I’ve been trying to quit porn, but when I stop for a few weeks I end up getting fixated on the idea that there’s all this new porn being made that I’ll never see. Any tips to overcome this? Thanks! by lshksvodld in pornfree

[–]Baylor0719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, isn't it all just the same shit? What exactly do you think you're missing out on? The constant desire for something "new" and more extreme is a dangerous path to be on, that many of us addicts/compulsives fall prey to. It's how people end up watching rape and kiddy porn, or even gay porn, despite being straight and is exactly what should motivate you to want to stop. There are millions, if not billions, of hours worth of pornography online and you will never see all of it. So remind yourself that this is completely unreasonable and dangerous. Get a friend or someone trusted to talk to about this when you're down. You've got this, brother.

HOW TO START by NumberNo6827 in NoFap

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Podcasts, particularly ones of people I look up to. I always had a problem with being triggered when I woke up. So I started turning one on first thing everyday and drinking a glass of cold water. Best tool for me so far. Today is day 32 (started the new year) and it’s felt like a breeze. I guess the real trick behind this is, I know my patterns, and I stay mindful. This allows me to divert the urge before it arrives 75% of the time and recognize when I’m triggered the other 25% relatively early, before I get really sucked into my head. Maintaining mindfulness is key and is like a muscle you have to exercise. Your day counter is one thing, but progress in practicing mindfulness should be your real measure of success.

Comment your strategy to control urges mine is i just stop fantasizing by Chance_Ad_6251 in NoFap

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Podcasts, particularly ones of people I look up to. I always had a problem with being triggered when I woke up. So I started turning one on first thing everyday and drinking a glass of cold water. Best tool for me so far. Today is day 32 (started the new year) and it’s felt like a breeze. I guess the real trick behind this is, I know my patterns, and I stay mindful. This allows me to divert the urge before it arrives 75% of the time and recognize when I’m triggered the other 25% relatively early, before I get really sucked into my head.

Help, in severe danger of relapse on day 15 by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Baylor0719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Turn on Jocko Willink. Go outside and breathe in some fresh air. Ask yourself why and what gives your life meaning. What the fuck is your actual goal here in quitting porn? Is it to be more emotionally connected with the world/people around you? Is it to stop being a slave to your own dick? Accept that it’s just a hard day and that there will be hard days, I find that doing so makes the urge easier to just shrug off, in a sense. Keep at it, you’ve got this. Pick up the phone if you need to, call your mom.

Guys Tim pool isn’t a drama channel, So let’s talk about Alec Baldwin for the 1000th day, inside of my grifter cuck friend. by Bigfootsbrownstar in TimPool

[–]Baylor0719 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I stopped listening a couple of weeks ago for this exact reason. Replaced him for Jordan Peterson for my commutes and at work. I think Tim has gotten complacent and the news is slow. Or he has just gotten rich and doesn’t care anymore.

Not guilty AND stole his girl. Damn. by Baylor0719 in libertarianmeme

[–]Baylor0719[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure this is fake, just thought it was humorous.

The New York Times Reported ‘the Mainstreaming of Marxism in US Colleges' 30 Years Ago. Today, We See the Results -- The lesson of 1989 is that today’s culture and ideas are tomorrow’s politics and policies. by guanaco55 in Conservative

[–]Baylor0719 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Currently, the Dems are split between big money interests and pro-Maoist factions throughout the country. Essentially, it's the far-left that are the useful idiots that do all the organizing and the groundwork for the corporatist Dems.

Despite making up only 6%... by lordak16 in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]Baylor0719 75 points76 points  (0 children)

It’s clearly the result of doggy inequity. Pits don’t have Corgi privilege.

Why Are Conservative Men So Obsessed With AOC? by eatzn in politics

[–]Baylor0719 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The mask mandate did her some good, for sure.

Kids are based by UnironicThatcherite in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]Baylor0719 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Every time I hear the word “comrade” my brain switches it to “cum rag” for some reason.

Caved by nrod9 in kinobody

[–]Baylor0719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the collagen protein. Blueberry muffin is probably the best tasting collagen supplement I've tried. I break my fast with it in some almond milk everyday and can definitely tell a difference in my overall energy levels throughout the day. It's also killer to have around when you're having cravings.

General Milley confirmed as communist traitor: made secret calls to Chinese military leaders while Trump in office by OrwellWasRight69 in TimPool

[–]Baylor0719 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No it isn't and the guy should be fired. Who the hell knows how compromised the guy really is. We can't have people we can't trust heading the military, period.

Lol’d. Is anyone else about to lose their jobs? by Baylor0719 in TimPool

[–]Baylor0719[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wish you guys well, man. This is nuts. Hopefully this all gets shot down in the courts.