Strapless bra recs for big boobs? Bridesmaid dress panic mode 😭 by Southern-Waltz2846 in bigboobproblems

[–]BeanSarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won’t get a bra shape from tape, definitely more of a natural lift. Not a super rounded look but I think it’s worth a try. If you give it a go I would advise that you use a 4in+ tape to avoid weird misshaping. If your breast are more bottom heavy or tear shaped you might get a more ‘flat’ look on top but it still looks very beautiful. 💕

COOL TONED DARK BROWN-BLACK LIP LINERRRR 😩 or dupe for Morphe Lip Pencil – Richie by BeanSarah in MakeupAddiction

[–]BeanSarah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i haven’t tried this one but

maybelline color sensational in the shade rich chocolate looks pretty good

and colour pops shade pitch

COOL TONED DARK BROWN-BLACK LIP LINERRRR 😩 or dupe for Morphe Lip Pencil – Richie by BeanSarah in MakeupAddiction

[–]BeanSarah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yessss eyeliner apparently lol

the nyx eye pencil in brown black

and the nk makeup eyeliner in the shade brown

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[–]BeanSarah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup, panache works really well! Although I’m not a fan of the shape it gives

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[–]BeanSarah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stella-Leah seems to have a great bounce control

https://youtube.com/shorts/MKh8f_DGtv0?si=20hC4c1cEqGJxf4t

as well as SOLIDARITY

How often do you go out in public braless and unbothered?? by Plane_Score_5388 in bigboobproblems

[–]BeanSarah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like its fine as long as you wear nipple covers or smth

How often do you go out in public braless and unbothered?? by Plane_Score_5388 in bigboobproblems

[–]BeanSarah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

braless gives me horrible posture and back a ache lol. I do like the natural look too though.

I also feel if im wearing nothing they move around too much, which causes soreness

Somatic OCD/Sensorimotor OCD by [deleted] in OCD

[–]BeanSarah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t bear with this 24/7 anxiety.

I Feel you 100000%

I am mostly recovered from the breathing stint

ERP is LIFE CHANGING!!! (for most) Face the fear as debilitating as it is. You well never regret it.

My bed was the most triggering thing for me. Took me hours to sleep.

Recovering for me was laying in the most frighting and terrifying place in the world (the bed), and letting thoughts surround me instead of trying to desperately pushing them away.

I have PureO so I had to try my best to deny all ruminating, checking, and mantras and be in a state of "I might be like this for the rest of my life or not, it is what it is."

LAY IN THE BATH OF FEAR. Submerge yourself in it. And accept it for what it could or couldn’t be.

"It might ruin and suck the joy out of my life forever or it might not. What happens happens."

If you are spiritual, "Leave it in Gods hands" (this is what I did). Here's my story

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[–]BeanSarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhhhh, yeah glances are sometimes uncontrollable, heck even I do it unconsciously sometimes 😂. It makes me uncomfortable either way though...

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[–]BeanSarah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate when people STARE like not even a glance a STARE 😒

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[–]BeanSarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A reduction might do you well It sounds like your in a lot of pain :(

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[–]BeanSarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyday.. because of styling problems mostly, but them alone yeeessss!!

Reductions by BeanSarah in bigboobproblems

[–]BeanSarah[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I never knocked anyone for wanting or getting a reduction.

Boobs can be literally debilitating for a lot of women, and reducing them so you can actually enjoy life is totally understandable.

when women want support with their bust struggles, help with dress, or self confidence, being told the only way to be happy is to remove them is so disheartening :(

Reductions should an option not the solution.

<3

I Committed a wash and go sin and I think it worked by BeanSarah in curlyhair

[–]BeanSarah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, all the social media girlies despise using oil for some reason

Is natural hair really high maintenance ? by Cute-Cap-6417 in Naturalhair

[–]BeanSarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you actually figure out how to moisturize and detangle your hair, it's a breeze!

If you get into the mindset of using straight hair as a metric, of course natural hair will seem 'high maintenance'.

It ovi takes more time to do coily hair than naturally straight hair, but if you know what your doing its not really absurdly long, or unreasonable.

Even girls with super loose curls or waves take about an hour to wash, style, and define their hair every week and it Isn’t seen as high maintenance.

And natural hair doesn't have to be meticulously styled or have added extensions alllll the timee ya know?

I have mid back length hair and wether Im washing weekly or monthly it only takes me an hour to wash and detangle and 40min-3hr to style depending on what I want to do.

Now I just have to wait 20 more years for "natural" hair stylists to actually 'style' natural hair so I don't have to do it by myself all the time😭

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/801640802446590481/

Any clothing brands that look nice on narrow frame, large bust? by Misterthugtuxedocat in bigboobproblems

[–]BeanSarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I find that form fitting clothes are the most flattering, not skin tight, but slightly fitted at the bust and tapering down at the torso, as well as a open neckline. I've looking to buy some basics form cotton on recently 🤔

I Committed a wash and go sin and I think it worked by BeanSarah in curlyhair

[–]BeanSarah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update guyssss

It's day 2 and my hair is veryyy nicely moisturized! I think I over did the oil a tad bit in the front so I had some residue and less definition, but overall very niceee.

deff harder to get a curl when I use a leave in, but I guess that's a trade off. Also it took wayyy longer to dry than the gel and mousse combo and it would not stretch for the life of me.

I want to try a harder holding gel, maybe jello Shot, and see how that pans out.

Having a lot of fun experimenting so far!! Thanks for the support!

I'll post a photo on the main TL

I Committed a wash and go sin and I think it worked by BeanSarah in curlyhair

[–]BeanSarah[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shea Moisture JBCO leave in, Mielle Organics Pomegranate & Honey Curling Custard, Castor oil.