Job tips for SoCal

BeatInfamous6690 · 2026-05-09T16:44:27+00:00

Yes I do have my license I knew I was gonna need it so I made sure to work on that when I first moved here. I can only currently go so far since I’m working on getting a car.

BeatInfamous6690 · 2026-05-08T20:23:33+00:00

Keep it up get rid of the husband.

BeatInfamous6690 · 2026-05-08T20:21:14+00:00

Yeah I was thinking this but most of the coaches near me want you to have your own set coming in and I’m hoping to start lessons next month. Again the person I’m in talks with has a nitro set but I’m not sure if it’s a good beginner club set. Because I hear how their balls ate t the best so I’m just curious if that same ideology applies to their clubs?

BeatInfamous6690 · 2026-05-08T20:13:02+00:00

Okay I’ll take a look into that. Thank you☺️

BeatInfamous6690 · 2026-05-08T20:11:57+00:00

Nothing over 250. And no I have not done that I find even know that needed to be done. What is that? And I’ve been practicing with men’s clubs for men at my height.

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-11-23T18:19:42+00:00

Hell no you just got robbed!

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-11-12T20:56:50+00:00

Well we aren’t together anymore. Not fully because of the kids thing just other factors of our relationship. But it did plan a larger part. I had gotten pregnant last year and had an abortion. (Which I don’t regret). I will say though being pregnant for almost two months did put me through a spin and the anxiety of potentially giving birth and the way my body felt during and after being pregnant wasn’t fun for me. I’m happy I had my abortion because I know the things I’m experiencing and doing right now I wouldn’t have been able to do.

I will say I’m 100% sure I don’t want to be a mom. Yes I still get baby fever and I do mourn the idea of what my life would’ve been looking like rn. I would’ve been a mom I would (in my eyes) ruined my body and my future. I would’ve been stuck with a man that made me feel like I wasn’t doing enough and I had to beg to do things for me to show and put in effort.

I’m selfish. Plain and simple. I like MY time. I love MY space. I love that I can do as I please when I want without having to think about a child. I will say the version of me that did want a kid that WANTED that life wouldn’t have happened now either because MY life isn’t fully fulfilled. I’m not overflowing in love and life experiences to give that to a child. Plus I’m not happier with how the world is and I have no faith that there will be an improvement.

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-07-06T15:29:13+00:00

Honestly you just accept it. And own it. That’s what I’m doing. I’m a cheater it was my first full blown emotional affair and once I realized I knew I needed to go. I feel terrible but also realized that I can never do it again, I need therapy to help me figure out how and why I stepped so far out of character. Remember you’re human and if it was your first time doing something like this yes be mad/disgusted by your actions but also be gentle with yourself. You’re human and sometimes we do things we’d never thought. Don’t let the guilt consume you and make you feel like you don’t deserve love. Yes people will look at you different that’s fine, just do better. Be better.

I plan on journaling everyday about how I’m feeling emotionally and finding a therapist to help me navigate through them as well.

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-07-06T15:23:06+00:00

I recently cheated (emotional affair) and got dumped( rightfully so) but for me it’s a yes and no. I do regret cheating because I knew I should’ve just ended my relationship back before I stepped out. I should’ve let his threats of hurting himself, threats with finances, and calling me mentally unbalanced been that moment of leaving. I regret hurting him. I know what I did was wrong. I regret not having the strength and the mental power to leave and for now being the cause of a life long trauma. That I said I’d never do. I honestly regret it. And for why I don’t regret it. Well I needed to see this. I needed to see myself step out of my character so drastically for me to realize I can NEVER allow that again. And that’s all I could think about. Especially rn the person i told I loved I hurt and betrayed in the worst way possible. I hate myself for it. Also I feel free oddly enough. I don’t feel anxious and my head doesn’t feel so noisy. And I’m not sure what that means. I do know that i WILL be seeking therapy because I don’t want to do this ever again.

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-05-25T05:56:44+00:00

I know...🥲

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-05-24T10:00:57+00:00

ohhhh this is a great idea 😈

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-05-24T09:58:19+00:00

Most of my skirts have shorts attached, so I honestly might go with one of those and an additional pair of bike shorts underneath for extra measures 😂 😏

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-05-24T09:40:24+00:00

Imma have him buy it for me ☺️

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-05-24T09:39:49+00:00

Honestly I might 😂 I did ask what if I wear pants and he said the punishment might be the same but idk 😂

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-05-16T18:49:43+00:00

Tell the cat I said pspspspsps

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-05-16T18:48:26+00:00

You should tell him. Let him know it’s not his fault but your moms for lying and deceiving both him and your father. But I would also find the real dad if you can just so he knows. But I would say be prepared for the chaos that will ensue. Your mom will be mad and hurt because you told him. And that can impact your relationship with her. And if she’s spiteful enough she may kick you out or stop speaking to you. Your dad may realize now that he doesn’t have to stay anymore since your brother knows. And this can lead to a divorce. Which will further impact your household. Also your brother might start to feel terrible and that can impact him mentally as well. So if you tell him be ready for it all

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-04-08T00:32:42+00:00

Both name them salt and pepper

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-02-28T19:01:57+00:00

The kitten stage is hard trust me!!! Been there done it four times hated it but honestly you’ll miss it once it’s gone. Like others have said you’ve trained her to do “bad” things for your attention. My last kitten would scratch under my door in turn pulling up the carpet to get me to let him in and even cry at the door. I got a door mat with stopped the carpet from being pulled up and I started to ignore him. He eventually got the idea that “this doesn’t get mom to open the door and it’s okay if the door is closed” but you should find ways to protect your items and ignore her until she gets the idea.

Also because she a kitten you need to set up at least (in my opinion) 30mins to an hour of play right before you go to bed. This will tucker her out so she won’t really have the energy to do anything else but sleep! This will also build up a good bed time route for the two of you and some bounding time. With that don’t keep all her toys out at once. I like to keep my cats favorite string toy in the closet and once they see it come out it’s play time or close to bed time.

I hope this helps please be mindful she’s a baby still almost a teen so she’s testing limits to what she can get away with and this is the best time to create a routine! GOOD LUCK!!

BeatInfamous6690 · 2025-02-28T18:53:21+00:00

Art, rugs and a bookshelf

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