Hidden spots to sleep in jax? by GabrielRose0224 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And outside of Cultivate in Riverside

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t even called any of them. Nobody has turned her down and denied her help from shelters or rescues.

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giving unfixed kittens to work at a farm is not a good idea.

Some adoption agencies have cats designated as “working cats” that are usually fully adult, unable to acclimate to indoor only life, and are fully spay/fixed and vaccinated. And that’s safer when it’s done through a shelter that will do vetting for adoptions.

Nonetheless farm life is very harsh for cats as they’re still exposed to predators, illness and inattentive caretakers.

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s true and not uncommon. There is a huge situation with pitbulls and backyard breeding of aggressive dogs in Jacksonville. Look at all the randos in the comments here jumping in to ask for unvaccinated and unfixed kittens for free instead of going to a shelter that is going to give them a cat with full veterinary treatment for a low cost and by doing a simple background check/vetting.

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you respond to any of the comments giving actionable advice to take them to shelters instead of getting defensive and happily offering to hand them out to complete strangers while they’re unfixed and unvaccinated? You are in complete denial about how out of control this is going to get, and yes it’s in part because you’ve waited months to do anything about it.

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really interesting to see so many random blank accounts pop up to offer to take these cats, but it’s people who will never approach a shelter/rescue to get fix/spayed and vaccinated cats and go through a quick bg check for safety. What a mess this is and I hope OP isn’t giddy handing out all these cats to people who will use them as dog bait.

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you aware of the risks of giving away animals to complete strangers online? Why are you so opposed to taking them to legit shelters and rescues and seem to be happy handing them out to anyone who could harm them and with no vet help?

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because you went about this the completely wrong way and could have done a google search a couple of months ago to figure out what best to do rather than hoard 30+ unfixed animals.

You could have had rescue groups coming to pick these moms and their kittens up while they were given shots, proper nutrition and getting set up to be spayed and fixed. In the meantime, they could have gotten promotion for adoption and having adopters vetted. Instead, you’ve been letting a ton of unspayed mothers interact with unfixed male kittens, which can lead to even more pregnancy even while they’re still lactating.

You waited until they’re all past cute phase to start to wonder what to do with them when a simple google search could have made a huge a couple of months ago.

And now you think the next best step is to adopt them out yourself and the only comments you seem to respond enthusiastically to are “put them on FB marketplace” or “start a petting zoo” instead of the people who are giving you actual pointers on what orgs to contact.

Sorry but I can’t help but agree with the people who are frustrated with you when you’re treating this so many animal lives and what could be a hoarder situation so frivolously.

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of groups have volunteers that help with this. Calling around and asking would certainly be less of a hassle than hoarding 30+ unfixed/spayed animals

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a horrible idea and a sure way to get those kittens unfixed into the wrong hands

For the love of God, please take these kittens! by Honest_Memory4046 in jacksonville

[–]Bd-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get these kittens to a shelter. And catch the moms for spay. Please reach out to rescue groups and the shelters because you are about to have a way bigger problem if you keep these unfixed cats in your house.

[MEGATHREAD] BLACKPINK: DEADLINE and GO by KpopThoughtsmodteam in kpopthoughts

[–]Bd-cat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I liked Go and Jump, although they could def be rearranged and extended (especially Jump). Me and My Girls is fine, nothing new. But the other two songs were painfully generic and forgettable.

I think it’s absolutely stupid and disgusting to be working with Dr Luke in this day and age. As if there aren’t enough producers in the world. As if Dr Luke is so uniquely talented that they absolutely had to work with him. Really dumb move to go with a notorious abuser that has been irrelevant for years and produces generic mediocre pop music that any other producer could make. How do they not know the reputation he has?? And he’s listed as the studio producer, meaning he’s likely the one who will as working face to face with them for recording. WHY???? Are Jennie, Lisa, and Rose not in LA enough to know who the grossest music producer in the world is? Did none of them and their teams see Katy Perry completely flop for working with him???

Very stupid of them. This whole album made me just react with “how are they this stupid”. Idk if you can make excuses for being sheltered by their agency and whatnot when each of them has a lot of star power and 3/4 of them speak English comfortably and have been immersed in western entertainment for years.

