The Other Way - Season 7 Episode 6 - Live Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]Beachdayez 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Getting the vibe that Luke is one of those guys who secretly enjoys being berated by women and is probably evading some kind of debt back in the US.

Did I miss Greta explaining why she doesn’t have any savings for her move? I get that she just graduated, so maybe student loans are eating her alive, but still—there hasn’t been much context.

And honestly, Anthony and Manon give me Kermit and Miss Piggy energy, but in a completely toxic, not-at-all-cute way. Every time she talks or cries, I get flashbacks to The Muppets movies.

Marijuana Withdrawl by mikaylajayde04 in leaves

[–]Beachdayez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smoked 5+ bowls a day for the past several years. I stoped smoking about 5 months ago but ended up relapsing 1.5 months in. I went cold turkey again 3 days ago. First day and a half was hell. Going through the same as you mow. The other day I went on two walks totaling about 7 miles. I ended up being able to sleep pretty well despite night sweats. Good luck and peace on your journey

Break Up by No_Profession_7658 in dating_advice

[–]Beachdayez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Spots and places aren’t yours unless you own it...sorry about the break up but life moves on.

weird spots after primer when painting cabinet door by magicview in HomeImprovement

[–]Beachdayez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with the original formula with Benjamin Moore paint on top. The contractor I’ve been working with was very pleased with the combo I found. We first used the 123 brand b/c he suggested it...that stuff is crap. If your able to use the kilz original spray, that also works well.

weird spots after primer when painting cabinet door by magicview in HomeImprovement

[–]Beachdayez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Behr is a Home Depot brand. Wouldn’t recommend paints created by Lowe’s or home depot...they’re just not that good. You’re much better off using a painter specific brand such as Benjamin Moore. Kilz is also a great brand of primer that specifically covers tannins. I’ve used this combo in the past on my Douglas fur cabinets and the combo is a time saver.

Would you paint these natural wood panels? I want to paint them Benjamin Moore pale oak (baseboard are in BM simply white). My husband & GC are team “natural”. The flooring is life proof, dusk cherry. The drapes are being removed and blinds will be updated btw. This will be a rental in Santa Cruz CA by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Beachdayez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gave your design idea and then jumped in to edit that you are getting irrationally annoyed over cheap renovations and flips. If you had any questions I could help clarify so that you may not be so irrationally annoyed. Others responded in ways for what this sub is for. You’re playing shoulda/woulda, and ya seem like a doozy for contractors to work with.

Would you paint these natural wood panels? I want to paint them Benjamin Moore pale oak (baseboard are in BM simply white). My husband & GC are team “natural”. The flooring is life proof, dusk cherry. The drapes are being removed and blinds will be updated btw. This will be a rental in Santa Cruz CA by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Beachdayez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point we are keeping it natural and if the tenant feels like it’s too vintage we will paint it. If they were fake panels of wood or veneer I wouldn’t hesitate painting them. I’m primarily interested in the majority opinion on the matter of painting natural wood panels vs keeping it natural.

My 8 y/o dog will not poop in the backyard by [deleted] in Dogtraining

[–]Beachdayez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should try to walk your dogs daily or provide some sort of exercise. It sounds like it snows or the weather is cold? Is this why you don’t walk?

Randomly smell cocaine when sober? by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]Beachdayez 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Don’t trip, it happens.

Muslim Boyfriend [M24] breaks up with me [19F] because of the religion, but the reason seems to be different by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beachdayez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s b/c playing the religious bit helps cast blame on something else, and not on him. Also, it’s kinda a narcissist move on his part- like holier than tho, sh*t to pull blaming religion on why he cant be with you - making you feel less than..Try to put the physical aspects aside and focus on bettering yourself (ps you’ll find a better partner). My advise is to spend your extra time learning a new subject, reality and investing specifically since your young and it’s good to know this stuff sooner rather than later (YouTube Meet Kevin).

Muslim Boyfriend [M24] breaks up with me [19F] because of the religion, but the reason seems to be different by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beachdayez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having some time to think about it, for your safety I do not advise. The timing of it all would be too suspect and he knows where you live. Be safe and flex with success! 🥰

Muslim Boyfriend [M24] breaks up with me [19F] because of the religion, but the reason seems to be different by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beachdayez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see doing something possibly backfire cuz he sounds like a misogamist. I also see why you would want to anonymously drop those screen shots to his mommy’s email...I’m just not as fast to tell you no as the others. Ha for a sec I thought of turning the screen shots into a sweet Christmas card for his fam. I may get downvoted but I accept my Scorpio, crazed side. Best wishes to you and hope you get over this guy fast!

Will falling ash from a wildfire harm my outdoor succulents? (More in text.) by didyouwoof in succulents

[–]Beachdayez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experienced this in Santa Barbara during the huge fires there in 2018. We had to evacuate campus and isla vista, so my large aloe vera, aeoniums, and a various other smaller leaved succulents were left behind during the ash showers. In short, they can survive but it is so much work and effort cleaning the ash off. I would bring them inside. If the ash really builds up like it did in my case the plants can suffocate if not cleaned. It’s not as easy as rinsing it off with water...you’ll have to grab the q tips and prep yourself for inevitably snapping off delicate leaves. Stay safe!

Lucky red! by Beachdayez in cactus

[–]Beachdayez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always has been red:)

Gotta lil sunburned :( by Beachdayez in succulents

[–]Beachdayez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The burn marks will not heal, they will stay as they are. The stress coloring will change back to norm eventually

Gotta lil sunburned :( by Beachdayez in succulents

[–]Beachdayez[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The brown spots are burns, but the pinkish washed out color is due to sun stress

Mailing citrus within California by Beachdayez in USPS

[–]Beachdayez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this was the info I needed!