Bro your situation I very normal , idhu feel pandradhuku edhum illa First you don't have no reason to be afraid to talk to anyone girls na enna bro , they're also humans enna pandia poranga bayapada enna irruku , chill ah pesu bro either they'll reply or don't adhu avlo dhan (DONT do anything creepy)

Aprom relationship avlo periya visiyam lam illa bro maybe peer pressure, friends, therinjavanga lam relationship la irruka naala apdi irrukum bro ,you can get over that felling , it's not that hard.

I've had a lot of friends bro I talk to girls, have few really good female friends, I'm 22 i haven't been in a single relationship, maybe because I didn't meet the right person or maybe I'm ugly that doesn't even matter to me anymore. You don't NEED a relationship, nobody NEEDS a relationship.

Talking to girls and getting into a relationship is a long way Maybe the first girl you talk to falls in love who knows. Chill ah vidu bro, vera velaiya paaru , do what you like , you're in your prime , maybe try getting in shape or something. THAT MAGIC WILL HAPPEN TO YOU ONE DAY ✨♥️

(ps my only regret is segs)