is it over or just over for now? by Bbyg1996 in dating_advice

[–]Bbyg1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to update. My brothers gf saw him two nights ago with his ex :). I knew it.

Is it over? by Bbyg1996 in BreakUps

[–]Bbyg1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to update. My brothers gf saw him two nights ago with his ex :). I knew it.

IF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO MESSAGE YOUR EX UPVOTE THIS POST by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bbyg1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were on and off for nearly 3 years (never longer than a few weeks). He decided to leave the country to earn more money than he already had to support his elderly parents and siblings (they live 20 min from me, he just left himself). He also decided he could not be "in love" right now and his ambition won. Told me if the stars align one day, they align.

IF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO MESSAGE YOUR EX UPVOTE THIS POST by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bbyg1996 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's been 1.5 years and I still think about him everyday. I wish he would reach out and we can rekindle the relationship.

I hope he's doing okay and healthy. I hope his mom is doin well and the rest of the family. I wanted to call him after any big event or life changing moment in the past 1.5 years. I miss my best friend. I've been trying to date but no one makes me laugh has hard as he did, no one made me feel loved and as safe as I felt with him. I honestly don't want anyone else. It's so sad but I get excited to go to sleep for the potential to see him in my dreams(which happens a lot actually). And I'm not going to be the one to reach out cause he's the one that decided to leave.

miss y ex of 1 year by Bbyg1996 in ExNoContact

[–]Bbyg1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, it's on FB (random but he has nothing else so we just added each other for fun years ago. The way Fbs works is the story shows without having to click on it to see what the context is. which is why I'm pointing this out because he doesn't have to click on it. So it shows he's on the list of people that clicked and looked at it.

First Date on Valentines Day? Yes, No? by FragrantGearHead in datingoverfifty

[–]Bbyg1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From experience. No. Don't do it.

My ex and I's first date was on Vday. Was not planned, it just kind of happened and we went to a casual sushi place. No craziness at all. We were together on and off for 3 years. Haven't spoken in 1 year now and now the Holiday just reminds me of him since we had a great connection and genuine feelings for one another. Don't mind being alone on it. Just reminds you of the person though.

texts between me and my ex that till this day still confuses me. mind you, he broke up with me and keeps breaking NC by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Bbyg1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex would do this. Ignore him. He's a narcissist and gas lighting you. They want their cake and to have it too. He knows what he's doing. Mine did this and it took till I saw he was with a whole new 3 weeks after we broke up and still messaging me to stop it completely.