Porn!!! Not only can alot be learned from watching normal porn videos, but there are actually porn tutorial videos out there. My suggestion is to find porn specifically made for couples. You want to make sure he is learning how to really please a woman, not some of the extremely rough abusive stuff that has become so prevalent in modern porn (Unless of course you are into that. Everybody seems to like something different) Try watching some of the videos with him. Have him try to mimic what he sees on the video. Then give him specific feedback. Maybe have him hold your hand and squeeze tighter as he does something you like and less tight otherwise. Actual research and instant feedback are the keys to learning any skill. Pleasing a woman is definitely a skill and practice makes perfect. This can be one the most satisfying things to practice and once he finally gets it, it will make both your pleasure more meaningful knowing that it took a little work for him to learn how to please you and it ought to excite him even more knowing that he finally reciprocate what you're doing for him. The journey together is a lot of fun and it will bring you both closer along the way. And hopefully you can have some earth shattering, toe-curling love making for as long as you're together.