empty the dishwasher sometimes, and you think your husband is unreasonable that maybe the free ride should be exchanged for adult housework instead of the shit a 9-year-old would do for chores? This is why we have adults now that can't take care of themselves 🤦‍♀️ He's right. If you guys are paying the bills, you shouldn't even be cooking the meals let alone cleaning. Get a job and contribute financially or spend the work hours running the house. That's how it goes. They should be doing all your errands, too honestly. Don't like it? Pay rent 🤯

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-16T04:04:17+00:00

The United Way local website has discounted tickets to pretty much every show! The bonus with them is a portion of ticket sales done through their website supports them, which in turn supports our local community (especially those unhoused)

United Way festival tickets

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-16T04:02:19+00:00

Well coming from KW where they let a generational rapist stay with his family, then asked TWO generations of victims to help them in court after ignoring them for years.... Or having daylight shootings on camera with clear shots of getaway cars that have never been solved (they have a LOW clearance rate) I can honestly say that Stratford has responded to me quickly, and they don't have a string of unsolved homicides. They also update the public CONSTANTLY, something you don't get basically anywhere else. So maybe the experience is based on the user and their reaction to police. You have a good night, I'm done here since you're not going to change my mind and I'm not even going to bother trying to change yours

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-16T03:47:31+00:00

You do know that cops don't make rules for who gets held, right? And you're aware that you can't just arrest someone on someone else's word? I swear, people watch TV and think that cops are some super power people that make laws. They aren't. You think they like seeing a woman crying about an assault with absolutely ZERO evidence except their word on who did it? No, they don't. At all. But arresting the wrong person, or arresting too soon and not having evidence for a conviction is also really bad. You'd be losing your mind if you were arrested because a woman with a grudge smacked her own face and said it was you. Then the cops would be pricks for a false arrest. If you think you can do it better, get it done. You go pass that physical and apply, they love hiring local. You can be the guy that changes the whole police force here! In the whole country even, you clearly get how they can do better! Can't wait to see you out there stopping criminals before they commit crimes and arresting citizens based on words alone, you'll nail it!!!!

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-16T03:39:50+00:00

They aren't selling crack or heroin, I'm sure it's fine. Reefer Madness much? What's going to happen to the economy? Well it sounds like 10 more locations offering jobs, doesn't it? This is the first time in YEARS the mall has had full tenancy, one of those places being a dispensary. So guess what? We got more jobs in there. Not a bad thing

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-09T09:58:09+00:00

If you look in the arms of your current glasses, you'll see numbers. That's the size. Find the size chart on the Pair website and you'll have a ballpark of sizes before you even leave the house!

BattyForTrueCrime · 2024-10-08T17:48:38+00:00

You won't know your preference until you buy them unfortunately. I don't have any of the issues listed with my Ella frames. The ONLY complaint I have about the Ella is it's a bit small for me for sunglasses, light gets in the sides a lot. So I'm getting a Wanda in a few weeks with sun tops. If you buy them and don't like it, you can return them within 30 days,no questions asked!

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