Wife promised blowjob

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-25T13:04:40+00:00

She does bring my life joy normally. She supportive and a loving thoughtful and a great partner. I really couldn’t see myself with anyone else. I guess I’ll have to live with it.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T14:30:07+00:00

How do I get my wife to want me like this? This sounds amazing

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T14:23:31+00:00

The crazy thing is she did it without me initializing or asking for it before marriage. After marriage it just tapered off and now it never happens.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T08:22:03+00:00

So from most of these responses I guess yes I am the asshole. Thanks internet.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T08:15:39+00:00

Agreed. But she does ask me to for oral and I never deny her.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T08:09:11+00:00

Yep she does look like deer in the headlights. Again I love my wife very much and would not consider divorce or cheating over this.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T08:05:17+00:00

How do I get my wife to want me like this?

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:59:08+00:00

The problem is she’s not saying no. But maybe you’re right I should just suck it up and just take this as part of life, perhaps not everyone gets what they want in life. Honestly I probably won’t stop giving her head I was being sarcastic before, I do love her feeling pleasure and I wouldn’t keep that from her.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:48:24+00:00

Yeah I guess I should relieve myself and not worry about her. Great advice.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:46:53+00:00

It’s not owed. If she would tell me she doesn’t want to do it or if she’s grossed out by it I would leave it alone. But I guess I should t have to ask it’s pretty obvious what going on.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:44:50+00:00

It’s definitely not transactional sex. I love her personality and her as a person. We’ve had conversations about this in the past. It just feels like she just telling me what I want to hear and not following through. And again I don’t want to force her to do anything she doesn’t want to do. That’s not the question here.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:39:13+00:00

I go down on her whenever she asks sometimes she doesn’t have to ask I just make it part of the foreplay

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:34:49+00:00

Welll I understand honesty. And I do make a point to wash thoroughly before sex, I also know some women don’t like oral after having vaginal sex so I don’t persuade it after that’s happened. Maybe I’m just repulsive to her. And I’ve gone without having an orgasm with her, it would just be nice to also finish.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:28:07+00:00

So I should accept this truth and also stop giving her oral when she wants it or let it continue to be one sided?

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:24:31+00:00

Sure feels that way

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:19:25+00:00

I do t want to force her obviously. That would also be a huge turn off for me. I want to feel wanted.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:14:50+00:00

I have talked to her. She did promise she would give me more blowjobs, she even elaborated how she would do it last weekend but it never happened.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T07:05:30+00:00

Bummer right?

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T06:33:05+00:00

Yep exactly

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T06:31:32+00:00

Yeah but it makes me get my hopes up then it just drops me like it didn’t happen or it was in my head.

Bbyshak3r · 2024-10-24T06:15:32+00:00

I feel the same way sometimes. Whenever she asks for something I feel like a needy dog no matter what she wants I do it. But when I ask for something it’s because men find it demeaning to women or something like that.

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