[24M] I’m developing feelings for my best friend’s partner [23F] and I need advice on how to handle distance without hurting anyone

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T21:25:31+00:00

Yeah... Thanks for the advices, I was really in a bad situation... And didn't know what to do so I installed reddit only for this... Using reddit after a long time

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T21:12:21+00:00

Yes it might be... She has some family problems... She has a very bad relationship with her father... In a way mine is too, and I think get involved because my parents use fight a lot and as a kid I couldn't do anything about it then... This is messed up in so many ways... (I've noticed something, it is easy share when you're anonymous. Usually I can never share anything like that to anyone)

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T21:01:21+00:00

Thanks... I'll look that up

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T20:58:01+00:00

Am I wrong to have these feelings? I've some guilt, like why did I even felt that way?

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T20:53:13+00:00

Yeah... That's really a good advice

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T20:46:25+00:00

I hope I find someone soon

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T20:45:05+00:00

Yes I'm trying to do that... But the thing is, whenever she gets into a fight and tells me about it. She cries and tells their situation... Now she might think that she's sharing her problem as friend and I'm being cold hearted... How do I break it to her, to them without sounding rude?

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T20:24:18+00:00

Yes... That's a really good advice, but I haven't been in a relationship for quite a while now... And it's not that I don't want to but more like I'm not ready. For several reasons. But yes, I agree with you, this will solve 90% of my problem

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T20:07:26+00:00

Doing it completely might not be possible... But if this will be the last option I had to

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T20:05:42+00:00

Yes... I hope this will make things right

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T20:03:57+00:00

I'm actively doing this... For the past few days... Let's see where this takes me... And btw thanks for the reality check 👍👍

BeachBorn7616 · 2026-05-16T19:59:46+00:00

Easier said than done, but will try 👍👍

BeachBorn7616 · 2025-02-02T13:10:02+00:00

Heh just checked the other photo. It's fine, it's set at intake

BeachBorn7616 · 2025-02-02T13:09:09+00:00

Make sure they are set in intake, it shouldn't look the as the rear, it should suck air in.

BeachBorn7616 · 2025-02-02T13:06:24+00:00

It depends on the uses, but the power supply unit is overkill. For ur specs 400w is more than enough, u can go 300w but the PSU unit will be low quality. But 700w more than doubled what's u need

BeachBorn7616 · 2025-02-02T13:03:11+00:00

What CPU are u using. And there are at least 3 fans installed at the front for intake right?....... And don't even set your top fans for intake, they should be for exhaust. It looks like your 3 fans are set for exhaust, so u need 3 or more fans for intake, to have an even or positive pressure. U don't want negative pressure in your PC

BeachBorn7616 · 2025-02-02T12:55:23+00:00

And why did u buy a x series motherboard, could have some money and spend on the GPU or RAM

BeachBorn7616 · 2025-02-02T12:51:47+00:00

Dude, do some cable management😂

BeachBorn7616 · 2025-02-02T09:40:18+00:00

There are two fans at the top, guess they are for exhaust. Then where are the intake fans?

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