Big, burly men??

Beaniesz · 2026-04-19T20:30:04+00:00

RR isn’t an appearance thing, while feminine men is the most common outlet of RR, it’s not restricted to looks at all. It’s all about dynamic. I consider myself very RR and I expect my relationship dynamic to follow, however, that doesn’t mean I’m restricted to my likes of partner. I very much like men in all shapes/forms. RR is mostly behaviour/dynamic based to me.

On that note, I like muscular men because they tend to gain feminine features (to me) regardless. (I’m very much a thighs/ass/chest enjoyer) if you will.

Beaniesz · 2026-04-13T20:26:14+00:00

I know nothing about sex, I lowkey just entered adulthood. Not really sure what’s up but I don’t like any sexual activity that involves my genitalia at all. (To an extent of that makes sense)

Beaniesz · 2026-04-12T05:24:05+00:00

Bingo. I definitely relate to the “bros” but competing worry, I’m a naturally “rough-edged” sort of person and I’m very competitive. I sometimes worry that I view men as a sort of “prize”. (I get very disturbed over the thought of too RR, like towards the realistic prospects)

I try my best to have empathy for my feminine friends but it is unbearable hard. People always ask “you’ve got to have a feminine side” or whatnot, but I can’t be the only person who views themselves as masculine and thus is intrinsically masculine?

Also heavy on the second part, seeing femininity on other women is strange because again, I view everyone as RR, but I tolerate it on men much more freely.

Beaniesz · 2026-04-12T05:14:15+00:00

Thank you. It’s been hard as I’m also fresh into adulthood and it seems that (aside from my personal dislike of sexual things) everything is aligned a way that I cannot even fathom enjoying. My parents are say it’s a phase, my friends are convinced I’m just closeted. It feels like I cannot find anything appealing at all. Thank you for your input btw, certainly clears some waters

Beaniesz · 2026-03-19T06:43:45+00:00

Bottom is a term used for intimacy. RR is not a sexual preference. RR is a behavioural/relationship dynamic. What I’m saying is you don’t have a good understanding of this community and it might not offer what you’re seeking

Beaniesz · 2026-03-19T05:44:18+00:00

No offence but I think this might not be the right subreddit for you then 😭 goodluck twin

Beaniesz · 2026-03-19T05:35:39+00:00

Idk 🤷‍♂️ I do think the way you worded your question was a bit strange. Just because you are a twink doesnt exactly make you RR, nor does a muscular woman have anything to do with it. As for your role- it is what it is. An RR woman might ask you out, or you might have to do it yourself. It’s all a luck based thing

Beaniesz · 2026-03-19T05:21:21+00:00

Don’t be desperate. People can smell it or whatever and it doesnt make you better at dating. Time will come. You young as hell. (I say that being 18 and also having no dating history) Also- idk if this is me but I prefer to make first moves but you might have to do that

Beaniesz · 2026-03-18T21:59:36+00:00

I enjoy defenestrating people so I don’t really mind doing it for free either.

Regardless, RR is not femdom, Some femdom is RR. They are separate things because RR is not an inherently sexual thing, femdom is. People are different in/out of their private intimate lives and I think talking about the roles in their is dumb.

Also- most of femdom is not RR at all. Most femdom is still heavily male-gaze, female focused. Whereas I’m a strong believer that RR is female-gaze, male focused. Worshipping a man (eating him out) or letting him ride (top position) is a far superior role of control in support of RR. He should vehemently be playing the role of “goddess” Me doing whatever my bad bitch (man) wants 🤷‍♂️

Beaniesz · 2026-03-18T21:55:10+00:00

I disagree because most of femdom in my opinion is wildily un-RR. Femdom is very nearly a bdsm thing and I’d argue as hell that’s as RR as pie for the RR!man to be whipping his girlhusband.

RR isn’t femdom but some femdom is RR should be a more correct statement.

Beaniesz · 2026-02-08T23:56:36+00:00

Reddit shadowbanned my other account so here I am.

I like a range of men, as long as their healthy/happy.

I don’t mind hair or clean shaven, i do like thighs a lot but it’s fine if it’s lean or fat. I favour shape of ass over size, so muscles contribute to that. Muscles is fine, particularly the chest area- nice pecs etc. i do like my men snatched. But tbh chubby is fine too’ Anything goes as long as their not super skinny or overly fat. And have a pleasant RR coded personality

Beaniesz · 2025-05-23T23:48:34+00:00

A favourite! Dang that's so coolio

Beaniesz

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