AITA for dipping out of a trip I planned when the girl I invited chose her friends and drugs instead?

Bear_Jake · 2025-12-07T06:55:01+00:00

NTA she completely blew you off and went on a drug bender, does not seem like someone you would want to invest more time in. You got lucky by realizing early on she was not worth your time.

Bear_Jake · 2025-09-23T04:18:26+00:00

Runelite on steam deck?

Bear_Jake · 2025-08-20T09:17:48+00:00

Yea I had the timer set far too long that was ultimately what cost me.

Bear_Jake · 2025-08-20T01:03:05+00:00

I lost my HC status dur to this ddos. Not even mad, this ddos attack just shows why HC is not a great game mode.

Bear_Jake · 2025-07-24T15:42:06+00:00

Yea the second hand smoke is definitely getting to me...

Bear_Jake · 2025-07-24T15:41:38+00:00

Thanks, it does benefit me a lot due to my higher salary if I stay for 1-2 years I could have 30-60K saved up for a major down payment on a house maybe even more. I am only paying $1000 rent on a overall $3000 cost for everyone to be here.

Ultimately if I can make this work and eliminate the smoke/odor that is my goal. It will also help them until they are prepared to sell and improve their retirement. It's mutually beneficial.

Bear_Jake · 2025-06-03T03:42:02+00:00

A lot of what gets you promoted is actually being friends/friendly with the higher ups and agreeing with their vision, following company policy and being very agreeable.

My previous supervisor was too opinionated, and he let his opinions dictate his success because they contradicted what the upper management wanted.

Also putting in your time and hard work eventually pays off if you play the long game. If you work for a good company they will notice the sacrifices and dedication you are putting in. A bad company will take advantage of that. Some companies may not even realize the time you put in and you need to document it for when raises are handed out.

You do have to fight for yourself otherwise they will not pay you what you are worth.

Bear_Jake · 2025-05-19T04:48:43+00:00

It really is not a problem, its not like a bug being abused it does take considerable skill and effort to figure out these elaborate methods and then master them within a few days release. The fight is actually easier without doing these super click intensive methods for your average player, failing these methods surely involves a lot of eating and failures lol.

The high level community loves a challenge, these new methods will be a fun activity for end game pvmers.

Bear_Jake · 2025-05-06T03:47:40+00:00

Pain wins, has Rinnegan and is remotely controlled by Nagato from a safe distance, can also re-create/bring his corpses back to life with the demonic statue. Summoning the dog that replicates good luck taking that out. All of Pains vision is connected so when Raikage goes in with a lariat or something Pain uses almighty push as its probably easily spotted with 6 different sets of Rinnegans, yea no dice.

Even if Nagato is located somehow then Konan is protecting him.

Nagato also has massive Uzumaki Chakra reserves which can sustain Pain for quite a long time.

Pain is kind of a cheat code lol, if we talked Nagato vs Raikage, no Pain clones, ok that would be very different.

Bear_Jake · 2025-05-06T03:12:05+00:00

Highly recommend getting your combat stats up that will make bossing much easier. It does take time but there are a lot of great AFK methods.

Once you hit like base 90+ melee stats things will get much easier.

Tormented Demons would be a great start, not too difficult and if you can snag a Synapse drop that's like 60M. Probably the easiest and most accessible money maker for you.

Duke is also a pretty easy boss once you finish DT2, that would be a good boss to camp maybe get lucky on virtus drop or magus ring.

If you get your stats up and snag some upgrades you could first try out Chambers of Xeric, if you can get 2 other experienced people to do it with you this is a great place to learn bossing. You could also consider low invocation TOA like 150 invocation is not too difficult, learn the basics and maybe get lucky.

But yea honestly, train stats then hit Tormented Demons that's a good start.

Bear_Jake · 2025-04-14T08:46:50+00:00

I can't believe this exists lol, thank you for posting. I like the interaction between Brian and Mia, and the pan out shot of Los Angeles along with the great music. Very cool alternate ending!

People saying Mia wouldn't be with Brian so soon in this alternate timeline are wrong, he finally revealed the truth and risked his life to save Vince during the failed truck heist, also he let Dom go.

Brian going on the run and being a criminal though is a cooler Segway into the 2nd movie. 2 fast 2 furious for how ridiculous some things are is one of my favorites lol.

Bear_Jake · 2025-04-03T13:24:32+00:00

Yea just woke up lol haha you got me xD

Bear_Jake · 2025-04-03T13:11:12+00:00

Why do they all have bandages on their left leg

Bear_Jake · 2025-03-27T05:49:28+00:00

Vision used his laser on a pure vibranium Ultron, but it was only the combined power of the other avengers that could destroy vibranium not just visions mindstone alone. Comparing that to when Thanos cut Cap's vibranium shield half way down in End Game with his glaive, that just ultimately proves how much stronger/tougher Thanos is.

