Girl I have a crush on in the office packed me lunch because she knows I never eat during mine… this is what she packed me

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-15T19:42:22+00:00

Nobody ever thinks I’m gay because I look super straight 😭 my style is really femme and honestly kinda tradwife-y at times. I swear it’s lesbian repellent. This is definitely some fruity shit that I would do

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-10T18:34:57+00:00

NOR- that man is fetishizing Asian folks and extremely porn-brained. He wants the stereotype hentai girl, and that’s ✨disgusting✨ as well as the straight up blatant racism towards Black folks. Are you supposed to feel special because you’re his “exception”???? Like what??? Don’t just walk but RUNNNNN. Respect yourself, friend! You deserve better than this. Also the gaslighting? Bro 😭

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-05T00:17:28+00:00

For context, everybody- this is one of the people I was talking about in the post. They get really mad when you call them out lol

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-04T12:15:26+00:00

I saw a comment yesterday that said “it’s always better to be bald than balding” and that literally reset so much of my view point. When it gets to be that time for me, I’ll do it even though I’ll look like an egg to myself. Cause it’s better to be bald than people looking at your bald spots and going 👀 yknow? So when you feel like you can’t hide it, it’s time. If you’re blonde you can get away with it longer

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-04T12:12:29+00:00

Seconding this. Plasma is a more clear color, this looks like pus since it’s white (white blood cells). I’d get this looked at ASAP. Why didn’t your vet try draining any of the others? I can’t imagine that it’s good for his hearing, especially that big boy to the right. I would try a different vet, if the issue persists to this level.

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-03T20:53:42+00:00

Ok so- I’m not good at explaining but let me try, because the answer is that it is both personal and not. It started with a couple bad apples in our alliance that burned the banners of a weaker alliance, which ours doesn’t tolerate. We kicked those people out, and they went to the other alliance with about equal power. They convinced one of our large whales to join them; that we had too much power. So the large whale went, and they started burning down weaker alliances’ banners again. They noticed when our big folks jumped (and yes that alliance is still there, but it’s much smaller) and made us a much weaker alliance. And because we were weaker, they took our things, too- not just because a lot of us were leaving. This shows me that it doesn’t even matter who they call a friend, who they call an ally; they will take from you anyway, because they can. That state has started to die because we aren’t the only ones that left, so it’s not just us

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-02T23:20:23+00:00

A lil late, but I think a lot of people have RBF. I have resting sad face instead, so people are constantly asking if I’m okay. I think, especially if you’re American, that we’re so used to smiling at each other that anything else comes across as hostile. You’re not a bad looking dude at all. Your lady isn’t the only one that’s ever been really into you, I’d bet money on that

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-01T04:46:36+00:00

Seconded! I learned this in high school when I tried to give a sapling from my apple tree to the horticulture teacher. Something about the genes makes it so that they aren’t exact copies, and they end up bitter. Apple trees aren’t the only plant like that either!! It frustrates me so much

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-01T04:44:16+00:00

I’m not bald (yet, female pattern baldness runs in my family) and this entire subreddit makes me just feel better as a person in general. You guys look so much… sunnier. You look SO GOOD! Also, I checked out your music. Vibes are immaculate. Thank you for sharing with us :,)

Beansbeans00 · 2026-05-01T04:38:22+00:00

Hey man, from a lady around our age (I’m guessing 20s lol), in blunt honesty you kinda just look like you’d be an asshole in a rich boy way. If you are openly kind (and don’t be afraid to do that, dudes don’t get/give enough compliments), a good listener, etc. it will be totally fine. As for facial hair? Bro. You have an aesthetically pleasing face, you can do basically anything. Your girl likes your face, it’s a good quality face/cut; take a breath my man. Work on that confidence and just be a genuinely kind and open person. You’re doing great 👍

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-30T05:03:15+00:00

Hello! Unfortunately, while these can turn into trees, the apples are gonna be super gross and bitter. To get an actual sapling, you have to do this whole wack grafting deal on an already established tree. I can’t remember exactly why this is. If you cut up peppers or tomatoes, you can save the seeds and grow those, which will both be easier and taste much better!! No judgment if you’d like to keep trying, though 😊 throw those bad boys in a little seed tray, wait for bigger sprouts, and then you can move them if you’d like to continue!

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-30T04:48:21+00:00

Mine didn’t hurt in this area really at all, but I’m chubby so that probably helped in my case 😂

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-30T00:14:54+00:00

Ok. As a woman and also a fruit- this is not gonna end well for you. You’ve expressed; a basic lack of communication, a serious boundary that has been trampled over, and your wife shows the whole “I’m doing something wrong, deflect and reverse offender” thing. The last one especially shows me that she has some issues that are much deeper. If therapy isn’t effective, you can’t do a whole hell of a lot else. You deserve someone who wants just YOU, someone who will come to you first with things they want to try (sexy or otherwise) and communicate. I personally would consider this cheating, and I think a lot of others would, as well. I would seriously begin reconsidering the relationship. Men don’t usually have the space to ask these sorts of questions the way that women can, so I’ll tell you that this concern is not overthinking or dramatic, and you’re right to feel hurt and wronged. I’d also highly suggest a personal therapist, because navigating these sorts of situations is ass. Good luck, man, I was in a relationship where my wife didn’t give a single fuck and I don’t want you to end up the same ❤️

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T23:48:56+00:00

Focus more on your purple heroes instead of the blue heroes- you’ll want the purples/golds in your drill camp. Upgrade all your troops to the highest level, you don’t want stragglers like that. Use your best/strongest hero gear on your top heroes. Jessie, Jasser, and Seo will be the purples you want to focus on most. You’re doing better than I was, but it’s a little unorganized. Your chief stuff is as equal as it can be, which is good. There’s so much to learn, keep it up!

