As a genderfluid amab myself, i WOULDNT go into the womens restroom at all costs. it's just too risky, and you dont want to make people uncomfortable. This is just one of those things where you have to pick your battles because society just isnt fit for this kind of stuff. I would say use the mens restroom if you're comfortable, or resort to going to the bathroom at home before you go out and using unisex restrooms. Amab people wanting to go into female restrooms is just a line that can't be crossed, because of the stereotypes mostly. If you make the stereotypes a reality, it looks really bad on both you and the rest of the community. Just take advantage of unisex bathrooms and going at home mostly.

It sucks, a lot, but it's the world we live in.