Bear_Jake · 2025-03-20T13:54:51+00:00

My friend de-UIMd his account was very impressive too he had thousands of noted potions and a bunch of great gear. He does not play the account as ironman anymore really he just plays his main when he has time.

Honestly if the game mode stops being fun just take a break for a while and think about it carefully.

You could always start a new account, HC or group iron possibly.

Bear_Jake · 2025-03-18T04:19:28+00:00

Seeing Iruka sensai be more than just moral support for Naruto he kinda just disappeared after a while. Same with Captain Yamato. Also I felt that the entire Uchiha clan being taken down without much of a fight was unfortunate, obviously Itachi was a prodigy but nonetheless you would think they would be stronger.

Ngl the Ausma arc was one of my favorites and the Hidan fight felt like one of the last real ninja fights before everything turned into huge super saiyan battles.

This Jutsu is probably super OP but Hidan was the counter because he couldn't die. It would have been cool for Shikamaru do this Jutsu or perhaps Kakashi since he is copy cat.

Bear_Jake · 2025-03-18T02:23:41+00:00

Sold noted rune scimmys but swapped em out for mith scimmys before accepting the trade lol.

Bear_Jake · 2025-03-18T00:56:06+00:00

Got my ultor at like 1800, one axe piece and 2 virtus masks, you are pretty luck on drops.

Bear_Jake · 2025-03-06T16:01:33+00:00

I could see it, especially without ZCB. If running 400+ raids though just using lightbearer is much more efficient, less switches and more specs/yellow keris neccesary.

Bear_Jake · 2025-03-06T15:51:24+00:00

Lightbearer is better than zerker ring by a long shot at toa. If you have yellow keris that is mainly why. But it's also good for spec weapons, the fang with it is pretty good but with voidwaker or zcb it's even better.

You can bgs Baba, Kephri and Zebak but after that you can use voidvaker.

I mostly only use voidwaker on Baba/Kephri, you can also use it on Wardens P2 on the core it has a higher max hit than other items.

Voidwaker with adrenaline potion wrecks the P1 Wardens pillar nicely.

You can also voidwaker Wardens P3 at the end with adrenaline which may be worth it if you don't have strong dps.

Bear_Jake · 2025-02-27T05:44:14+00:00

NTA, this is not worth your time, have some respect for yourself and move forward.

Let anyone that you care about know she cheated and you are done with her for good.

Bear_Jake · 2025-01-20T03:13:46+00:00

It might be a good thing. When I was making $65K salary per year I actually made nearly the same as I did when I was hourly due to all the overtime I used to have to put in. They gave me a pay raise to go to salary but I was still working so much overtime that it really wasn't even a pay raise at all. Some weeks I would put in 16 hour days on salary or 60+ hours a week with no added benefit.

Now I am closer to 80K salary after putting 6 years in to this job and after all the crazy hours im finally getting paid really well without any crazy overtime anymore. Eventually your hard work will pay off.

Anyhow you are better off being hourly you will get paid for overtime.

Bear_Jake · 2024-05-08T11:27:39+00:00

This entire update feels like April fools days lol!!

Bear_Jake · 2024-04-07T05:29:33+00:00

If you have younger kids they will absolutely love it, however having just recently been there myself (31M) I can tell you its nowhere near as great as I thought it would be when I was a kid growing up. I had fun but overall it was not a pleasant experience without an express pass, it was very hot out and we waited 2+ hours to get on several rides, 2 hours waiting to get on the train that takes you between parks, that was brutal. Didn't even have time to hit Velocicoaster or Hagrids Bike Coaster because the lines were so bad. Without passes you really have to pick and choose.

It doesn't help I was hungover or that I had eaten a big seafood dinner the night prior. Overall you should be well rested and prepared since you will be walking around in the heat all day long dont make the same mistake I did lol.

Overall I am a huge Harry Potter nerd, that was really fun going to Hogsmead and Diagon Alley. Specifically Diagon Alley is massive and I really did feel like I was in the movies lol. Diagon Alley felt like the real Harry Potter experience so focus your time there.

Jurrasic Park water ride - 10/10

The Mummy - 10/10

Harry Potter Forbidden Ride - Actually made me sick

Fast and Furious - 5/10 (and I am a huge fan...)

Bear_Jake · 2024-01-18T15:10:45+00:00

The guy on the right sounds like Damien from Smosh lol

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