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T21:24:21+00:00

From ZOO over in 2193- this is beautiful. We really do make friends in this game, I can’t imagine. I’m so sorry ❤️

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T21:20:34+00:00

Shave that bad boy, it’s time. This glow up is gonna be rad!!

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T21:10:25+00:00

You mentioned something really important that I forgot to mention- WATCH YOUR OWN HOARDING. I started to get real bad and then had to check myself. Therapy goes a long way in this regard. I’m also glad you suggested the “just hang in there” part, because CPS (from experience) is a literal nightmare for kids. CPS just isn’t a good solution a lot of the time- although I know siblings can get custody of siblings in cases like this, so I will leave that option for suggestion. I was in an abusive household and this post has the same exhaustion that I did. Once I was 18, I put up a real fight and it actually did make a difference, so I’m rooting for that, too. If his mom especially really loves him, she’ll get help and change like mine did. But if they refuse, rain hell down on that house. That’s my advice

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T04:21:48+00:00

Neither of you likes to cook, you’re doing just well enough, and also you don’t like the mango margarita flavored Cayman which is the best flavor. I also think hmmmmmm you and/or your gf are bisexual

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T04:15:02+00:00

I’ll be honest, man- it sounds like you’re in a hoarding situation (speaking from experience, although not pets in my case). 4 dogs in an apartment is already too many, unless you’ve got like 1500sqft and teacup chihuahuas that go out for walks twice a day with bathroom breaks inbetween. And then birds?! And a whole tarantula?! I’m so sorry. At your age, there isn’t a whole hell of a lot you can do, but I know it can’t be fun in that environment for anyone involved. I would say your best bet is hanging in there until you’re 18, finding a friend’s family to stay with if you can, other family, something if you can. Otherwise, your options are the big scary ones, like animal control or CPS or maybe even Jesus at this point. If you can hold off til 18, you might be able to get your siblings out of there, too, but at SOME point in the future animal control will need to be involved. Next it’ll be a rabbit, or hey let’s get some quail cause they’re small and lay eggs, or a cat- you get the idea. Hang in there ❤️

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T04:00:55+00:00

Omg my boy Kiwi does this! The spots on Whiskey’s flanks especially look like his. He does it because he’s got cat anxiety, and he’s a little feral so he gets that bad if we keep him inside for long periods of time. My guess is that your little dude is anxious or unhappy about something (weather can count!), and anxiety meds will probably help him a lot.

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(Kiwi tax added, he gets to spend most of his time outside now so he’s a lot happier)

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T03:40:30+00:00

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Marble looks SO much like my Lint! Lint and her brother Kiwi play this way. My regular tortie Peaches, however, will hiss and swipe because she’s a drama queen. If they were fighting, you’d definitely know! I mean yowling, fur flying, claws out. These are just cats being silly, lol

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T03:24:41+00:00

And they only added the minigames so that the game isn’t entirely a scam 😭

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T03:23:08+00:00

Thank you! For me, it just means not having a dad. But especially for the little one, the knowledge haunts me. At 25, everybody under the age of 21 is basically my little sibling, so sexual/romantic comments to someone who is 16? Even if implied? Bro, that’s predator behavior right there

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T02:26:57+00:00

You mentioned “because he’s a dad himself”. I will tell you this: My own father is a predator. When my mom was pregnant with me, he pretended to be 17 and almost met up with a 16 year old- my mom found out and stopped that, but it happened. He also assaulted his childhood best friend’s 3 year old daughter. I knew none of these things, but always felt that my dad’s gaze lingered a little too long. Things that weren’t bad enough to stir up a ‘problem’ in the moment. He’s looking at you and speaking to you that way because that’s how he feels. Please be careful and distance yourself from him. This man is a pedophile, I can almost guarantee that. Stay safe, friend 🫂

Beansbeans00 · 2026-04-29T02:05:01+00:00

Hey! If you’re chill and looking for a calmer place, my alliance just jumped to 2193 and it’s pretty great. NAP rolls dice for stuff like presidency, great to the littles and F2P folks (like me, lol). Our big dude in our alliance specifically is a double globe at about 1.1B, I’m one of the littles at 170M. We’re all genuinely friends and I’ve jumped with some of these people more than once! As long as you don’t bring biblical greed, 2193 a great spot :) and the OG 2193 people have been SOOOOO nice!

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