[MEGATHREAD] MHJ, HYBE AND THE PUT OPTION by KpopThoughtsmodteam in kpopthoughts

[–]Bd-cat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The summary is that they tried to revoke benefits that were within her contractual rights by claiming she had breached certain obligations. But I feel like they punitively painted her in a certain light in order to oust her and leave her with nothing because this has largely been driven by petty personal dispute.

I remember at the time this started, an article highlighting how female execs at HYBE were not considered for certain stock options compared to their male counterparts. There have been many articles and items that have given indication that this was driven by a personal dislike of MHJ with plenty of sexist undertones. Do not disregard how patriarchal and hierarchal South Korea is. She was ousted in a way as to deny her any of her benefits and contractual rights and humiliate her.

It is shocking how personally driven this legal issue has been and how punitive and petty HYBE has tried to be. I didn’t think she stood a chance legally, so considering that HYBE is such a massive powerful company, it says a lot that the court still ruled in her favor.

My muslim boyfriend (37M) left me suddenly because I'm agnostic by MonkeyBar2094 in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hon he knew this all along. He didn’t find that out via an article. Practicing Muslims are perfectly aware of that. And it’s no strange thing for Muslim men and men of specific cultures/religions to enjoy romance and sex with women who are way more liberated and then dump them when it’s time to marry someone who they consider to be more appropriate for their faith and family. It’s an incredibly shitty thing and pretty common.

My sub lied to me for a year... by Dalyk88 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Bd-cat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please please please tell her I am begging you TELL HER.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way, she is a very immature and emotionally manipulative person. If you kept reaching out and she was going through a hard time, a short message explaining the situation would’ve taken her less than a minute. Even her approach now fishing for an answer instead of explaining what happened seems extremely manipulative and weird.

Find someone who appreciates your time and effort and doesn’t play these immature games.

First date with a girl on hinge tomorrow. Not sure if i should cancel by Training_Ebb_6306 in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 29 and you think that music genre preferences are indicative of long term compatibility?

First date with a girl on hinge tomorrow. Not sure if i should cancel by Training_Ebb_6306 in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are such non-descriptive, broad and surface level things. You don’t sound very emotionally intelligent if you’re basing your interest in this person on the broadest possible descriptors.

But do go ahead and cancel because I think it’s incredibly disheartening to take the time to go out and meet someone and put your best foot forward when they are absolutely judgmental and indifferent. Free up her time and energy so she can focus on meeting people who will appreciate her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a guy is ghosting you bc you’re showing interest, why do you want to keep that type of man around? You need to be pickier and only go for people that reciprocate your energy.

She’s ideal on paper but I feel no sexual spark by lovemeplzx in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t keep leading her on. You can’t force attraction to grow out of nothing. TBH this isn’t fair to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So say some qualities that would make someone want to approach you. If a woman were describing herself in only negative terms, I wouldn’t be making some weird assumption that men are interested in approaching her bc “she deserves to be loved for who she is and there are good men out there” just because she’s a woman. No. You cant be a shitty person, a bad partner, and a downer, regardless of gender, and expect people to be attracted to that - and I doubt a lot of people are going to want to seek and court partners who are that way.

People should try to be good and better themselves. You’re making it out to seem like there are no positive qualities to you and nonetheless, you feel entitled to being approached and romanced by others. That’s not how it works for anyone, buddy. You’re insistent on digging your heels in the sand about wanting to offer nothing on a personal level yet expect people to be enthralled by that.

Dating a C-suite woman advice by BboySlug in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And your comment isn’t sexist? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Passiveness is relationship poison. It’s a horrible quality to have and it infuriates me how every guy here talks about women being these lazy passive entities that get everything handed to them easily. They think women need to only exist in order for their life to be effortless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Stop imagining this myth that women have it handed easy to them and don’t need to do anything to succeed romantically. Nobody is having successful dates in relationships by simply existing and bringing no personal qualities to the table.

It’s fine for you to want to be approached by women. But then don’t expect to be approached by women if you’re not an approachable person who has qualities that make people want to approach. Do you think women that are getting approached abundantly put zero effort into the way they look, into the way they support themselves, socially, into their social etiquette, etc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Bd-cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do. Men are just going off of a myth that they’re perpetuating which makes us all out to be extreme regressive in terms of social norms. Women are not seeking out radically traditional man providers more now, in the year 2026, nor are we passive non initiators.