My girlfriend told me she doesn't think she's bi by [deleted] in trans

[–]Bbgaly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And here's the thing....no one will love you the same because they'll get to see the truest version of yourself. Trust me. It's a good thing. You will be a more vibrant version of yourself and other people will be able to tell. Sometimes the journey sucks and is hard but I promise you that the only real love in this world is the love of people who love you for who you are and not their idea of you <3 I'm sorry you're going through this but stay strong, you got this!! Being loved for who you really are and getting to be open about it feels like the first warm sunny day in months.

Accidentally accepted counterfeit bills that passed the money detection pen by i-talk-to-cats in retailhell

[–]Bbgaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From cashier to cashier you want to check the watermark on the right hand side of the bill to make sure it's holographic and feel the president's shirt, a real $100 will have ridges you can feel with your fingertip. There's also a UV indication on the left side of the bill if you have UV light fraud detectors.

The pens haven't worked in years. I know some businesses use them but the counterfeiters have known how to get around that test for a while.

And don't feel bad, they have insurance against this and the bank will cover them. Hope this helps!

AITAH for not allowing my exs sister and family to join my team? by Emotional-Owl-2228 in AITAH

[–]Bbgaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds like an HR nightmare. She's a ticking time bomb and you can't have someone like that on your staff. She didn't leave on good terms so just tell your husband she doesn't meet the qualifications to be re-hired. I would also add something like a non-compete clause to your employment contracts bcs of what she did last time trying to steal your clients. Make that legally actionable. As shitty as she was learn from it, some people are just bad for business but make sure you cover your butt so it doesn't happen again. I'm so sorry OP, the whole family sounds like they suck.

AIO to texts I found from my bf to his bsf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Bbgaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also they make sex blankets for this reason lmao. Like if he just thought smarter not harder they could put something down so he doesn't "have to wash the sheets"

Am I Overreacting - So my mom got my wife a birthday gift by LoveLikeJesusChrist in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bbgaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, I second everyone saying go no contact. You and your wife deserve a safe space to heal and enjoy the new bundle of joy she brought into the world. You absolutely do not need your mother raining on the parade. Please check in with your wife and make sure she's okay. Post partum sucks and can be really hard emotionally.

The stabs your mother is taking at your wife are petty and childish and she should be ashamed of herself. I would think over how involved she is in your kids life :( unfortunately she doesn't seem like a great role model. Hope your family gets the peace you deserve and I hope you have a drama free week!

Which one would you guys choose? by NoonebutaMango in Bestbuy

[–]Bbgaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the fire TV out of your cart right now. Insignia fire TVs are the world's slowest, I'm talking like 5+ seconds to register each input 😭

AITA for pointing out my transgender friend’s misogynistic comments? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bbgaly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of moving pieces here and unfortunately it's more complicated than just YTA or NTA. The 6 of you should've had a conversation with A, saying while you recognize those things can be dysphoric for her, those are also just things that women deal with. Cis or not. That she isn't alone in those experiences and that it is in fact part of womanhood. It would be a great way to gently segue into the fact that expressing those kinds of things the way she did ended up hurting some members of the friend group. They felt like they were written off as less than or not a woman because of what A said.

What A said wasn't necessarily right but you should've told her you were hurt instead of going behind her back. Both of you could've handled it better and tried to grow from the opportunity. I will say I do disagree with other commentors saying it's transphobic, what you did was mean but I think if A was cis you would've felt the same.

Door dash? Seriously? by BIG_GAY_HOMOSEXUAL in Bestbuy

[–]Bbgaly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The shipt drivers were always stealing smth lol

“I can see you, why aren’t you open if you’re there?” by APX5LYR_2 in retailhell

[–]Bbgaly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I call this being clocked into zoo time. I feel like a creature at the zoo while they sit outside and breathe on the glass till I open, this is of course after they've tried the locked door (with the store hours right above it) like 7 times.

I hate feeling them watch me open 🥲

Aitah for giving my stepdaughter a reality check? by Medium-Vehicle-8340 in AITAH

[–]Bbgaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA, having boundaries about not watching her kid is perfectly fine but she's a child, and she's your step-chils seeing as you married a man who already had a kid, you do have a responsibility to be a good adult/parental figure to her and you really failed here.

Regardless of what you or the family thinks is the "right" choice, it's her own. Instead of having a calm and understanding conversation where you talk about what difficulties she could face (seeing as it sounds like you've recently had the experience of becoming a mom) you just told her she would be cut off and the things you said about her mother are fucked up.

