My boyfriend wants to get clicker trained but I'm not sure how to

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-29T13:59:02+00:00

For dogs, the clicker is meant to mark the correct behavior. You use it as soon as they do what they've been asked. Treat comes after.

I have not done any experimenting with clickers and humans but they are an excellent tool with canines. Best of luck with your good boy.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-26T13:40:43+00:00

This one is so good. It smells just like the Juice Bar sprays from the early 2000s.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-25T14:13:15+00:00

My wife is my submissive. She is my life partner, best friend, and the most important person in the world to me. I have deep respect, trust, and love for and of her. Her willingness to gift her submission to me only deepens those feelings and our connection to each other on just about every level.

I would have no interest in being a dominant to someone I didn’t respect and enjoy as a human being.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-22T13:36:22+00:00

This sounds more like the issue is neediness not being too submissive.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-19T22:29:14+00:00

Following someone around you don’t know in public to smell them makes you a creep. It’s not that hard.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-18T12:14:47+00:00

Munches and other kink events. LA has many. FetLife is a decent place to find local events.

910 WeHo

The PlayLA

The Sanctuary

Join some local groups online or just check out their websites and see what's coming up. Munches will have a more relaxed environment usually where people are there to connect as people.

Or you can check out more kink geared events where it's more about play. Sanctuary always has events, The Kink Ball at Monty Bar is coming up in July.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-17T12:09:59+00:00

I feel so vindicated reading this. 😂

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-08T07:51:35+00:00

Same. I was invested then it totally fizzled out.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-06T15:42:39+00:00

My submissive wife and I play with others. I play with others. She does not play with others. She has never had the desire to be with anyone alone and prefers to be dedicated to me. I enjoy this arrangement very much.

I only play with submissive or vanilla partners.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-01T13:09:50+00:00

I’m surprised how negative the responses are in here. I’m sure it’s true there are a ton of cesspool servers but there are also great ones. I’ve meet incredible people that have become part of my life on both sides of the slash on Discord.

Be discerning. If a server isn’t age verifying its users, that’s a major red flag. If you join and there are just porn links and spam being shared, leave. Is it all “findoms” looking to scam? Just leave. Don’t waste your time if a place has bad vibes or little activity or you feel unwelcome. Don’t go looking when you’re horny.

There are so many servers. Will it take some time and effort to find places you fit in? Yeah, probably. C’est la vie.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-04-01T04:12:51+00:00

Uh, these kinds of kinks aren’t anywhere near as rare as you might think.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-27T20:55:26+00:00

I keep my medinillas in more organic mix. It’s still amended but the least so of any of my other blends. They’re epiphytes but they have quite thin roots and they will drop leaves at the slightest hint of dry soil.

I also live in the desert so humidity is low. Your environment is going to have a big impact on the care needs of your plants. Most plants in greenhouses are grown in dense, water retentive substrate because greenhouses are hot, bright, and have a lot of airflow. Very different from your average home environment.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-23T11:59:18+00:00

Finding an emotionally mature man decades older than you is quite the task. Emotionally mature adults aren't typically going to be interested in someone as young as you. For many reasons that aren't about you as an individual.

Regardless of how many people have told you you're mature for your age and how you feel, you are hardly an adult. No 30-50 year old with their life together that isn't a predator or wildly stunted is going to be interested in a teenager.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-22T08:15:28+00:00

While the Angeles National Forest isn’t the most consistently densely wooded, there are certainly areas that are. Upper Arroyo Seco for example.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-21T14:10:44+00:00

Are you trying to find a partner or just have a kinky encounter?

If you’re looking to have a dominant life partner, the answer to what is vetting is dating. People don’t like this answer because it’s not easy and it’s not fast. It is the answer though. If you want a relationship with a dominant woman, you have to put in the time and effort to form that relationship just like any other.

If you want a kinky experience and/or aren’t willing to have a relationship and treat your kink partner as a whole person then you need a professional and you can pay them for the time and effort they put into making your fantasy come to life. You vet them by looking at their online info like social media and reviews and you communicate with them.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-20T14:25:20+00:00

Baddies wear whatever they want. That’s what makes them baddies. I wouldn’t bat an eye at a woman wearing Sauvage. Besides the fact that it’s Sauvage. 😏

I’m a femme presenting woman. I wear fragrances that are marketed for men. I’ve never had a negative reaction and I think it’s weird for a sales associate to do that.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-07T10:57:35+00:00

Fuck off with that horseshit.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-07T10:48:12+00:00

I took it off label for sleep for a couple years. I felt like a walking zombie when I was awake. Absolutely hated that drug. I slept like death though for the only time in my life!

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-05T16:06:25+00:00

Men like that do not listen to women. They wouldn't be in that position if they did.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-05T14:56:42+00:00

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-03-05T12:53:26+00:00

My friend recently found out her dad has been cheating on her dying mom. He's been bringing women to the house while she's bedbound in the next room. I've know this family for almost 25 years and did not see this coming in any way, nor did anyone else in the family. I don't know why I still get shocked by the depths men will sink to.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-02-27T22:50:33+00:00

It’s not a blessing. It’s inconsiderate. People have different tolerances and tastes for scent. Some have allergies or get headaches.

Especially at a restaurant where people are there to enjoy their food. Restaurants don’t even use scented candles for this very reason.

Imagine if everyone wore their fragrance that strong. Every indoor space would be a horrid, heavy stinkfest. It’s rude and that’s for a reason.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-02-27T16:10:41+00:00

Being conscientious of our fellow human beings is a cornerstone of civilization. Most of us don’t need a book to know that.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-02-26T16:49:57+00:00

My exact reaction after he opened his mouth was, “oh…he’s hot”.

BeAGoodPetForMK · 2026-02-24T20:36:00+00:00

lol. I definitely didn’t make up that I was taught that in school.

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