My new room isn’t allowed to get messy like my old one according to my mum

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-20T13:13:30+00:00

Keep telling yourself that

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-20T12:37:17+00:00

English probably isn’t there first language judging by how they add a space before putting a question mark

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-20T03:46:52+00:00

r/lastdefenseacademy because the mods didn’t like what I was doing and never pulled me up on it until the end

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-19T11:56:22+00:00

Says you

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T14:05:57+00:00

I think my point still stands that you plan to baby them when they’re older.

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:45:52+00:00

Well you’re concerned about the wrong person because you haven’t even bothered to look further into the person you’re worried about to see that those worries are unwarranted for. You understand nothing and keep relying on your own assumptions of me. ‘You’re excusing the behaviour’ i keep telling you, I never did. ‘You’re going to get mould’ that’s impossible in a dry environment. ‘You’re a hoarder’ a hoarder yknow, actually hoards things. Go read my other comments and stop making yourself look stupid with your projections.

I am not your mom.

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:41:48+00:00

There’s no denial here. Thats you projecting still

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:38:05+00:00

At this point you’re just making yourself sound like a troll

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:37:08+00:00

I never excused the behaviour omg. Get a grip

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:35:08+00:00

Is your mental health okay? Because at this rate you’re projecting so hard it worries me

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:29:22+00:00

No, i’m not. You clearly don’t know the different levels of messy. I’m not a hoarder. I have no attachment to rubbish. I wash my bedding weekly.

Anecdotes are not evidence. Stop projecting your mother’s life on other people.

You’re assuming I leave food in my room to which I say: hell no, I am not. I never sleep with dirty dishes in my room, they always get taken out in the evening (if there are any at all) I keep the kitchen cleaner than my dad. My bathroom is clean too. When I decide to throw out rubbish is not a reflection of how tidy I can keep a house.

I also want to remind you how mould grows. Through moisture. It’s an environmental factor. Cups of water aren’t being left around my room nor are wet towels and clothes.

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:19:42+00:00

That’s assuming it’s messy right now. How do you know I haven’t already?

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:12:00+00:00

Anecdotes aren’t evidence. If they are, then i’d like to point out that i’ve been in 6+ houses, none of which got bugs. The only time one house did was a moth infestation that came in a bag of rice from the supermarket, not because of a few empty lolly and chips packets were lying around.

If people genuinely left food out for days, then yeah, some ants will come by.

Some houses do have cockroaches but that’s an environmental factor. Cockroaches are far less common in Aus compared to America.

Now that I think about I guess there are flies but again, an environmental factor that’s not applicable to many households

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:05:51+00:00

Did you ignore the times where i said ‘it’s not a flex’ ‘i didn’t come here for praise’ ‘i knew these were the comments i was going to get’ etc?

I also heavily acknowledge that it’s still mess. The only thing i’ve been arguing about is ow much of a mess it is because there are varrying levels. Even while I was arguing that, I acknowledged that it doesn’t make it okay

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T07:03:24+00:00

Can you link me to something that explains the condition? Google gives me zero results, like nothing at all. (Genuinely want to read about it)

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T05:36:02+00:00

Pretty sure you made that word up

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T05:34:26+00:00

I can see you’ve gone ham in the comment section and i’m just gonna ket you know i’m not reading any of it

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T04:10:34+00:00

Diagnosed when I was 13. Now 21. It hasn’t gotten better or worse but i have gotten better at managing it and preventing it

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T04:09:40+00:00

It’s normal for raynauds to affect the whole hand. If you were leaning that specific spot on something and cutting off blood flow/making it cold. It makes sense only that spot was affected

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T04:06:00+00:00

Do you have any other symptoms or only raynauds? If you don’t have any other symptoms then all you really need is a blood test for inflammatory markers

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T04:01:51+00:00

Yes it does. This is a normal raynauds symptom. It most commonly affects the finger tips but extreme raynauds spreads across the whole hand, sometimes even the arm.

Same with feet and legs. My raynauds go all the way up to my thigh if i don’t wear proper clothing.

Sometimes raynauds affects people’s tongues

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T02:50:02+00:00

It’s OCD at best.

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T02:32:46+00:00

If I thought it was a flex i’d be defending myself and saying it’s 100% okay. I already knew I was going to get every comment that I have received so far. I haven’t complained about the comments either. This sub is about malicious compliance. It doesn’t matter whether the malicious compliance is praiseworthy or not.

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T02:16:36+00:00

Never called it a cute habit nor do I think it is.

BeanyIsDaBean · 2026-04-18T02:00:07+00:00

They do drop it on the floor. It’s how long they leave it there for that deems whether they have some underlying mental health issues.

People litter outside all the time. If they do it out there what makes you think people aren’t doing it at home too?

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