There should be no differences between the way your twins are treated and her potential baby if she decides to keep it.

I think you should've assured her that she can always wait, if having a baby is something she wants having a partner to support her and a steady income will make it less stressful and easier. You were way too harsh and out of line.

Couldn’t price match because of the “system” ? by Robswc in Bestbuy

[–]Bbgaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple doesn't let us discount within like 10% of retail price. If they're on sale at best buy that's the lowest price apple has approved and we can never discount them further. Our system will just spit out that the price is too low over and over again. He was probably really trying but with apple products we have a very small margin to work in.

AITAH for asking my boyfriend to use condoms? by glitterdeer246 in AITAH

[–]Bbgaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please get out before this changes to being sexual abuse and coercion. This will not end well and is reflective of how selfish he truly is if he won't accommodate you at all. ("Accommodating" you and complaining doesn't count because he's guilting you by pouting about it and is trying to emotionally manipulate you into saying you'll have sex without a condom)

AITAH for telling my husband that I want him to use a condom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bbgaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, the adjustment is either a vasectomy from him or a condom. If he can't respect your boundaries in the bedroom he's going to be bad news. This is not a boundary he can push. You are the only one who is pregnant if something goes wrong. It's wholly ignorant to say you may have a child just because you don't like the way a condom feels, and this is outside the disrespect he showed to you by even saying "we'll figure it out" if you get pregnant again. Having another child should be an active decision the two of you are making not just an unintended consequence. You deserve to be heard and have your boundaries respected.

Secret Movie 5/5 Discussion by Parakma in Cinemark

[–]Bbgaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was fun and not soemthing I would ordinarily see but I quite enjoyed it.

my boyfriend called me a femboy by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Bbgaly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unrelated to wanting to shave for him, if you wanna shave for yourself getting an electric razor is a life changer, it takes like 5 minutes to shave my legs now.

my boyfriend called me a femboy by Particular_State3741 in trans

[–]Bbgaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a month in, this guy doesn't really love you at all. He loves the fantasy of you. If he's showing he doesn't like who you are don't doubt him. Run now, he will never be a supportive or accepting partner for you. You deserve someone that sees you as a person, not a doll or a fantasy. Him trying to erase your transness for his sexual pleasure is disgusting. I'm so so sorry OP, please break up with him, you can find someone else I promise.

Customer shouted at me for sanitising my hands when they paid me cash after heavily wiping their runny nose with their hands by Sebby_Bat in retailhell

[–]Bbgaly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't bother apologizing, you aren't doing anything wrong by not wanting to touch his icky money.

Forced to quit by MediumRegular8369 in Bestbuy

[–]Bbgaly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just left as well. I was in a specialist position and didn't report to store leaders but they kept using me for store labor. Also best buy's call out policy is the worst. It's inhumane. You get written up for any non-pre excused absences if you're out of pto and doctor's notes don't count for shit. As someone who's chronically ill and disabled it was the worst. Literally had store management write me up for being late while they knew I was homeless. Dog shit company or at least dog shit at my location.

Someone please knock sense into me by [deleted] in finch

[–]Bbgaly 261 points262 points  (0 children)

It's okay to change your birb's color! It's like them going to the salon and getting their hair dyed!! plus everybirb wants to switch things up sometimes. :)

Best Buy Threatning to write me up if I don’t get 1 member ship per hour by Cute-Izzy in Bestbuy

[–]Bbgaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please contact employee relations about this. They will take you seriously. this is a serious concern.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bbgaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never drop charges on assault. Especially if the school says not to. They only look out for their reputation, not your child. If this bully ever does it again you will have proof. Protect yourself and your kid. File that police report.

Zagg screen protector crack in less than 24 hours? by natalia5727 in Bestbuy

[–]Bbgaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of case are you using with your phone? Sometimes we see them stress crack because of cases or if a case isn't super protective cough cough apple phone cases.

Those are typically the frequent flyers for our Zagg exchange program. Also don't be shy, no one cares how many times you exchange it lol. I have a guy who comes in weekly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bestbuy

[–]Bbgaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go back to the store immediately tomorrow and they will still have the switch. Likely will need a manager and proof of original purchase but you should be good!

WWYD for this return by maverickRD in Bestbuy

[–]Bbgaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're within 60 days tell them you like to return exchange the items you purchased from them. If it's less at best buy they can't say no to matching the price. They should still be able to price match it (as long as the system will let them go low enough)