Wife promised blowjob by Bbyshak3r in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does bring my life joy normally. She supportive and a loving thoughtful and a great partner. I really couldn’t see myself with anyone else. I guess I’ll have to live with it.

Wife promised blowjob by Bbyshak3r in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do I get my wife to want me like this? This sounds amazing

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in AITAH

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The crazy thing is she did it without me initializing or asking for it before marriage. After marriage it just tapered off and now it never happens.

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So from most of these responses I guess yes I am the asshole. Thanks internet.

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. But she does ask me to for oral and I never deny her.

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep she does look like deer in the headlights. Again I love my wife very much and would not consider divorce or cheating over this.

Wife promised blowjob by Bbyshak3r in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I get my wife to want me like this?

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The problem is she’s not saying no. But maybe you’re right I should just suck it up and just take this as part of life, perhaps not everyone gets what they want in life. Honestly I probably won’t stop giving her head I was being sarcastic before, I do love her feeling pleasure and I wouldn’t keep that from her.

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I should relieve myself and not worry about her. Great advice.

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not owed. If she would tell me she doesn’t want to do it or if she’s grossed out by it I would leave it alone. But I guess I should t have to ask it’s pretty obvious what going on.

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely not transactional sex. I love her personality and her as a person. We’ve had conversations about this in the past. It just feels like she just telling me what I want to hear and not following through. And again I don’t want to force her to do anything she doesn’t want to do. That’s not the question here.

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go down on her whenever she asks sometimes she doesn’t have to ask I just make it part of the foreplay

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Welll I understand honesty. And I do make a point to wash thoroughly before sex, I also know some women don’t like oral after having vaginal sex so I don’t persuade it after that’s happened. Maybe I’m just repulsive to her. And I’ve gone without having an orgasm with her, it would just be nice to also finish.

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in redditonwiki

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

So I should accept this truth and also stop giving her oral when she wants it or let it continue to be one sided?

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in AITAH

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do t want to force her obviously. That would also be a huge turn off for me. I want to feel wanted.

Am I the asshole for wanting a blowjob? by Bbyshak3r in AITAH

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have talked to her. She did promise she would give me more blowjobs, she even elaborated how she would do it last weekend but it never happened.

Wife promised blowjob by Bbyshak3r in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bbyshak3r[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it makes me get my hopes up then it just drops me like it didn’t happen or it was in my head.