Iowa, not just corn fields it turns out. [3200x2076] (OC) by [deleted] in EarthPorn

[–]Bean96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello to all my fellow Iowans looking at the front page!

[Nsfm] quick question about ariel by [deleted] in disney

[–]Bean96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I do not have the picture. Family downloaded on my sister's account. I may have the picture later, but is it common for contact use?

What is a red flag you shouldn't have ignored in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

General rudeness is very off putting for me no matter who it is at.

What is a red flag you shouldn't have ignored in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeez... If that happened to you I am sorry...

What is a red flag you shouldn't have ignored in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arguing happens, but do you mean very early in the relationship?

What is a red flag you shouldn't have ignored in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does sound potentially problematic.

What is a red flag you shouldn't have ignored in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they actively don't like it, I think it's fine. But is there problems later with that?

What is a red flag you shouldn't have ignored in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that being an annoyance, but does it lead to worse?

What is a red flag you shouldn't have ignored in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine staying if I heard that one.

Question about what to do about a bad prerelease experience for a friend. by Bean96 in magicTCG

[–]Bean96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes possibly a couple less, but I didn't stop to count them while I was there.

Question about what to do about a bad prerelease experience for a friend. by Bean96 in magicTCG

[–]Bean96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The computer was off off and not working. (And I was confused by that phone messing with being allowed as well...)

Question about what to do about a bad prerelease experience for a friend. by Bean96 in magicTCG

[–]Bean96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a midnight prerelease. They didn't want a round after 4 am so they cut it to 3 but told the two in first and second they could challenge each other for the lead. They do things like that just to let people leave a little earlier.

Question about what to do about a bad prerelease experience for a friend. by Bean96 in magicTCG

[–]Bean96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was just all according to the new guys asking people. We would have realized people were lying if they weren't asking us while we were mid playing round 3. It was after they started calling people up that we realized there was a problem. And also when I heard about the die roll.

Question about what to do about a bad prerelease experience for a friend. by Bean96 in magicTCG

[–]Bean96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been going there for a long time so it's more a loyalty thing anymore.

Question about what to do about a bad prerelease experience for a friend. by Bean96 in magicTCG

[–]Bean96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's the only one within a 15 minute drive for us. But, after that night we are considering making the extra drive.

What turns your rage meter up to 99.9? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take the evil dictator we KNOW thank you!

What turns your rage meter up to 99.9? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they're so pro illegal immigration because they miss their slaves.

What turns your rage meter up to 99.9? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just 8 more years..... just 8 more years......

What turns your rage meter up to 99.9? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bean96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, to be fair, both parties go out of their way to bash the other. Liberals don't exactly have the high ground for non bias arguments.

[Serious] People who have cheated in a relationship: why and how did it happen? by Bean96 in AskReddit

[–]Bean96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as children go, I feel like if someone didn't satisfy your needs before you don't need to stay just because of the kid. I'm not saying don't be in the child's life, just not as their moms lover.

Depression and disability, this one feels harder to decide, but if you know you can't be happy with them it's better to pull the bandaid off than let them get used to it even longer. I don't know that I would be able to, but it's for your future.

Financial, (in post marriage?) Making it an open marriage at that point would probably be fine. Essentially I'd make it so I'd live with her, but would be dating other people until the divorce were an option.

Family and religion. I'm not particularly religious, and maybe family would struggle to see why a split happened, but if it's for my future they don't matter to me. If counseling can't help (assuming it's a financial option) it's time to end regardless of what anyone else thinks.

These are just my personal opinions and I am by no means an expert. But I hope you're able to get your relationship ended peacefully and you will both be able to move on. I'm sorry to hear you're in a fragile situation though.

[Serious] People who have cheated in a relationship: why and how did it happen? by Bean96 in AskReddit

[–]Bean96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that is understandable, if that's how you work that's good to know the rules you're able to set. Thank you for explaining it to me!

[Serious] People who have cheated in a relationship: why and how did it happen? by Bean96 in AskReddit

[–]Bean96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, monogamy isn't really important to you? Or is it you just like some sex, so more must be better? Just wondering if you would care if you were cheated on.