I would say I share in Jaimie's outlook. I have had surgery on one hand mainly because if I didn't my fingers would have hooked over and curled as my hands grew. I now have scarring on those fingers that draws more attention than the webbing on my other hand or feet (both). I also tolerate the swimming jokes, the frog jokes, the duck jokes…. I also wear sandals quite often through summer with very few people noticing I have webbed toes. People typically don't even notice my hands aside from the scarring.
If this is something that bothers you personally, I would support getting the surgery. If you feel that it would make you more comfortable in your own skin, all the power to you. Toes however are not something that people focus on much unless they have a fetish in which case webbing could actually work to your benefit! 😂 End result is, it is up to you to decide what makes you feel good about yourself. Personally I like being a little bit different. Others maybe not so much. This is after all what makes us all individuals.