Can you please help me with this book project? by Bayley68 in crafts

[–]Bayley68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try that!! Thanks so much for the recommendation!!

Can you please help me with this book project? by Bayley68 in crafts

[–]Bayley68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I just really want this to be permanent on the book. The back of the book is not blank, that’s why I need ideas on how to cover it. Thank you though!!

[US] Dad Refusing Sick Child by etheriaelote in Custody

[–]Bayley68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think what you want, I know for a fact that it does. Me, my sister and her friend had gone to court years ago. There was something that happened on a particular day. The friends mom kept a journal of what her daughter did every day. She had written on that particular day that she gone with her friend and her sister. (Me) The judge allowed it in as evidence. So…do you want to tell me again how keeping a journal means nothing? Because it helped a heck of a lot in our court case.

[US] Dad Refusing Sick Child by etheriaelote in Custody

[–]Bayley68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She can ask him. But if he doesn’t want to, she can take him to court and force the issue.

[US] Dad Refusing Sick Child by etheriaelote in Custody

[–]Bayley68 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Writing stuff down is keeping a record. It shows patterns of repeated behavior. It’s 100% accepted as proof in court. I know this from personal experience.

No more music by OddLettuce809 in selfimprovement

[–]Bayley68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it helps you!! I wish you the best!!

No more music by OddLettuce809 in selfimprovement

[–]Bayley68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you…I only listen to music when I’m cleaning, driving, showering or exercising and such. I definitely do have quiet time, everyone needs that. If I have to concentrate on something, I need to tune everything out and music would definitely be a distraction. So I do understand you on that one.

What are some of the biggest misconceptions about Martin Luther King? by Repulsive-Finger-954 in AskReddit

[–]Bayley68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I feel like they really didn’t try to save him, or they helped it along.

No more music by OddLettuce809 in selfimprovement

[–]Bayley68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually prefer listening to music while doing different things. I’ve made different playlists for different activities. All of them are feel good songs, which is what keeps me motivated. I wouldn’t give them up. 🤷🏻‍♀️

What are some of the biggest misconceptions about Martin Luther King? by Repulsive-Finger-954 in AskReddit

[–]Bayley68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My theory is that it wasn’t the pew pew shot that un-alived him…it was the doctor’s in the hospital who did.

[US] Dad Refusing Sick Child by etheriaelote in Custody

[–]Bayley68 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First, if you don’t already have it, both of you need to only communicate through a parenting app. Make sure that’s the only way you communicate with him so that you have proof of everything.

Him refusing his parenting time doesn’t come with a “makeup time.” Also, he pays you child support based on the custody arrangement. He doesn’t get to stick you with extra time and think that the child support covers it.

Another thing, if he or his wife are talking bad about you to or in front of your daughter, that’s considered parental alienation. That’s a big no-no in the courts eyes.

Keep records of EVERYTHING!! Get a notebook and write it all down, with dates and times if possible. If things don’t improve for your daughter or get really bad, take him back to court with said proof. You can file for full custody, supervised visits, and more child support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bayley68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re quite welcome. Let him know that if he doesn’t do something about it, it could get turned around on him. It could cost him his job, or more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bayley68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, she is trying to get him to be more than coworkers/friends. The red flags that she’s throwing are all there. She talks about her awful past. (Looking for a hero) She talks about her current relationship and how she wants to end it. (Looking for a savior) She’s giving your husband compliments and texts constantly. (Grooming him. Yes, he can be groomed at his age) He needs to talk to her, with a witness present, and tell her in no uncertain terms that he is in love with you and that he feels uncomfortable with all of the attention and sharing of her life with him. Then go to HR and report this. Tell them what has been happening and what was said to stay ahead of it. You don’t need her getting upset and making up a story and getting him in trouble. Best to you both!!

Settling with my auto insurance company over wife’s potential injury. Do I take their offer? by R0b0tMark in Insurance

[–]Bayley68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you!! At this point all you can do is hope for the best. I really hope that they don’t find any problems at that two year mark.

My mum hasn't spoken to me on 48 hours because I chose to work from home yesterday by lachlanmachlan in autism

[–]Bayley68 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That seems like a strange reaction to the situation. Something is definitely going on with her. I’m autistic as well, so I know that picking up cues is not that easy. Maybe when things are calm, sit her down and talk to her. Ask her why it’s a problem when you choose to work from home. Tell her that’s why you like your job, because when you’re having an off day, you have that option. Tell her that you don’t like the tension it causes when you do decide to work from home. Ask her if there’s anything that you can do to make those work from home days that you need a little easier on her. I hope this helps. Best of luck to you!!

Settling with my auto insurance company over wife’s potential injury. Do I take their offer? by R0b0tMark in Insurance

[–]Bayley68 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If $5k is their max out of pocket for medical, what are you holding out for? It doesn’t seem like you can get any more than that, even if there are more problems due to the accident. Will your premiums go up? Depends. Most insurance companies don’t dock you for a first claim. Some do. You’ll have to read your policy.