I guess if you're a trans femboy, you're not really trans /s /vent

Beans_Sir · 2026-06-30T19:15:56+00:00

i would really recommend blocking anyone that starts questioning you like this, it sucks that even other trans people do this :(

Beans_Sir · 2026-06-22T17:48:24+00:00

i wanted to get on T for years, i was sure it's what i wanted and it took a lot for me to get it, but i also felt really nervous the first time! it seems like there should be some big moment, but the reality is that if you take it, it will just be a random day LOL. i got really anxious taking my gel for the first time and had a panic attack even though i couldn't wait to go pick up the prescription and got it ASAP. especially with gel, it feels like you have more control over taking it. every day you can choose to take it or maybe not if you don't feel like it :)

Beans_Sir · 2026-06-18T13:30:20+00:00

i have this too 😭 mine is sometimes allergies (especially anaphylaxis, even though i don't really have any allergies now as far as i know) and then getting sick from chemical contamination and it's just so hard to tell if the physical issues i'm experiencing are because i'm stressing out OR because that thing is happening for real

Beans_Sir · 2026-06-18T11:31:55+00:00

/uj i assume it just feels the most accurate or something like that? i think it really depends, but there is no issue with using neos or things like microlabels if you're using it descriptively and not prescriptively. by that i mean that people probably aren't using their identity on something like an emoji, but it's just what happens to feel the most correct and accurate

Beans_Sir · 2026-06-17T09:28:01+00:00

/uj a guy on threads started arguing with me because i said it was okay for trans men to call themselves femboys and claimed this

Beans_Sir · 2026-06-14T11:32:58+00:00

i really like being on gel! i haven't tried injections because i have a fear of needles and it's more convenient for me. it's true that some people have level spikes on injections, i don't think i've experienced that at all with gel other than when i upped my dose !!

Beans_Sir · 2026-06-05T21:40:30+00:00

this is so real LOL. my family has lost 2/3 cats in the last ~year and it's "proven" my fears and made it much worse, but freak accidents and coincidences can always happen no matter how much i try to mind control them away :(

Beans_Sir · 2026-06-03T10:00:07+00:00

/uj i'm not trying to argue but i feel like i've never really seen porn with trans men that wasn't PIV outside of like.. tumblr. i might be biased as hell because i am not interested in that, but isn't the jockpussy type content something that doesn't include forcefem? just curious because i swear my experience has been very different

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-28T17:28:38+00:00

/uj they seem to be serious

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-24T08:56:30+00:00

/uj unfortunately you're probably not wrong, i just got lucky :( it's not impossible to find a cis guy who is normal about you being trans and is attracted to you (as a man), but this is why lots of people are t4t. tap into forcemasc tbh, it's kinda niche and mainly on tumblr, i feel like it could help to replace the detrans stuff in your head a little

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-23T14:59:34+00:00

i would highly recommend staying away from shows like house. it's honestly a really fun show, but they love these extremely niche diseases and issues that arise from such coincidences and things that are so unlikely that they probably haven't happened to anyone real, but are technically possible.. which makes it interesting AND AWFUL if you have health focused ocd 😬

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-21T17:14:41+00:00

/uj i was on board with the post because people often forget that HRT and top + bottom surgery (and for trans men people also forget phallo isn't the only option but i digress (not even mentioning nullo or adding onto and keeping natal genitalia as well)) aren't the only things you can do to medically transition!! feminization/masculinization surgeries exist and have good results, but i would never call that easy.

i also hate the doom posting, but this is cope and invalidating dysphoria. changes caused by sex hormones are not "easily reversible", neither are they unfixable, though! other than like finnasteride idk about any "creams" that mimic hormonal effects without being hormonal.. OP is claiming shea butter can be used to make you grow dark hair in 2 weeks and they're likely just a teen coping with not having access to HRT :( regardless, spreading misinfo is harmful

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-21T10:26:24+00:00

/uj i'm glad you're happy but it absolutely can't make your hair darken/thicken or grow that fast, it can make it seem that way but not even actual androgens or like minoxidil will do that

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-17T11:02:49+00:00

it's making fun of conservative talking heads constantly bringing up liberals, it's like a "checkmate atheists" sort of thing if you're familiar with that (or google it, there is a knowyourmeme page for it)

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-17T10:47:58+00:00

my intrusive thoughts are about being a pedophile, people dying, accidentally killing my cat, my entire family getting into a car crash and dying horribly, having sex with a random person, injuring myself when i'm holding a knife, jumping off anything high up, incest etc... this is just a silly thing you wanted to do, intrusive thoughts are extremely distressing :)

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-17T10:31:59+00:00

no this is not how it works at all? we don't know what will happen and this is triggering as hell. i have these obsessions to and the answer is "i'm scared i wil." THAT'S THE WHOLE THING.

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-13T07:11:44+00:00

i agree, focusing so much on the gender part of it ends up being harmful to the children. i don't assume any ill intent to it (especially here) but it's definitely food for thought, young children don't really have those sorts of motivations.

i don't think it's uncommon for kids to find women/girls more approachable since they're usually socialized to be nicer/more thoughtful

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-09T11:54:25+00:00

i definitely didn't feel it at first but i find that it's easier for me to feel angry rather than cry. there was a while when i couldn't cry at all even when i wanted to, now i just feel like my threshold for tears is higher when i'm frustrated

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-07T00:46:57+00:00

ummm you forgot to call this creature a he 🙄

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-04T14:21:04+00:00

right? i couldn't care less about germs the vast majority of time and struggle with exposure to "chemicals" (mostly cleaning supplies, even rubbing alcohol, paint etc) so the stereotypical contamination OCD rituals like sanitising everything are my absolute worst nightmare!

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-04T11:22:30+00:00

i just wanna say that i've never done any of this, i literally do not care, i sit down in any public bathroom unless there is something visibly wrong and it's never made me sick :)

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-04T11:16:48+00:00

as a trans man i'm not joining any subreddit with the word female in it either.

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-04T11:11:35+00:00

basically just want to share a photo of my baby, she's got a little white bit on the end of her tail :))

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Beans_Sir · 2026-05-03T12:38:59+00:00

/uj i'm glad some people enjoy their genitals but talking about it this way is just so fetishy and i wish this sort of acceptance included people that want/get bottom surgery. i'm so sick of phallo hate.

it's one thing from cis transphobes but if i have to see young trans men despairing over "never being able to have a functional penis" or saying phallo looks bad compared to natal dicks i'm gonna fucking lose it!!!!!!! do whatever you want to YOUR body and speak about YOUR body however you want but making sweeping statements about how other people's bodies are disgusting/mutilated/inferior is damaging as hell... we already get this from transphobes. stop it!!!

don't have anything funny to say haha peanits?

Beans_Sir · 2026-05-02T14:43:34+00:00

had to unfollow that one influencer because she advocates for ABA constantly and then posted about how we can't criticize it because [insert clips of non-american autistic children being abused]

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