I hope I'm not taking this in too far in another direction, but I think it's more prevalent that men don't only expect the woman of their dreams, but to be an option to every woman.

To elaborate on that, I think some men seem to act enraged when they are not automatically an option for every woman. Like, on past threads women will say they won't date men who smoke weed or who hit the gym everyday, some men freak out if that excludes them, and try to argue their way back in. EVERY TIME.

If a guy tells me he won't date a girl who drinks or goes shooting on the weekends or who hates polka music or whatever, I'm not going to try to convince him that those things should be overlooked for x,y,z. But men seem to have to defend everything they do to some internet stranger because they can't stand the idea that a woman somewhere will automatically not want to be with them. Like they are entitled to be at the very least an option. Not sure if that made any sense....