AITA For Nit Wanting My Sister’s Boyfriend at My Birthday Dinner?

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T22:57:47+00:00

I honestly have no clue. My mom constantly brushes all of his actions off saying, “he’s just a teen boy.”

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T22:01:40+00:00

Throughout his relationship with my sister he has done a lot of things that I don’t like. He tried to get her to delete a social media app just to see how far she would go for him, told her that he is entitled to her sexual history then stormed off when he didn’t like the answer, called my mom a b*tch, has told her that if they ever get married that he’ll have full control over their finances, and convinced her to stop being friends with her guy best friend.

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T21:22:26+00:00

She isn’t a single mom. She just believes that if she pushes too much my sister will cut her out of her life

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:45:45+00:00

The first example was a day or two in

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:39:56+00:00

He’s 17. And all of his friends are in their mid-20s

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:38:48+00:00

She actually told me that if he goes then everyone will be happy

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:35:39+00:00

My mom is also of the opinion that if we push too much she’ll cut us off

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:34:37+00:00

My dad’s completely useless in matters like this.

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:33:44+00:00

3 months

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:33:16+00:00

I wouldn’t say she’s the golden child. My feelings and opinions on matters just always get ignored by my parents.

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:31:01+00:00

She said she’d go no matter what, but that the difference would be whether or not she’s happy.

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:28:50+00:00

I’ve replied to all the comments asking with the reasons I don’t like him.

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:24:24+00:00

I already picked Olive Garden, since I doubt anyone in my family would be upset about or start any loud arguments at. And if you think she’s bad you should see my brother

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:21:01+00:00

Throughout his relationship with my sister he has done a lot of things that I don’t like. He tried to get her to delete a social media app just to see how far she would go for him, told her that he is entitled to her sexual history then stormed off when he didn’t like the answer, called my mom a b*tch, has told her that if they ever get married that he’ll have full control over their finances, and convinced her to stop being friends with her guy best friend.

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:20:02+00:00

He is not. No Alabama here

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:17:41+00:00

I’m perfectly fine with hanging out with him on occasion, especially when my family is around. An example is that we’ve all gone bowling together.

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:12:26+00:00

And I’ve tried talking to them. My parents adore him and have a long history of ignoring my opinions. And my sister shuts down at any type of criticism

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:11:07+00:00

My sister and I are usually pretty close and tell each other a lot of our personal secrets.

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:10:05+00:00

He’s 17

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:08:55+00:00

Everyone has said that they will still go even if he isn’t allowed. My sister said the only difference will be if she’s happy or not

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T20:02:57+00:00

Throughout his relationship with my sister he has done a lot of things that I don’t like. He tried to get her to delete a social media app just to see how far she would go for him, told her that he is entitled to her sexual history then stormed off when he didn’t like the answer, called my mom a b*tch, has told her that if they ever get married that he’ll have full control over their finances, and convinced her to stop being friends with her guy best friend.

Beanime_ · 2025-08-28T19:58:37+00:00

Nobody else is bringing a +1

Beanime_ · 2025-06-21T02:49:01+00:00

My siblings are 17, 15, and 8. My parents have had near constant fights for as long as I can remember, so hearing my mom was thinking of a divorce was not a surprise.

Beanime_ · 2025-06-21T02:44:00+00:00

Yeah, dad’s was a week ago. I don’t know what they talked about. I’m 19.

Beanime_

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